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I got dumped, just as I expected :(

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I wanna see your pic, You have to have SOMETHING wrong with you if you're not banging anyone.

But rule #1, don't date girls off the internet. What the hell is wrong with you. Whatever happened to social interaction? You need friends in this world to survive man, because you can't go out clubbing or drinking by yourself. There has to be a flaw in your personality where you have no friends and you can't get a girl.
 
Originally posted by: batmang
its all about timing imho. sh1t happens for a reason.
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I agree, I know you have to wait for something ggod to come to you. But if you only wait it will never happen, that's what I understood. You gotta create opportunities to take advantage of them, they aren't coming to you by themselves. And to wait? I'd love to, but it doesn't seem like I got lots of time left to do that, that's why I'm desperate. It's pretty late for me already to just date girls, go to dancing clubs etc, that is over. Many people here are 18-somethings and they don't understand how awkward and strange you feel when you come to a dancing club with 16-18 year old audience, you feel ancient and out of place there. Pretty much everything that's left for me now is to look straight for a woman to marry, at least that's how I imagine things are.
 
Everything must have closure in life. Remember, this closure only brings open doors for the future.
 
Booster, you wanna relationship? Build a friendship first.

My wife and I were friends for years before we hooked up. She's nowhere near my type physically (tall and skinny... I've always been into the short/curvy/hottie types) but we clicked.

Try doing group things with girls you sorta know... Coworkers, friends of friends, etc. Make sure you HAVE FUN and not just sit talking. If you have fun, and are smiling and talking girls will be more attracted to you than if you're sitting like an embarrassed rock having a quiet conversation.
 
Try doing group things with girls you sorta know... Coworkers, friends of friends, etc.
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My co-workers are all 30+ years old, all married with kids. There is one girl of 23 in the office, but she's also married, and, like I said, I got no friends.

So should I quit my job and look for some job with young employees? Heck, I'm too old for a junior position @ McDonalds. And there are looots of super attractive girls there. I'm completely out of luck I guess.

Also, there is another problem. I got to be married to be accepted at a better job. B/c young single males aren't usually trusted a whole lot, I think.
 
read 1/2 of your post and my recommendation is date women closer your age or older. They might be more fitting to you.
 
there is a problem with your reasoning...you are TRYING to get a g/f. When you try to do that, you never do.
 
Originally posted by: WoodchuckCharlie
Originally posted by: Spac3d
Originally posted by: dxkj
Are you ugly or deformed or something?
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ROFL

Aw man, this is the funniest thread I have read all day. Man, some you ATOT people are some real losers.
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That's a little harsh. I'm sure not the cream of the crop yourself. That's the bad thing about the net is that anybody can be whoever they wanna be, including tards like you.:disgust:
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Next time when you try to make a point, make sure it makes sense before you hit "Reply to Topic"
 
Originally posted by: Booster
Originally posted by: batmang
its all about timing imho. sh1t happens for a reason.
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I agree, I know you have to wait for something ggod to come to you. But if you only wait it will never happen, that's what I understood. You gotta create opportunities to take advantage of them, they aren't coming to you by themselves. And to wait? I'd love to, but it doesn't seem like I got lots of time left to do that, that's why I'm desperate. It's pretty late for me already to just date girls, go to dancing clubs etc, that is over. Many people here are 18-somethings and they don't understand how awkward and strange you feel when you come to a dancing club with 16-18 year old audience, you feel ancient and out of place there. Pretty much everything that's left for me now is to look straight for a woman to marry, at least that's how I imagine things are.
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Go to another club... round here... clubs/bars are all filled with 21+ and college graduates who are still partying... hey man just have fun... you worry too much. Just because you're almost 24 doesn't mean you're old... geez.
 
Originally posted by: Regs
Everything must have closure in life. Remember, this closure only brings open doors for the future.
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follows what i was saying about timing. but yes, friends are a key role in getting into relationship, thats how mine happened. waiting without doing anything is one thing, but waiting and jumping on the opportunity is another. what happen with me is, my friend called me asked me if i wanted to go out with her and her friend (my girlfriend). i could have easily said no, i mean, 2 girls one guy, could have been really boring, or really fun 🙂 . i took a chance and ended up getting the best gift ever, an awesome girlfriend who i hope to merry someday. its about timing and effort on your end. socializing is always a good way to meet girls. you can meet anyone anywhere even if you are a loner, just go out and someone will eventually come to you, thats just how it works.
 
