I Feel Used

[FooKilla]

Freind hooked me up with this girl about two weeks ago. Just now from her freind I find out she is seeing another guy downstate where she goes to college. She told her freind that when shes up here she's seeing me. When she's downstate she's seeing him. This sucks I was starting to really like her. Now I'm in the situation do I confront her or just play things out and see what happens. She leaves in a week anyway.

 

[n0cmonkey]

Are you two married?

 

[Leetman]

Wouldn't confront her, not worth the drama..

...4:25am and I'm responding to a YAGT on ATOT. Geez you guys are bad

 

[n0cmonkey]

Originally posted by: Leetman
Wouldn't confront her, not worth the drama..

...4:25am and I'm responding to a YAGT on ATOT. Geez you guys are bad

It 7 something am in the civilized world.

 

[Gooberlx2]

Just don't let yourself get played or attached. So long as you can do that, then enjoy the booty calls.


....wear a condom.

 

[Vette73]

You have to choose...


1. Keep her, but only as a sex toy and use her at will, use a condom ALWAYS, and don't get attached.

2. Dump her for the slut she is and move on


Those are your 2 options, choose.

 

[n0cmonkey]

Originally posted by: Marlin1975
You have to choose...


1. Keep her, but only as a sex toy and use her at will, use a condom ALWAYS, and don't get attached.

2. Dump her for the slut she is and move on


Those are your 2 options, choose.

There is absolutely no evidence in the OP that she is a slut.

 

[zimu]

btw, welcome to ATOT.

 

[BaboonGuy]

Confront her and offer f*** buddy relationship.

 

[txxxx]

Originally posted by: Marlin1975
You have to choose...


1. Keep her, but only as a sex toy and use her at will, use a condom ALWAYS, and don't get attached.

2. Dump her for the slut she is and move on


Those are your 2 options, choose.

That'll do, but it sounds like the OP cant keep his emotions out of his pants. So looks like 2.

 

[brian_riendeau]

"There is absolutely no evidence in the OP that she is a slut."

Going out with two guys at once no longer qualifies someone for the title of slut???

 

[n0cmonkey]

Originally posted by: brian_riendeau
"There is absolutely no evidence in the OP that she is a slut."

Going out with two guys at once no longer qualifies someone for the title of slut???

Not if it isn't serious with either one. Once it starts to get serious with one, the other one should be left on the side of the road.

 

[aic]

Yes, welcome to the real world.

 

[DurocShark]

Originally posted by: Gooberlx2
Just don't let yourself get played or attached. So long as you can do that, then enjoy the booty calls.


....wear a condom.

Exactly.

 

[SpunkyJones]

Originally posted by: brian_riendeau
"There is absolutely no evidence in the OP that she is a slut."

Going out with two guys at once no longer qualifies someone for the title of slut???

Dating usually involves going out with different people. Your confusing dating with going "steady".

 

[FooKilla]

It would be like me making out with a girl & then going downstate the week after and making out with a completely different one meanwhile still talking to the other one like nothing has changed. As nothing is "official" and it's a different town how does that make it right? Playing two girls?

 

[rudeguy]

Originally posted by: FooKilla
It would be like me making out with a girl & then going downstate the week after and making out with a completely different one meanwhile still talking to the other one like nothing has changed. As nothing is "official" and it's a different town how does that make it right? Playing two girls?

sounds like college to me

You are young, enjoy the freedom. You have an official pass to date as many girls besides this as you want. Did you want to marry her or something????

 

[n0cmonkey]

Originally posted by: FooKilla
It would be like me making out with a girl & then going downstate the week after and making out with a completely different one meanwhile still talking to the other one like nothing has changed. As nothing is "official" and it's a different town how does that make it right? Playing two girls?

With the sparce evidence presented, I don't think you're getting played. I think you're putting too many emotions into this too early. It's been two weeks, definitely too early to consider it serious enough for exclusivity. You're hanging out, having fun.

If you are putting more emotions into it, maybe you should talk to her about it. Maybe you are getting played, and you'll find out. Maybe she's just out for some fun, and you'll find out. Maybe she admits to nothing, in which case you get blackmail photos and forget about her for a while.

 

[Pepsei]

Turn it around and play her.

 

[BD231]

I'd cut the ties, I hate chicks who do that sh*t. It's happened to me and personally it just feels like the chick is dirty. Up to you though, I certainly wouldn't say anything if you don't want to screw anything up.

 

[spanky]

take pics of her and post it on ATOT, whereyou REAL friends are.

 

[Vegito]

dude, at ur prime age, use her back... u goto ur friend and have them hook you up with more of their friends... u dont need one to tie you down... u get as many as possible

 

[moonshinemadness]

Hit it till it leaves

 

[Koing]

Originally posted by: moonshinemadness
Hit it till it leaves

Ditto.

Just don't get attached and wear rubber.

Koing

 

[Nitemare]

Originally posted by: forcesho
dude, at ur prime age, use her back... u goto ur friend and have them hook you up with more of their friends... u dont need one to tie you down... u get as many as possible

Exactly