I finally had it with binge drinking soda.

whm1974

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OK I was looking at this 4K TV thinking to use it as a monitor since according to the reviews I've read, it is suitable for that use, And then I realized that the reason I can't buy it this week is because I've been binge drinking soda every freaking day, no wonder I don't have nicer things. So today I'm quitting cold turkey.

The cost of drinking soda is higher then you think and even the cheap stuff adds up very quickly. I'm tired of drinking and pissing my money away when I could be buying stuff that I want or need.

It's been 7 hours without soda already and I'm starting to get headaches.
 

Chaotic42

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Good luck man. I've tried and tried and it's really hard to quit. I have no idea why I love it so much, but I do. I've been slowly convincing myself that sugar is basically poison and it does make me think twice. My consumption is way down, but still not zero. It's a tricky mind game.
 

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Yeah I have to literally not buy them. I’m getting dental work done so that is a big incentive to quit. I keepGinger Ale on hand though due to some mild stomach issues.


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mikeymikec

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Good luck OP. My only advice would be to search the net for tactics on how to go cold turkey for soda; there are probably forums out there with people who have been going through what you're doing, and people who have succeeded years ago.

I wasn't ever addicted, but it became very easy for me to quit altogether because every time I drank one it felt like my guts were melting. These days I might have a sip every six months and then wonder why the hell I drank the stuff in the first place.

I suspect going from an overdose to zero soda is a bad idea though. It wouldn't surprise me if people going cold turkey would have a set amount that they drink each day (say one can, diet-type, 300ml). I personally wouldn't refrigerate it because the purpose of that small amount is not for it to taste nice but for your system to get used to not depending on it. I wonder whether getting a shot glass and spreading out that one can throughout the day might also be a good idea, but I've never had to do this kind of thing before and I'm sure there are tried and tested strategies.
 

whm1974

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Good luck OP. My only advice would be to search the net for tactics on how to go cold turkey for soda; there are probably forums out there with people who have been going through what you're doing, and people who have succeeded years ago.

I wasn't ever addicted, but it became very easy for me to quit altogether because every time I drank one it felt like my guts were melting. These days I might have a sip every six months and then wonder why the hell I drank the stuff in the first place.

I suspect going from an overdose to zero soda is a bad idea though. It wouldn't surprise me if people going cold turkey would have a set amount that they drink each day (say one can, diet-type, 300ml). I personally wouldn't refrigerate it because the purpose of that small amount is not for it to taste nice but for your system to get used to not depending on it. I wonder whether getting a shot glass and spreading out that one can throughout the day might also be a good idea, but I've never had to do this kind of thing before and I'm sure there are tried and tested strategies.
I tried limiting myself to one 2L bottle a day and it didn't work as I kept slipping back into binge drinking the stuff again. So I'm drinking a tea drink mix instead, much cheaper.
 

Chromagnus

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It doesn't really help with the money aspect at first but when I stopped drinking soda I supplemented with other carbonated beverages without sugar. Club soda, mineral water, seltzer, etc. I found that having something carbonated made it an easier substitute with going cold turkey. Once the sugar/caffeine addiction is gone you won't be drinking as much in general so it should get cheaper. Experiment with other beverages until you find something you like that isn't filled with sugar/artificial sugar.

Good luck.
 

whm1974

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Well the tea mix is low calorie and not as sweat tasting as the soda I've been drinking.
 
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@VirtualLarry should read this.

I bought a SodaStream, just to carbonate water. (I always drank soda for the fizz, not the taste.) It's been good so far, and way cheaper than buying bottles. (And supposedly better for the environment too...)
 

Rifter

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Its not easy to quit but its possible, until 3 years ago i drank 2-4L of soda a day and had every day for well over a decade.

Then i had a medical issue/emergency where i came within a few hours of death spent a week in the hospital including Christmas day and my birthday, it was a stomach/intestine issue, major infection almost burst my intestine. Then over the next few months i had a series of tests in which the doc's decided they were going to cut out several feet of my intestine. This was unacceptable to me for various reasons not the least of which was my mother and grandmother having the same medical issue and the same surgery done and both ending up much worse off after having the surgery.

