I have a date tonight!

[kenthuang]

I'm taking a girl out for dinner in LA, but where should I take her afterwards. Shes just a friend so far, but I really like this girl. I only knew her for a month now. Too chicken to tell her that I dig her.

 

[waylman]

does she like strip clubs? that's always a winner for a 1st date...

 

[KGB1]

Is it Dezign? iirc she lives and works in LA also? Go You! 😀

and remember pics 😉


Good luck anyway 😀

 

[fs5]

teh winnAr!

 

[DurocShark]

/falls to the floor

 

[Mill]

Originally posted by: kenthuang
I'm taking a girl out for dinner in LA, but where should I take her afterwards. Shes just a friend so far, but I really like this girl. I only knew her for a month now. Too chicken to tell her that I dig her.

You don't "dig" her you lust after her. There is no way you have anything but lust for someone after a month.

 

[kenthuang]

You don't "dig" her you lust after her. There is no way you have anything but lust for someone after a month.

so not true!

 

[fs5]

u h0rny, admit it.

 

[Lager]

PICS OR BAN!

 

[wfbberzerker]

this thread wasnt labled YAGT

BAN!

 

[jagr10]

Don't forget to take a few condoms with you on your date. You never know when you'll need 'em.

 

[BatmanNate]

Originally posted by: Millennium

Originally posted by: kenthuang
I'm taking a girl out for dinner in LA, but where should I take her afterwards. Shes just a friend so far, but I really like this girl. I only knew her for a month now. Too chicken to tell her that I dig her.

You don't "dig" her you lust after her. There is no way you have anything but lust for someone after a month.

That's retarded. I've been able to 'dig' lots of girls that I didn't even find attractive in that much time. Some people just get along well. Sure they may still wanna bone, but there's lots of girls I'd bone but wouldn't want to spent more than 5 minutes around otherwise.

 

[HappyPuppy]

Drive her down to South Central about 10:00pm and go for a stroll. I'm sure the homeys will help you entertain her.:Q

 

[Mill]

Originally posted by: BatmanNate

Originally posted by: Millennium

Originally posted by: kenthuang
I'm taking a girl out for dinner in LA, but where should I take her afterwards. Shes just a friend so far, but I really like this girl. I only knew her for a month now. Too chicken to tell her that I dig her.

You don't "dig" her you lust after her. There is no way you have anything but lust for someone after a month.

That's retarded. I've been able to 'dig' lots of girls that I didn't even find attractive in that much time. Some people just get along well. Sure they may still wanna bone, but there's lots of girls I'd bone but wouldn't want to spent more than 5 minutes around otherwise.

But it isn't love. It is pure carnal lust.

 

[Ns1]

that's not a date

that's you buying a new-found platonic friend dinner =P

 

[neovan]

14 repsonses and not a single helpful one. you guys are getting more and more brutal. 😛

well, you can take her to 3rd st. in santa monica and have a nice walk and watch all the street performers. go to yankee doodles and shoot some pool. or go to old town pasadena which is always happening. good luck.

 

[DaiShan]

Originally posted by: Millennium

Originally posted by: kenthuang
I'm taking a girl out for dinner in LA, but where should I take her afterwards. Shes just a friend so far, but I really like this girl. I only knew her for a month now. Too chicken to tell her that I dig her.

You don't "dig" her you lust after her. There is no way you have anything but lust for someone after a month.

Well thank you Abraham... God tells me "lust" is a sin... While love at first sight is nothing more than a physical attraction, a month is plenty of time to get to know someone if you hang out a lot...

 

[DaiShan]

Originally posted by: Millennium

Originally posted by: BatmanNate

Originally posted by: Millennium

Originally posted by: kenthuang
I'm taking a girl out for dinner in LA, but where should I take her afterwards. Shes just a friend so far, but I really like this girl. I only knew her for a month now. Too chicken to tell her that I dig her.

