I'm taking a girl out for dinner in LA, but where should I take her afterwards. Shes just a friend so far, but I really like this girl. I only knew her for a month now. Too chicken to tell her that I dig her.
I have a date tonight!
- Thread starter kenthuang
- Start date
You don't "dig" her you lust after her. There is no way you have anything but lust for someone after a month.
That's retarded. I've been able to 'dig' lots of girls that I didn't even find attractive in that much time. Some people just get along well. Sure they may still wanna bone, but there's lots of girls I'd bone but wouldn't want to spent more than 5 minutes around otherwise.
Drive her down to South Central about 10:00pm and go for a stroll. I'm sure the homeys will help you entertain her.:Q
14 repsonses and not a single helpful one. you guys are getting more and more brutal. 
well, you can take her to 3rd st. in santa monica and have a nice walk and watch all the street performers. go to yankee doodles and shoot some pool. or go to old town pasadena which is always happening. good luck.
well, you can take her to 3rd st. in santa monica and have a nice walk and watch all the street performers. go to yankee doodles and shoot some pool. or go to old town pasadena which is always happening. good luck.
Well thank you Abraham... God tells me "lust" is a sin... While love at first sight is nothing more than a physical attraction, a month is plenty of time to get to know someone if you hang out a lot...
HAHA you can't be for real? First off you have to provide your defnition of love, which I'm sure differs from others definition of love, next you have to give a basis for being able to speak for others feelings. Just because you can't/haven't felt "love" after a month doesn't mean others can't.
I think you are missing my point or I wasn't clear enough. I don't think you can really feel something for someone after a month, unless you are with them everyday(and even then it still isn't long enough). I am sorry but I can't get serious about someone until I have been in their life for a while. I can be a friend with someone or even have a BF/GF relationship, but I know it isn't serious. It is simply a mutual attraction based mainly on lust, but also some on personality and other things.
I can't meet someone and a month later know that I "dig" them or "love" them. Maybe I read to much into it, and if I did I apologize. I was just saying from my perspective that I don't see how anyone can know someone for a month and actually be that into them. I have a little more rigorous process for people in my life than that.
Let me give an example. I dated a girl three or so times and we had a lot of fun. I didn't really get the vibe from her that I wanted, so we agreed it was no point to keep seeing each other. Now, I couldn't sit there and say I KNEW she wouldn't turn out to be someone who was compatible. I will say that much, but I do think it is easier to get a negative read on someone in a short amount of time than a positive read.
I don't mind dating for social reasons or to get laid, but I certainly wouldn't say I really liked someone until I knew they were marriage or serious relationship material.
TRENDING THREADS
-
Discussion Zen 5 Speculation (EPYC Turin and Strix Point/Granite Ridge - Ryzen 9000)- Started by DisEnchantment
- Replies: 25K
-
Discussion Intel Meteor, Arrow, Lunar & Panther Lakes + WCL Discussion Threads
- Started by Tigerick
- Replies: 22K
-
Discussion Intel current and future Lakes & Rapids thread- Started by TheF34RChannel
- Replies: 23K
-
News NVIDIA and Intel to Develop AI Infrastructure and Personal Computing Products- Started by poke01
- Replies: 411
-
Facebook
Twitter