I then consulted with several naturopathic doctors and dietitian's which my medical doctors all told me was a giant waste of time. I came up with a new eating plan, changed my diet 100% from what i was eating before, this is why the medical doctors said i should have the surgery, even though they agreed that a big change in diet could mitigate my issue they said no one had the will power to stick to it as it was such a large change from my current diet at the time, like night and day difference so they figured i would cheat, and then end up having more flare ups/attacks and just end up having the surgery later, and the later i wait more attacks i have they said would make the surgery more difficult. The medical doctors gave me 6-12 months then they figured id be back and asking for the surgery. Also I was told the intestine is one of the only things in the body that never heals on its own, so they told me even if i found a diet to manage it that i would need to stick to that diet for life as my situation would not heal on its own without surgical intervention. This was depressing news.

Soda wasnt even the hardest thing to give up, beef was. I was a huge beef eater, ate hamburgers 3-4 times a week. Dietitian said beef is the hardest single food to digest and as we were trying to get me on a super high fiber and easy to digest diet i would need to give up beef entirely possibly some other meats as well, this really killed me. Soda as well did not react well with me and had to be given up as well as a dozen or two other foods, alcohol too had to be given up, it was trial and error for a while to figure out what worked for me and didnt. I was depressed for months, like actual depression and was the only time in my life i thought about suicide, giving up beef, soda, and alcohol and a bunch of other foods all at once cold turkey was almost to much for me to take. I almost caved and got the surgery. But the fear of death can be a big motivator, and i could end up even worse post surgery like my mom so i focused on learning what i could and could not eat and kept at it. Some things i was eventually able to reintroduce into my diet in small amounts over the years. Over the next few years i literally became one with my diet, i knew exactly what i ate/drank, i keep a written record of everything i put in my mouth and the time i ate/drank it, i suggest anyone trying to quit eating anything to do this, when you see what you have eaten written down in black and white its alot harder to ignore and IMO will help with stopping eating it. Alot of people IMO dont realize exactly how much of something they eat, or are trying to fool themselves, harder to do when you record it.

Bottom line is its not going to be easy, but it is possible. You just need to find the reason thats important enough for YOU to do it, no one else can tell you what that reason is you need to do some soul searching and find it on your own. My reason was medical issue and fear of death/surgery if i kept eating what i was eating including soda.

But i can tell you one thing, once i made the conscious decision with myself to not eat anything that was bad for me and going to cause me further medical issues it became easy, really easy like a switch flipped in my head easy. The depression went away, and now 3 years later i feel great, im sure i dont need surgery if i keep up my current diet, and i intend to keep it up till the day i die which is hopefully many years from now.

Luckily i have been able to add a little soda and alcohol back to my diet with no ill effects, took me two years to get to that point but im talking minuscule amounts, i can drink one of those small coke cans(233ml or 250ml, the tiny weird looking small cans) a week with my whiskey on Friday nights, i use it as chase not as mix, with whiskey on the rocks. Can drink 2 glasses of whiskey a week with no ill effects, just enough to get a good buzz but not sloppy like i used to get multiple times a week before my incident. Its actually not so bad i started buying better whiskey as it lasts me so long now :) So i can drink 1L soda a month now and a little whiskey which i guess is better than nothing, and certainly better than dying. Still no beef but you cant win em all i guess.

OP, you just need to find your reason to quit/greatly reduce consumption, and then it will get so much easier, i truly believe this is a mind over matter situation.
 

UsandThem

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Wow, that's pretty inspiring, Rifter.

Agreed. Changing your diet can fix so many issues, but many doctors simply discount it way too easily.

I did something very similar back in 2013 when I blew out my back. I was overweight, pre-hypertension blood pressure, and just felt like crap. I went from weighing 225 down to 148 pounds by cutting out alcohol, limiting soda to one 16 oz. bottle a day, and cutting out processed foods (and beef for the most part as well). I felt so much better for a few years, but the last couple of years my back and neck have gotten worse, and to the point where I am in constant pain, with a lot more limited mobility. With me it wasn't so much depression as anxiety. Being in pain 24/7 for years takes it toll on a person, so I started stress eating and ate mostly processed foods again (especially good ice cream), but thankfully I never picked drinking back up again. That's one thing I really don't miss at all. So now my wife wants us to go back to what we both were doing, so the diet will get pretty strict once again very soon. Happy wife, happy life. ;)
 

Rifter

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Agreed. Changing your diet can fix so many issues, but many doctors simply discount it way too easily.

This was one of the hardest parts, the medical doctors pushing me for surgery, because they are supposed to know what they are doing and we all know they go to school for so long to become doctors, and most of us know very little about the medical sciences. So not believing what they said, and not just one i went to over a dozen with my test results and not a single one thought i could beat this permanently without surgery, was very difficult.