Originally posted by: Booster
Try doing group things with girls you sorta know... Coworkers, friends of friends, etc.
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My co-workers are all 30+ years old, all married with kids. There is one girl of 23 in the office, but she's also married, and, like I said, I got no friends. So should I quit my job and look for some job with young employees? Heck, I'm too old for a junior position @ McDonalds. And there are looots of super attractive girls there. I'm completely out of luck I guess. Also, there is another problem. I got to be married to be accepted at a better job. B/c young single males aren't usually trusted a whole lot, I think.
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What do you do for a job?
 
if you act/look too desperate, you give off a bad vibe of desperation, in turn she will look at you thinking you want a relationship right when you meet, that just scares girls off. they need time to get into a relationship.
 
follows what i was saying about timing. but yes, friends are a key role in getting into relationship, thats how mine happened. waiting without doing anything is one thing, but waiting and jumping on the opportunity is another. what happen with me is, my friend called me asked me if i wanted to go out with her and her friend (my girlfriend).
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Allright, I'll just stay single then. So you're saying I gotta get some mystical 'friend' first, so that later on I can date a girl he doesn't want to. No way. I do need a girlfriend (I think still, but soon, I hope, that's gonna pass), but I don't see myself hanging out with some 'friends' I don't need at all.
 
friends are gateways, what else do you have to lose, your efforts havent gotten you nowhere yet, might as well try something new eh? i KNOW i got lucky meeting my girlfriend. if kid rock can get with pam anderson, theres hope for everyone.
 
Pardon me for saying, but you seem a little anti-social, and your lady-friend candidates might be picking up on that.
 
cant get mad at us for giving you tips, your asking for help, we are giving it. just take it with a grain of salt.
 
Hahahahahahah one date with a camwhore is NOT a relationship therefore you != DUMPED.
However you NEED to stop being so goddamn insecure and dependent on another person to make your life happy.
 
Err. . . hum . . . Err . . .

Ok . . . first of all. Obviosuly you need to get a grip with yourself. Your confidence level really is in the stinker and that is not something you should see yourself as.


Let me share some personal expreinces, I had the same problem as you and I always thought I didnt look too good. I was fat and ugly. Well i am still fat . .. and still sort of ugly = P. But I never had problem being friends with females, though I did have problems going on to a deeper level with most of the girls I liked when I was at your age. Then something or somehow at the age of 23 life changed for me, no I was still fat and didnt get any cutier, but I met this one girl and we sort of was seeing each other for a few months and she decided to end it with me. Like a idiot I was heart broken and yea probble worse then you but give me a break I was 23 and where the heck do I go from there.

Then about 4 or 5 months later I met my ex and we ended up being togeather for 2 years 4 months 28 days. She was and is still Hot. We broke up ealier this year and I was a wreck. Acutally, I think if i had the confidence level that I had now we wouldnt have broken up. But shoot life dosnt end even after this.

Your still young and dont give up hope. Go to a gym and build yourself up and feel good about yourself. But dont be an @ss like me and go out with a girl and show her a good time for self confidence points. I still regreat being nice to the girl I took out. She always message me and talkes to me but its less after I told her I still love my ex dearly.

Life is like that man. Suck it up and be a man. Stop being a wuss. Work out, get a job, and do something with your life. And when you find the right one dont screw up like me = P. Well if you did then at least go try to get her back and not mop around like a fool.

If you need me to say anything else . . . its a freaking first date. Relax.
 
Originally posted by: amnesiac
Hahahahahahah one date with a camwhore is NOT a relationship therefore you != DUMPED.
However you NEED to stop being so goddamn insecure and dependent on another person to make your life happy.
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Heck but that's all I could do to meet someone... I don't know of any other means to meet a girl. I tried everything - dancing clubs, cafes etc all with zero luck. I did the best I could, maybe it seems like a game but I didn't think it was, it was in fact quite a rude game, to say the least.
 
Heck, I'm too old for a junior position @ McDonalds. And there are looots of super attractive girls there. I'm completely out of luck I guess.
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Upon reading this line, I hereby declare this thread an official YAGT Parody, and I do also hereby declare Booster to be full of dook.
 
Originally posted by: Booster
Originally posted by: amnesiac
Hahahahahahah one date with a camwhore is NOT a relationship therefore you != DUMPED.
However you NEED to stop being so goddamn insecure and dependent on another person to make your life happy.
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Heck but that's all I could do to meet someone... I don't know of any other means to meet a girl. I tried everything - dancing clubs, cafes etc all with zero luck. I did the best I could, maybe it seems like a game but I didn't think it was, it was in fact quite a rude game, to say the least.
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You need a hobby. I met my girlfriend while pursuing my hobby, acting.
When you have a hobby, you will meet people who obviously have at least one thing in common with you.

PS: A hobby that doesn't involve PCs.
PPS: I still think you are full of it.
 
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