I am not so uber mad right now at my wife. Please LMK if the pics are working now :)

funboy6942

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Today and tomrrow the makers of Extreme Home makeover will be kinda close taking applications and doing small interviews. As some of you know were screwed. I am recently disabled and will not be able to be produtive in life anymore. I been delt the short end of the stick my entire life and now having my back messed up and living in this sh!ty trailer I am never going to really be able to pull my family and I out of it.

I figured what the hell they are going to be around what a great chance to give them pics of my sh1ty trailer and life story and where we are at right now and see what happends. If I dont go I will be kicking myself in the a$$ the rest of my life. So I tell the wife and kids were going tomorrow and will be gone for awhile doing it. My youngest has no clue but said yes he wants to go. My Oldest after I explained who the were and it was the show I watch every sunday night said yes yes yes I want to go and have a chance to get out of this crap hole.

My wife on the other hand said no she doesnt want to go because they will never pick us because we live in a trailer and they canot help us. Im like so. She replies back have you ever seen them do a trailer or help someone that was in a traler. I said no but it would be different if the show picked us up because it would be different and with my condition and our situation whos to say. I cant say if they will or not but they are 40 minutes away and lets give it a shot.

She still told me she wont go and I at his point told her Iwill fvck up my back worse dragging her out of this house to go. If not for me do it for the kids. They dont need to live like this and this may be our only hope or help we may get but if we dont go how do you expect us to be picked. Also its kinda like a omen because they are so close and will take picture of our house (dont own a video camera) and we get to have a small interview. If we dont get picked atleast I can watch the show knowing I tried my best for my family. So I have to put my foot down, they require the entire family to show up for this and the kids and I want to go so I have to tell you that you must go.

At this point she is pissed at me and says fine I will go but I am not going to talk to anyone there. At this point I was super pissed told her to grow up and think of someone other then yourself and just go for the boys then went outside and smoked to calm down.

Am I wrong? Were bad off right now. I see no way to get us out of where we are at. I want to do this for my family not for me and really they are so close and I get to hand in my papers and get a short interview with the creators I would be stupid to miss the chance. What are some suggestions I can tell my wife other then what I have to make her wake up and see that its not going to come to us. I dont want to be there for hours and wait in line either but damnit its for the family and I will do anything for them why cant she? We have nothing to do. I sit in front of the computer because it is pretty much all I can do and she watches tv so WTF? I am willing to do the drive and wait in line and take the god awful pain I will be subjected through so I am the one who should really be saying no but I will do it for my family.

Anyway RANT!

PICS. I would bring a video but dont own a camera for that :( I hope not bringing a video will not hurt our chances in any way.

Pics are from after the posters on that page on. Just hit next on the page to see all of them.
 

KillyKillall

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From the words you typed, take her anyways. Chances are she will open up a little bit when she gets there. You seem pretty passionate about your kids and it only makes sense to do everything you can if you truly believe it.

I would like to think they would be more likely to help someone in your position. Give it all you have so that you can say that you did everything you can all the way through life.
 

CptFarlow

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Sorry I can't really help you with the wife, my gf never backs down for me (stubborn...) but good luck.

It is admirable to do that for you family. I cannot understand why she doesn't fully support you. It doesn't hurt to take the chance.

Anyways I hope you get it. You certainly deserve it. Keep us updated.
 

timswim78

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I think that they did a trailer on Monster House recently. It look really nice afterwards.
 

walla

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I would resent having to showcase my impoverishment for the entertainment and financial gain of others.

If someone tried to force me to do that, I wouldn't be happy.

THen again, I resent most all television programming and advertisement in general.
 

tami

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you definitely should push for this. your wife is being a pessimist from the start; the important rule is that IT DOESN'T HURT TO TRY. if they say no, then at least you put a good-willed effort into it.
 

Corn

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Are you expecting them to build you a house in a trailer park? I doubt they would do that....especially if you don't own the lot.........but yeah, put on your best tank top and beat the wife silly....she's got it comin' because you know that if you don't get picked, it's all her fault. Just be careful not to throw out your back in the process.
 

funboy6942

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Originally posted by: thirtythree
Good luck, but I wouldn't expect anything.