It takes alot to discount their opinions and seek help elsewhere. Thank god i found a great naturopath, and a great dietitian that are much more open minded that the medical doctors.

And thank god i can drink whiskey again(or a few beers, up to 6-8 beers a week is ok, so far anyways) even if its in small amounts, not sure i would have made it otherwise. Cant remember the last time i got really really drunk though, and that is for sure a good thing.
 
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rchunter

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I quit drinking soda 15 years ago. Don't miss it at all. I used to be 50 pounds heavier than I am now (6'4" 200lbs).
 

whm1974

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Well thanks for the stories guys, that really help a lot. I main reason I'm doing this, and this is reason I started doing this Monday, is I'm tired of being broke or not having enough to buy stuff I want or need. I manage to save some $200 the last time I went to the store before last night, and by last Sunday it was down to $20. That was spent in three weeks.

I mentioned getting this 4K TV:
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B01N29XPO3?tag=techreport09-20&ie=UTF8
I could have brought this, this week!
 

whm1974

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Well it has been a week without any soda now and I'm feeling pretty good about my myself. Will I go another week?
 

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I (mostly) gave up soda in phases.

1) I stopped having soda at home. This was actually the easy part for me. Why? When you are in the store, you aren't usually thirsty, so you don't mind skipping that isle. When you are at home and there is no soda, you just drink something else.

2) That left me just drinking soda when I was eating out or at friends. I did this for a year. That way I met my soda cravings but had cut out the majority of my soda intake.

3) I stopped buying sodas at chain restaurants. This was a little harder to do, but I had actually already broken my physical "needs" for soda by stopping it at home. And I couldn't justify the $3+ cost per drink now that I didn't really crave it. My justification for cutting out chain restaurants was that Ma and Pa restaurants needed the income but multi-billion dollar chains didn't (note: this logic doesn't work with franchises but it got me past this hump in the soda consumption).

4) I stopped buying sodas at all restaurants. This was actually the hardest of all steps for me. But I justified it by bumping up my tips to compensate for their loss of income. I substituted my "feel good by drinking sugar" with "feel good by tipping well". Either way, I got the feeling that I craved.

Now I drink sodas only on rare occasions when I've worked hard that day and am at a friend's house. I see no reason to go completely cold-turkey.
 

whm1974

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I (mostly) gave up soda in phases.

1) I stopped having soda at home. This was actually the easy part for me. Why? When you are in the store, you aren't usually thirsty, so you don't mind skipping that isle. When you are at home and there is no soda, you just drink something else.

2) That left me just drinking soda when I was eating out or at friends. I did this for a year. That way I met my soda cravings but had cut out the majority of my soda intake.

3) I stopped buying sodas at chain restaurants. This was a little harder to do, but I had actually already broken my physical "needs" for soda by stopping it at home. And I couldn't justify the $3+ cost per drink now that I didn't really crave it. My justification for cutting out chain restaurants was that Ma and Pa restaurants needed the income but multi-billion dollar chains didn't (note: this logic doesn't work with franchises but it got me past this hump in the soda consumption).

4) I stopped buying sodas at all restaurants. This was actually the hardest of all steps for me. But I justified it by bumping up my tips to compensate for their loss of income. I substituted my "feel good by drinking sugar" with "feel good by tipping well". Either way, I got the feeling that I craved.

Now I drink sodas only on rare occasions when I've worked hard that day and am at a friend's house. I see no reason to go completely cold-turkey.
I've binge drinking soda since my teens, and while I tried multiple times to cut down and failed. So it's cold turkey for me.
 

mike8675309

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Then over the next few months i had a series of tests in which the doc's decided they were going to cut out several feet of my intestine. This was unacceptable to me for various reasons not the least of which was my mother and grandmother having the same medical issue and the same surgery done and both ending up much worse off after having the surgery.
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I came up with a new eating plan, changed my diet 100% from what i was eating before, this is why the medical doctors said i should have the surgery, even though they agreed that a big change in diet could mitigate my issue they said no one had the will power to stick to it as it was such a large change from my current diet at the time, like night and day difference so they figured i would cheat, and then end up having more flare ups/attacks and just end up having the surgery later, and the later i wait more attacks i have they said would make the surgery more difficult. The medical doctors gave me 6-12 months then they figured id be back and asking for the surgery. Also I was told the intestine is one of the only things in the body that never heals on its own, so they told me even if i found a diet to manage it that i would need to stick to that diet for life as my situation would not heal on its own without surgical intervention. This was depressing news.
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Agreed. Changing your diet can fix so many issues, but many doctors simply discount it way too easily.

