I hate it when a platonic friend just keeps getting hotter!

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Originally posted by: postmortemIA
so freedomsbeat212, how do you pick random myspace chicks to become your instant friends?

She's my neighbor who happens to be on myspace, everyone actually is there days.
 

jadinolf

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Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212
Seriously, I don't have a crush on her. I actually consider her the opposite of attractive, she's a pot head and I aint into dating a pot head - EVER. But it's rather quite odd, meeting her and thinking she was pretty but nothing spectacular and then watching her go from cute to very, very hot. So, before I used to make fart jokes around her without hesitation, now I have to pause for a moment because I feel kinda intimidated by her, when she was never intimidating to me before.

Anyone ever have that experience? Someone going from "eh" to physically attractive - which makes you feel awkward in front of them when you never did before?

pics:

Her when I met her

Me and her a few weeks ago

Her Now 1 (pic taken yesterday)
Her 2

Who is that ugly bald headed guy with her?

I'm kidding
 

homercles337

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Four words:

OUT OF YOUR LEAGUE

Go find some ugly chicks willing to date you. I do well, and this chick would take some work. Shes in my league, but i would wonder about the effort, WRT payoff.
 

maziwanka

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Originally posted by: homercles337
Four words:

OUT OF YOUR LEAGUE

Go find some ugly chicks willing to date you. I do well, and this chick would take some work. Shes in my league, but i would wonder about the effort, WRT payoff.

nice douchebag comment of the day.
 

dug777

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Are you a black guy? Just go up to her and ask if she wants it hard & rough, right now, and promise to denigrate her, abuse her & use her. Can't fail ya i hear.

According to you last thread, the women just can't resist that ;)
 

bob4432

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hot trick, i mean chick, no disrespect. why wouldn't you date a pothead? you know all the propoganda is b.s. - hell i am on more class 2 meds (oxycontina nd percocet) due to serious health issues than any pothead i know. maybe you should get over her choices in in here social life and kick back, smoke one and enjoy the time, who know maybe you will score. hell even if she does a little coke who cares, she is hot and you have a d!ck, so let it go where it may.

this is why you are in here "uptight nerds, nice guy, will help me with anything i need" category and not her midnight man :D

i personally don't smoke pot but who the f*ck cares, it is just pot, no biggie. hell, some of the class 2 meds i get, in the little pamphlet say that if you take this small dose more than what you are suppose to you, you will die. i would rather smoke pot.

do you drink alcohol?
 

RbSX

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For the love of god man, you're gonna be the 40 year old virgin.

Just get a life and stop whining about women.
 

Koing

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Originally posted by: bob4432
hot trick, i mean chick, no disrespect. why wouldn't you date a pothead? you know all the propoganda is b.s. - hell i am on more class 2 meds (oxycontina nd percocet) due to serious health issues than any pothead i know. maybe you should get over her choices in in here social life and kick back, smoke one and enjoy the time, who know maybe you will score. hell even if she does a little coke who cares, she is hot and you have a d!ck, so let it go where it may.

this is why you are in here "uptight nerds, nice guy, will help me with anything i need" category and not her midnight man :D

i personally don't smoke pot but who the f*ck cares, it is just pot, no biggie. hell, some of the class 2 meds i get, in the little pamphlet say that if you take this small dose more than what you are suppose to you, you will die. i would rather smoke pot.

do you drink alcohol?

Drugs testing for my sport...not worth the hassle imo for me. Life time Olympic ban and I'd be f00ked...but yeah I wouldn't have pot banned on the drugs list but it is a silly rule that I have to abide by.

Shes definatley dropped some weight and changed her style. She looks better in the 2nd pic.

Most of the girls I knew in school have gotten fatter. Nearly every single guy I went to school with has gotten fatter. It's ridiculous...but thats what happens when you don't do sports as much or train and you drink a lot of booze. It all adds up.

As for me not many platonic friends got hotter. Girls I dated got hotter after more dates but not platonic friends. I have friends that are great friends but I don't find them attractive enough to date and hence why we are friends :p. And of course the other way is the same.

Koing
 

LLCOOLJ

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Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212
Seriously, I don't have a crush on her. I actually consider her the opposite of attractive, she's a pot head and I aint into dating a pot head - EVER. But it's rather quite odd, meeting her and thinking she was pretty but nothing spectacular and then watching her go from cute to very, very hot. So, before I used to make fart jokes around her without hesitation, now I have to pause for a moment because I feel kinda intimidated by her, when she was never intimidating to me before.

Anyone ever have that experience? Someone going from "eh" to physically attractive - which makes you feel awkward in front of them when you never did before?

pics:

Her when I met her

Me and her a few weeks ago

Her Now 1 (pic taken yesterday)
Her 2
Lifes cruel, she gets better looking and you get uglier.
 

blert

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Sep 30, 2005
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Originally posted by: CFster
Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212
Originally posted by: CFster
Sooo, does she know her pics are being posted online?

Does she know she being called a pot head?

That's pretty sh1tty IMO.

I call her a pot head to her face and make fun of the tree talking too. I think she's a fabulous person, I'm just stating reasons why I'm not interested in her.

There's a big difference with joking around with a friend personally, but I think you just crossed the line.

Yes, I don't know the details of your relationship, or her personality, but I know if somebody did the same to me I'd be PISSED.

There lies the difference between true friends and someone you are friendly with. I have the same "type" of friend, and we disagree and get angry with each other quite often, but in the end we are still friends, enjoy each others company and hang out often. Sometimes she calls me names to her friends that I don't think is fair, but usually after she explains it me why she did that- she was right, so I no longer take offense.
 

Pr0d1gy

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Jan 30, 2005
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God I need to go to the club. Reading the crap some of you people write is depressing. GO OUTSIDE!
 

erickj92

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All the time...... But I just try to act the same around them cuz they may have changed on the outside but they have not changed on the inside, act like you
 

EXman

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Originally posted by: Mrvile
Originally posted by: vr6
i don't find her hot in anyway, however those pics don't look like they are the from the same chick.

Actually they all look pretty similar, just progressively thinner and thinner.

thinner is better that first pic was just totally unattractive. :(
 

archiloco

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way better now, yeah it's weird seeing someone change like that, had that happen twice that i can remember both times i could of gone out with them at first, but just never got around to making my move, when i did there was 20 other guys in the mix :(