i just said goodbye to someone i cared about

moshquerade

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the friendship was great in the beginning, but has become so one sided.
lately he never contacted me, and responded less and less to my contacting him.
i've decided he's not worth my time.

feels good to wash my hands.
 

gururu

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very sorry to hear that. sometimes I feel like I'm not keeping up to my end of the bargain in some relationships, but its just the way i am and has no bearing about how i feel about them. time just passes so fast. are you sure he wasn't truly interested in maintaining the relationship?

you do have to look out for your needs though, and if they aren't being fulfilled moving on was the right thing to do.
 

anxi80

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what a coincidence! i just said goodbye to an old friend also. feels good to wash his blood off my hands, err...
 

FuZoR

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so what you tell him... dont call me anymore i dont want to talk to you anymore

heh
 

moshquerade

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i asked if he would like me to stop contacting him

he asked what i expected of him

i said, "nothing"
 

Kilgor

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Sounds like you had more of a boyfriend relationship than just friend the way you are putting it. I?ve never really expected any of my friends to call me or the other way around.
 

djheater

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Originally posted by: Kilgor
Sounds like you had more of a boyfriend relationship than just friend the way you are putting it. I?ve never really expected any of my friends to call me or the other way around.

You're obviously not a girl ;)

Moshquerade, I reccomend a Perrin Reserve Cotes Du Rhone, available at Costco and only $8 a bottle, get several, some cheese, perhaps some pate, play music loudly and you'll be fine by morning. :)
 

mobobuff

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Originally posted by: djheater
Originally posted by: Kilgor
Sounds like you had more of a boyfriend relationship than just friend the way you are putting it. I?ve never really expected any of my friends to call me or the other way around.

You're obviously not a girl ;)

Moshquerade, I reccomend a Perrin Reserve Cotes Du Rhone, available at Costco and only $8 a bottle, get several, some cheese, perhaps some pate, play music loudly and you'll be fine by morning. :)

I read, "perhaps some plate"...



... well it was funny at the time...
 

DOSfan

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Originally posted by: moshquerade
the friendship was great in the beginning, but has become so one sided.
lately he never contacted me, and responded less and less to my contacting him.
i've decided he's not worth my time.

feels good to wash my hands.

Quick question Mosh...

Why would you do the same if the roles were reversed?

I ask, becasue I know a woman who is doing something similar with me.

And in some way, this might help you too. ;)
 

sniperruff

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just remember moshquerade... effort never equals results... it doesn't just apply to a relationship, but to a lot of things in life also...

why? because i've experienced it first hand... just because you really care about someone doesn't always mean the other person would care about you too...

heh i feel so old. and i'm only 22...
 

PingSpike

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Originally posted by: djheater
Originally posted by: Kilgor
Sounds like you had more of a boyfriend relationship than just friend the way you are putting it. I?ve never really expected any of my friends to call me or the other way around.

You're obviously not a girl ;)

Neither is the guy in question.
 

Orsorum

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Originally posted by: Kilgor
Sounds like you had more of a boyfriend relationship than just friend the way you are putting it. I?ve never really expected any of my friends to call me or the other way around.

lol Exactly. I have friends I don't see/talk to more than once or twice a year, others I see weekly. Just depends on the person, their location, and their schedule.
 

Orsorum

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Originally posted by: djheater
Originally posted by: Kilgor
Sounds like you had more of a boyfriend relationship than just friend the way you are putting it. I?ve never really expected any of my friends to call me or the other way around.

You're obviously not a girl ;)

Moshquerade, I reccomend a Perrin Reserve Cotes Du Rhone, available at Costco and only $8 a bottle, get several, some cheese, perhaps some pate, play music loudly and you'll be fine by morning. :)

Sounds like a fun night.
 

moshquerade

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Originally posted by: DOSfan
Originally posted by: moshquerade
the friendship was great in the beginning, but has become so one sided.
lately he never contacted me, and responded less and less to my contacting him.
i've decided he's not worth my time.

feels good to wash my hands.

Quick question Mosh...

Why would you do the same if the roles were reversed?

I ask, becasue I know a woman who is doing something similar with me.

And in some way, this might help you too. ;)
my thing is i wish he would just come right out and say yeh, stop bugging me. i give him enough
opportunities to do so, but he won't. he keeps stringing me out.

if the roles were reversed i would let my intentions be known. if i wasn't interested i would not keep
up any nice-ities.
 

Koing

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Originally posted by: Ameesh
Well DOOM 3 is coming out soon! cher up

lol

That is from the other thread with that guy right?

Koing
 

moshquerade

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i.am.so.weak.


i just emailed him. what is it about guys that are hard to get that makes them more desirable?