This was one of the hardest parts, the medical doctors pushing me for surgery, because they are supposed to know what they are doing and we all know they go to school for so long to become doctors, and most of us know very little about the medical sciences. So not believing what they said, and not just one i went to over a dozen with my test results and not a single one thought i could beat this permanently without surgery, was very difficult.

To become a doctor you have thousands of hours of study you do, yet only about 20 of those hours is spent on nutrition on average. Doctors have hammers and look for things they can call nails and hit them. The knowledge is deep but not necessarily wide.
https://nutritionfacts.org/video/physicians-may-be-missing-their-most-important-tool/
 

FeuerFrei

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Trawl the web, learning about nutrition. Experiment, and you'll discover various nutrients that will radically affect your physical state. For me it was potassium, zinc, magnesium, and P5p vitamin B6. I'm trying to stay alive without sleep here. My nervous system is shot.

Today I discovered a single raw tomato will cut off any runaway brain stimulation due to supplementing with P5p B6 vitamin. Granted there may have been a touch of SAMe and L-dopa involved, but it was getting nigh unbearable. Crazy, over the top, alertness. Brain felt fried. Then I popped a tomato and it was all downhill from there. Was it the tomato's lycopene? Or its potassium? Or its beta carotenoids? IMO potassium, possibly. Feel'n drowsy now ... highly unusual for me.

No doctor is going to sit down for hours researching your state, and coaching you throughout the day. It's up to you. Your brain is your most vital asset. And your time.
 

whm1974

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Well I'm finding that coffee mixed with dark unsweetened cocoa and stevia is helping me kick my soda habit. Has anyone else tried this?
 

Ancalagon44

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I personally don't think you should look for any replacements. Just quit drinking soda. Drink coffee and tea in moderation, which are not replacements for soda. And drink tap water, lots of it.

This is the problem I have with artificial sweeteners and the like. We need to get over the idea that everything we consume needs to be AMAZING - sweet, salty, fatty or all three. Sometimes the things you eat and drink can be bland, and that is okay. The best thing you can do for your health and your budget is to convince yourself that it is okay to eat and drink things that taste bland.

So, don't seek to replace your previous addiction with, well, any other addiction. Just drink plain water. It isn't addictive. Drink it carbonated if you have to. Keep a bottle in the fridge - it is nicer cold.
 

whm1974

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I personally don't think you should look for any replacements. Just quit drinking soda. Drink coffee and tea in moderation, which are not replacements for soda. And drink tap water, lots of it.

This is the problem I have with artificial sweeteners and the like. We need to get over the idea that everything we consume needs to be AMAZING - sweet, salty, fatty or all three. Sometimes the things you eat and drink can be bland, and that is okay. The best thing you can do for your health and your budget is to convince yourself that it is okay to eat and drink things that taste bland.

So, don't seek to replace your previous addiction with, well, any other addiction. Just drink plain water. It isn't addictive. Drink it carbonated if you have to. Keep a bottle in the fridge - it is nicer cold.
I added unsalted butter to my mix to check it out after reading websites and YouTube videos.
 

snoopy7548

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I personally don't think you should look for any replacements. Just quit drinking soda. Drink coffee and tea in moderation, which are not replacements for soda. And drink tap water, lots of it.

This is the problem I have with artificial sweeteners and the like. We need to get over the idea that everything we consume needs to be AMAZING - sweet, salty, fatty or all three. Sometimes the things you eat and drink can be bland, and that is okay. The best thing you can do for your health and your budget is to convince yourself that it is okay to eat and drink things that taste bland.

So, don't seek to replace your previous addiction with, well, any other addiction. Just drink plain water. It isn't addictive. Drink it carbonated if you have to. Keep a bottle in the fridge - it is nicer cold.

So true. I'd like to add that learning how to cook will sort of force you to realize this, and is one of the best things you can do for your overall health and well-being. Fast food and processed foods are loaded with crap that's horrible for you, but fresh ingredients have more flavor than you think. Proper seasoning during cooking will leave you with a meal that tastes good and is good for you. After a while of eating actual, fresh food, your taste buds will readjust and fast/junk food will have way too much "flavor".

This ties in with whm's comment too... in the majority of cooking and baking, it's recommended to use unsalted butter so you can have better control over the salt level of your dish. I cook all of my meals except for rare occasions, and I only buy unsalted butter.