I duno if i can do it!....eeek im still scared...should i call her?

[chiwawa626]

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<< maybe she was blowing you off but being really nice about it.

girls do that.

it happened to me the first time i *really* asked a girl out. >>



It doesnt sound like she is blowing chiwawa626 off... she sounded legit that she will get back to him... good job man! >>



heh hopefully...well the main thing is i really didnt specify a time or date, and she was like around when i said oh whenever ur free and she said ok let met get back to u then, then we talked for a bit and she had to go and she even said it again that shell get back to me then we said byes

 

[dafatha00]

Always..and I mean ALWAYS specify a time and day when you ask a girl on a date. The "Do you want to go out with me at 8:00Pm on Friday?" approach is necessary. If she says "yes", then great. If she says "no, I'd love to go out with you but I need to get back to you" then it probably means she isn't interested. The "Do you want to go out sometime" puts you in a weak position because it gives the girl some time to think up a good excuse to later reject you. It allows girls to say "Sounds good, let me get back to you" (not saying that the girl you asked isn't sincere, but a LOT of girls do this) First impressions are everything. You have to come on strong...I can't stress that enough.

Girls are very very sly when it comes to the game. Sooner or later, you have to catch on. It took me awhile to learn. Good luck to you.

 

[Turkey]

I hate when girls say that... every time I've asked one out and they said "I'll get back to you" they never did :|. They didn't have the spine to say no.

 

[dafatha00]

I hate when girls say that... every time I've asked one out and they said "I'll get back to you" they never did . They didn't have the spine to say no.

exactly my point. always find out right then and there if she's serious or not about the date. specificity is the key.

 

[Skyclad1uhm1]

Just ask if she feels like shopping for clothes, and say you'll treat her

I've noticed lingerie shopping can be a lot of fun as long as it's for a beautiful girl who wants to know how something looks on her :Q

Edit: Typo fixed.

 

[Bluga]

I know it's hard. It's even harder when you are rejected. But you have to try.

"I can accept failure, but i cannnot accept not trying" -M.J.

 

[gotsmack]

I like going shopping, but only when its for buying for me. I could spend all day in a good tobacco shop looking at the cigars and sampling the pipe tobaccos.