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I feel like an a$$hole

JoeFahey

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These 3 girls called me up tonight because they wanted to go to some dance class. The need 3 other boys since the guy leads in the type of dance. I first said I wasn't doing anything tonight. Then they asked me to go. (I HATE dancing by the way). I spent like 10 minutes telling them how I dont like dancing, and they spent that time telling me that I need to go. Well, they are gonna try to find some more people, and I might hear from them again, with them begging me. Ive had a long week and really just wanted to take it easy today. And Im not even sure I would have wanted to go if I was feeling a little more energized. I just feel like a jerk though. And I really am for saying no.
 
Originally posted by: JoeFahey1
These 3 girls called me up tonight because they wanted to go to some dance class. The need 3 other boys since the guy leads in the type of dance. I first said I wasn't doing anything tonight. Then they asked me to go. (I HATE dancing by the way). I spent like 10 minutes telling them how I dont like dancing, and they spent that time telling me that I need to go. Well, they are gonna try to find some more people, and I might hear from them again, with them begging me. Ive had a long week and really just wanted to take it easy today. And Im not even sure I would have wanted to go if I was feeling a little more energized. I just feel like a jerk though. And I really am for saying no.


Invite them to lunch tomorrow to make up for it. 🙂
 
Well you offered if they are really stuck so don't feel bad about that at all. There's no reason for you to do it if you don't feel like it.
 
Originally posted by: FeuerFrei
You don't have to do everything a girl asks.
404 - asshole not found

Yeah, but you turn down a girl one too many times, then they wont be there for you when you need them. Or you want to do something with them.
 
I'm just trying to think what I could do, or tell them to help, or make up. I was trying to think of other guys, but no ones around.
 
Originally posted by: LcarsSystem
Dude go dancing but tell them you expect physical payment in return.

😀

Well, she asked what she could do to make me go. And then she said "nothing sexual though, because I have boyfriend."

I wouldn't do it for that though
 
Originally posted by: JoeFahey1
Originally posted by: LcarsSystem
Dude go dancing but tell them you expect physical payment in return.

😀

Well, she asked what she could do to make me go. And then she said "nothing sexual though, because I have boyfriend."

I wouldn't do it for that though

I would.
 
Originally posted by: Astaroth33
It sounds like you turned down something that would have been a lot of fun...
When opportunity knocks.....
BTW, women like guys who dance, and surveys have shown that guys who DON'T dance, score far less than guys who do.

 
Originally posted by: AlienCraft
Originally posted by: Astaroth33
It sounds like you turned down something that would have been a lot of fun...
When opportunity knocks.....
BTW, women like guys who dance, and surveys have shown that guys who DON'T dance, score far less than guys who do.

Well, its not like I would be looking to hook up with these girls anyways. They are taken.
 
Well, they said they are going to go by the themselves with their parents, (which were going anyways). They really didn't make me feel any better. They were begging me right up to the last minute. I really just hope they dont take it personally. And that they aren't jerks to me. I mean, I'm not doing it because of THEM, I mean, they are pretty cute, but I just wasn't up to it tonight.
 
Originally posted by: JoeFahey1
Well, they said they are going to go by the themselves with their parents, (which were going anyways). They really didn't make me feel any better. They were begging me right up to the last minute. I really just hope they dont take it personally. And that they aren't jerks to me. I mean, I'm not doing it because of THEM, I mean, they are pretty cute, but I just wasn't up to it tonight.

So you'd rather sit at home on ATOT? Lame.
 
Originally posted by: chuckywang
Originally posted by: JoeFahey1
Originally posted by: LcarsSystem
Dude go dancing but tell them you expect physical payment in return.

😀

Well, she asked what she could do to make me go. And then she said "nothing sexual though, because I have boyfriend."

I wouldn't do it for that though

I would.

:laugh:
 
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