I gotta stop doing this.

johnjohn320

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Met a girl. Was refreshed to find a female who I felt I actually connected with. Have a TON in common with her, it's actually kinda creepy at points. Went to dinner (as friends), great conversation, really enjoyed every second of it. She apparently loved it too, a mutual friend told me (without me even bringing it up) that she was ecstatic about talking to me just because we have so much in common and seem to connect so well.

Unfortunately, of the things mentioned at dinner, one is she has a boyfriend.

I gotta stop doing that, it really sucks. :(

edit: and yes, I know, it is still great just to be friends with someone whose company you enjoy so much, but still...frusturating in a way.
 

rgwalt

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Hire a hit man, problem solved.

Seriously though, wait and see. That bridge isn't ready to be burned yet.

Ryan
 

TallBill

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yeah man.. find out if her bf is a jerk... start hangin out with her... make sure u dont try to start anything untill shes 100% broken up tho.. then maybe ask her what she'd think about it... thats how i hooked up with my gf... and honestly.. i woulda been just fine staying as friends
 

Nemesis77

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Originally posted by: pyonir
bf? man that is just another hurdle in the race.

;)

I have experience from the "other side of the fence". There's this guy who has determined that he and my GF will be a couple. He has about zero chance. My GF hates him, I hate him even more. And it's starting to be a major pain in the ass.
 

Michael1897

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i had the same situation nemisis,
gay, i mean guy wanted my gf, i told him he was a tool, he got mad, hated me ever since. became my old bestfriends shadow and is so to this day.
i'd kick his tail but he's not worth it. but if necessary i would do it
 

bmacd

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argh!!! stick with her and she'll realize what a nice guy you are (or at least put on a good show) and your day will come. Or at least that's where i'm at.

-=bmacd=-