I just broke up with the girl of my dreams

Aimster

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her family is religious. I hate her religion. She never brought religion into our relationship but her family is really into it.

so ... I guess I want to be told I did the right thing.. so tell me.
thanks.
 

Nik

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First, shens. Aimster has never had and will never have a girlfriend.

Second, if not shens, then you're an idiot.
 

MBentz

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You didnt do the right thing.

Who cares if her family is really into religion. If she never brought it into your relationship, WTF is the big deal?
 

Orsorum

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If her family plays a large role in her life, than yes, that can potentially negatively impact your relationship down the road. Whether you made the right decision, however, is something only you can decide once time passes.
 

Aimster

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what is the big deal?
I hate her religion.

Religion is a major part of her family. If I was going to marry her I would have to be part of that religion I hate...

Her family, they are nice people but I just cannot have them be part of my life. I cannot see my parents and her parents getting along. My mother would hate it.
 

mitaiwan82

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Originally posted by: GuideBot
First, shens. Aimster has never had and will never have a girlfriend.

Second, if not shens, then you're an idiot.

shens AND idiot.

/Maxima
 

Parasitic

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You walked away from a relationship because of a religion?
It's not exactly a bright decision, so I won't congratulate you on it.
 

Aimster

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Originally posted by: mitaiwan82
Originally posted by: GuideBot
First, shens. Aimster has never had and will never have a girlfriend.

Second, if not shens, then you're an idiot.

shens AND idiot.

/Maxima

my girlfriends > you
my car > you
I > you

solution? go sit in the corner.
:)
 

DAGTA

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Originally posted by: Aimster
what is the big deal?
I hate her religion.

Religion is a major part of her family. If I was going to marry her I would have to be part of that religion I hate...

Her family, they are nice people but I just cannot have them be part of my life. I cannot see my parents and her parents getting along. My mother would hate it.

If you hate her religion then she obviously wasn't the girl of your dreams.
 

Aimster

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Originally posted by: DAGTA
Originally posted by: Aimster
what is the big deal?
I hate her religion.

Religion is a major part of her family. If I was going to marry her I would have to be part of that religion I hate...

Her family, they are nice people but I just cannot have them be part of my life. I cannot see my parents and her parents getting along. My mother would hate it.

If you hate her religion then she obviously wasn't the girl of your dreams.

she didnt practice her religion.
her parents practice it.

if her parents lived 5,000 miles away everything would have been perfect.
 

MBentz

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Originally posted by: Aimster
Originally posted by: DAGTA
Originally posted by: Aimster
what is the big deal?
I hate her religion.

Religion is a major part of her family. If I was going to marry her I would have to be part of that religion I hate...

Her family, they are nice people but I just cannot have them be part of my life. I cannot see my parents and her parents getting along. My mother would hate it.

If you hate her religion then she obviously wasn't the girl of your dreams.

she didnt practice her religion.
her parents practice it.

if her parents lived 5,000 miles away everything would have been perfect.

Quit trying to rationalize why you broke up with her by making her parents' religion the excuse.

Maybe you should be more open minded.
 

olds

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Originally posted by: AccruedExpenditure
Originally posted by: GuideBot
First, shens. Aimster has never had and will never have a girlfriend.

Second, if not shens, then you're an idiot.

Bwahah the n00b is right!

Both you nOObs are right.
 

gsethi

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Originally posted by: Aimster
Originally posted by: DAGTA
Originally posted by: Aimster
what is the big deal?
I hate her religion.

Religion is a major part of her family. If I was going to marry her I would have to be part of that religion I hate...

Her family, they are nice people but I just cannot have them be part of my life. I cannot see my parents and her parents getting along. My mother would hate it.

If you hate her religion then she obviously wasn't the girl of your dreams.

she didnt practice her religion.
her parents practice it.

if her parents lived 5,000 miles away everything would have been perfect.

Marry her and move 5000 miles away from them :p
 

pennylane

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All you need is love.

The question you should have ask isn't "is her family religious", it's "is she religious"? Because if it's important to her and you hate it, then you might have problems, and then you might be right. If it's her family, then that shouldn't get in the way. It's your lives, not there's.
 

mitaiwan82

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Originally posted by: Aimster
Originally posted by: mitaiwan82
Originally posted by: GuideBot
First, shens. Aimster has never had and will never have a girlfriend.

Second, if not shens, then you're an idiot.

shens AND idiot.

/Maxima

my girlfriends > you
my car > you
I > you

solution? go sit in the corner.
:)

oh you forgot "my attention-whoring e-penis > you"

your life in SHENS
 

myjaja

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Hey, look at me! I broke up with my gf because her parents were practicing a religion that I didn't like. But my gf will be totally cool with it.

loser :frown:
 

winr

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Hi Aimster.

I had the same problem.

GF Family was religious, wanted me to be the same way.

No one tells me how to live.

All the Family's religious friends and head religious Guy fights me behind my back.

Poof, trouble, trouble, trouble......

Best wishes, anyone that has experienced this will understand.

:sun: :heart:



:)