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Hyperblaze

Lifer
May 31, 2001
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Originally posted by: HotChic
Originally posted by: Hyperblaze
Originally posted by: HotChic
Originally posted by: Hyperblaze
This has to be a joke right?

Nope.

so if you don't mind me asking, why the big secret?

or did you just think it was none of our business (which it wasn't)

No reason to tell OT and more fun to do it this way. :)


okay. as you wish.

ps, before i forget, why don't you get rid of your disclaimer?
 

linuxboy

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Oct 9, 1999
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Wendell Berry - The Country Of Marriage

I.

I dream of you walking at night along the streams
of the country of my birth, warm blooms and the nightsongs
of birds opening around you as you walk.
You are holding in your body the dark seed of my sleep.

II.

This comes after silence. Was it something I said
that bound me to you, some mere promise
or, worse, the fear of loneliness and death?
A man lost in the woods in the dark, I stood
still and said nothing. And then there rose in me,
like the earth's empowering brew rising
in root and branch, the words of a dream of you
I did not know I had dreamed. I was a wanderer
who feels the solace of his native land
under his feet again and moving in his blood.
I went on, blind and faithful. Where I stepped
my track was there to steady me. It was no abyss
that lay before me, but only the level ground.

III.

Sometimes our life reminds me
of a forest in which there is a graceful clearing
and in that opening a house,
an orchard and garden,
comfortable shades, and flowers
red and yellow in the sun, a pattern
made in the light for the light to return to.
The forest is mostly dark, its ways
to be made anew day after day, the dark
richer than the light and more blessed,
provided we stay brave
enough to keep on going in.

IV.

How many times have I come to you out of my head
with joy, if ever a man was,
for to approach you I have given up the light
and all directions. I come to you
lost, wholly trusting as a man who goes
into the forest unarmed. It is as though I descend
slowly earthward out of the air. I rest in peace
in you, when I arrive at last.

V.

Our bond is no little economy based on the exchange
of my love and work for yours, so much for so much
of an expendable fund. We don't know what its limits are--
that puts us in the dark. We are more together
than we know, how else could we keep on discovering
we are more together than we thought?
You are the known way leading always to the unknown,
and you are the known place to which the unknown is always
leading me back. More blessed in you than I know,
I possess nothing worthy to give you, nothing
not belittled by my saying that I possess it.
Even an hour of love is a moral predicament, a blessing
a man may be hard up to be worthy of. He can only
accept it, as a plant accepts from all the bounty of the light
enough to live, and then accepts the dark,
passing unencumbered back to the earth, as I
have fallen tine and again from the great strength
of my desire, helpless, into your arms.

VI.

What I am learning to give you is my death
to set you free of me, and me from myself
into the dark and the new light. Like the water
of a deep stream, love is always too much. We
did not make it. Though we drink till we burst
we cannot have it all, or want it all.
In its abundance it survives our thirst.
In the evening we come down to the shore
to drink our fill, and sleep, while it
flows through the regions of the dark.
It does not hold us, except we keep returning
to its rich waters thirsty. We enter,
willing to die, into the commonwealth of its joy.

VII.

I give you what is unbounded, passing from dark to dark,
containing darkness: a night of rain, an early morning.
I give you the life I have let live for the love of you:
a clump of orange-blooming weeds beside the road,
the young orchard waiting in the snow, our own life
that we have planted in the ground, as I
have planted mine in you. I give you my love for all
beautiful and honest women that you gather to yourself
again and again, and satisfy--and this poem,
no more mine than any man's who has loved a woman.

 

tami

Lifer
Nov 14, 2004
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today is our 5th month wedding anniversary (03/20), and my husband, BMdoobieW, is also an anandtecher ;) i basically joined AT because of him.
 

bootymac

Diamond Member
Aug 20, 2001
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Whoa.. this is exactly like those scary online relationships that end in murder :Q

Or Kip + Lafawnduh :D
 

AreaCode707

Lifer
Sep 21, 2001
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Originally posted by: Hyperblaze
Originally posted by: HotChic
Originally posted by: Hyperblaze
Originally posted by: HotChic
Originally posted by: Hyperblaze
This has to be a joke right?

Nope.

so if you don't mind me asking, why the big secret?

or did you just think it was none of our business (which it wasn't)

No reason to tell OT and more fun to do it this way. :)


okay. as you wish.

ps, before i forget, why don't you get rid of your disclaimer?


Why?
 

BMdoobieW

Diamond Member
Oct 26, 2000
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Congrats!

How did you get engaged before ever talking on the phone or meeting up in person?
 

linuxboy

Elite Member
Oct 9, 1999
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Originally posted by: BMdoobieW
Congrats!

How did you get engaged before ever talking on the phone or meeting up in person?


What can be set to human thoughts in what the common seeks cannot so easily be true. Indeed, it seems to me that the deepest and most profound exists in that space between words and thoughts, in that space between when you know she will smile and know exactly why.

How can anything make sense in this crazy world, my good sir, except for love?

Cheers ! :)
 

Hyperblaze

Lifer
May 31, 2001
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Originally posted by: HotChic
Originally posted by: Hyperblaze
Originally posted by: HotChic
Originally posted by: Hyperblaze
Originally posted by: HotChic
Originally posted by: Hyperblaze
This has to be a joke right?

Nope.

so if you don't mind me asking, why the big secret?

or did you just think it was none of our business (which it wasn't)

No reason to tell OT and more fun to do it this way. :)


okay. as you wish.

ps, before i forget, why don't you get rid of your disclaimer?


Why?


Because (in my opinion anyways) it's not true
 

tami

Lifer
Nov 14, 2004
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Originally posted by: linuxboy
Originally posted by: BMdoobieW
Congrats!

How did you get engaged before ever talking on the phone or meeting up in person?


What can be set to human thoughts in what the common seeks cannot so easily be true. Indeed, it seems to me that the deepest and most profound exists in that space between words and thoughts, in that space between when you know she will smile and know exactly why.

How can anything make sense in this crazy world, my good sir, except for love?

Cheers ! :)

well yeah, doobie and i got engaged after 7 weeks. we just... knew. ;)
 

tami

Lifer
Nov 14, 2004
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Originally posted by: suse920
why id a mod editing all of your posts? Also congrats and good luck.

i thought i answered this question from you the other day.

people have the ability to edit their sigs to make it appear that way. :p
 

linuxboy

Elite Member
Oct 9, 1999
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Originally posted by: Astaroth33
Congratulations! I'd wondered what happened to Linuxboy...



ah..

aurora leigh, Browning:


OF writing many books there is no end;
And I who have written much in prose and verse
For others' uses, will write now for mine,?
Will write my story for my better self,
As when you paint your portrait for a friend,
Who keeps it in a drawer and looks at it
Long after he has ceased to love you, just
To hold together what he was and is.


Many things my good sir, many things have I done. I haven't space to post much. :)

Cheers ! :)
 

Chrono

Diamond Member
Jan 2, 2001
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uh... ?
wtf?
do you guys have virtual sex as well?
how do you guys keep things faithful virtually?
ah, how's the virtual estate and kids?