You don't "dig" her you lust after her. There is no way you have anything but lust for someone after a month.

That's retarded. I've been able to 'dig' lots of girls that I didn't even find attractive in that much time. Some people just get along well. Sure they may still wanna bone, but there's lots of girls I'd bone but wouldn't want to spent more than 5 minutes around otherwise.

But it isn't love. It is pure carnal lust.

HAHA you can't be for real? First off you have to provide your defnition of love, which I'm sure differs from others definition of love, next you have to give a basis for being able to speak for others feelings. Just because you can't/haven't felt "love" after a month doesn't mean others can't.

 

[gopunk]

Originally posted by: Millennium

Originally posted by: BatmanNate

Originally posted by: Millennium

Originally posted by: kenthuang
I'm taking a girl out for dinner in LA, but where should I take her afterwards. Shes just a friend so far, but I really like this girl. I only knew her for a month now. Too chicken to tell her that I dig her.

You don't "dig" her you lust after her. There is no way you have anything but lust for someone after a month.

That's retarded. I've been able to 'dig' lots of girls that I didn't even find attractive in that much time. Some people just get along well. Sure they may still wanna bone, but there's lots of girls I'd bone but wouldn't want to spent more than 5 minutes around otherwise.

But it isn't love. It is pure carnal lust.

i don't think most people equate "dig" with "love".

 

[fumbduck]

Originally posted by: coldcut
PICS OR BAN!

hahahahahahahahaha

 

[Buttzilla]

i think you guys scared him off. take her k clubbing...

 

[ElFenix]

better stick your tongue down her throat before you get stuck in the friend zone

 

[boyRacer]

Originally posted by: Buttzilla
i think you guys scared him off. take her k clubbing...

then all these guys would hit on her... 😕

 

[oniq]

You can take her to your room and show her Anandtech and how cool you are on here. I dig you

 

[Mill]

Originally posted by: DaiShan

Originally posted by: Millennium

Originally posted by: BatmanNate

Originally posted by: Millennium

Originally posted by: kenthuang
I'm taking a girl out for dinner in LA, but where should I take her afterwards. Shes just a friend so far, but I really like this girl. I only knew her for a month now. Too chicken to tell her that I dig her.

You don't "dig" her you lust after her. There is no way you have anything but lust for someone after a month.

That's retarded. I've been able to 'dig' lots of girls that I didn't even find attractive in that much time. Some people just get along well. Sure they may still wanna bone, but there's lots of girls I'd bone but wouldn't want to spent more than 5 minutes around otherwise.

But it isn't love. It is pure carnal lust.

HAHA you can't be for real? First off you have to provide your defnition of love, which I'm sure differs from others definition of love, next you have to give a basis for being able to speak for others feelings. Just because you can't/haven't felt "love" after a month doesn't mean others can't.

I think you are missing my point or I wasn't clear enough. I don't think you can really feel something for someone after a month, unless you are with them everyday(and even then it still isn't long enough). I am sorry but I can't get serious about someone until I have been in their life for a while. I can be a friend with someone or even have a BF/GF relationship, but I know it isn't serious. It is simply a mutual attraction based mainly on lust, but also some on personality and other things.

I can't meet someone and a month later know that I "dig" them or "love" them. Maybe I read to much into it, and if I did I apologize. I was just saying from my perspective that I don't see how anyone can know someone for a month and actually be that into them. I have a little more rigorous process for people in my life than that.

Let me give an example. I dated a girl three or so times and we had a lot of fun. I didn't really get the vibe from her that I wanted, so we agreed it was no point to keep seeing each other. Now, I couldn't sit there and say I KNEW she wouldn't turn out to be someone who was compatible. I will say that much, but I do think it is easier to get a negative read on someone in a short amount of time than a positive read.

I don't mind dating for social reasons or to get laid, but I certainly wouldn't say I really liked someone until I knew they were marriage or serious relationship material.