I am not expecting anything but like the lottery you have to play to win. With them so close I and I have the gas and toll money to go why shouldnt I go. Chance in a million but you never know :)

Beside I can just amagine my kds faces if we did get picked. I do it all the time when I watch the show and see how thie kids would react. I would love to see that on them.

But again its a chance. They are this close I just have to go. I might just take her kicking and screaming like a 4 year old and who knows you may be right and open up. If not she will ruin it for us being all pissy.
 

KillyKillall

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Originally posted by: funboy42
Originally posted by: thirtythree
Good luck, but I wouldn't expect anything.

I am not expecting anything but like the lottery you have to play to win. With them so close I and I have the gas and toll money to go why shouldnt I go. Chance in a million but you never know :)

Beside I can just amagine my kds faces if we did get picked. I do it all the time when I watch the show and see how thie kids would react. I would love to see that on them.

But again its a chance. They are this close I just have to go. I might just take her kicking and screaming like a 4 year old and who knows you may be right and open up. If not she will ruin it for us being all pissy.

man...GO FOR IT! For every 1000 people that say something can't be done..1 person does it..


 

Jumpem

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Originally posted by: walla
I would resent having to showcase my impoverishment for the entertainment and financial gain of others.

If someone tried to force me to do that, I wouldn't be happy.

THen again, I resent most all television programming and advertisement in general.


Idiot, they get new houses worht half a million plus out of it.


As for the OP, make your wife go to it. Also, make her get a job.
 

thirtythree

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Originally posted by: Jumpem
Originally posted by: walla
I would resent having to showcase my impoverishment for the entertainment and financial gain of others.

If someone tried to force me to do that, I wouldn't be happy.

THen again, I resent most all television programming and advertisement in general.


Idiot, they get new houses worht half a million plus out of it.


As for the OP, make your wife go to it. Also, make her get a job.
No kidding. Publicity fades, house stays. Don't tell me you'd turn down the offer.
 

OutHouse

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I am very happy with my wife right now, she gave me some gooooodddd lovin in our hot tub an hour ago. have to change the water tomorrow. ;)

but she is right, they dont do mobile homes.
 

thirtythree

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Originally posted by: Corn
Are you expecting them to build you a house in a trailer park? I doubt they would do that....especially if you don't own the lot.........but yeah, put on your best tank top and beat the wife silly....she's got it comin' because you know that if you don't get picked, it's all her fault. Just be careful not to throw out your back in the process.
Good job with dem stereotypes, bud. Do they always build it on the same site? I know they once relocated a lady's office (she was working out of her home).
 

funboy6942

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Originally posted by: Corn
Are you expecting them to build you a house in a trailer park? I doubt they would do that....especially if you don't own the lot.........but yeah, put on your best tank top and beat the wife silly....she's got it comin'. Just be careful not to throw out your back in the process.

I gave thought to that and no it is no workable BUT they generally tear down a house anyway and build new. Whats to say they get someone to donate a crappy house or land and build us a new shack. At this point a shack is better then what we have now. But I dont know. They have had a few spin offs from the show but all I can do is go in, show them my moldy falling apart trailer and say hey I tried. This house was supposed to be a means to an end and now that I got hurt I dont wat it to be the end.
 

ponyo

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Originally posted by: Citrix
I am very happy with my wife right now, she gave me some gooooodddd lovin in our hot tub an hour ago. have to change the water tomorrow. ;)

but she is right, they dont do mobile homes.


too much infomation.
 

funboy6942

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Originally posted by: Jumpem
Originally posted by: walla
I would resent having to showcase my impoverishment for the entertainment and financial gain of others.

If someone tried to force me to do that, I wouldn't be happy.

THen again, I resent most all television programming and advertisement in general.


Idiot, they get new houses worht half a million plus out of it.


As for the OP, make your wife go to it. Also, make her get a job.

She did get a job. Thats why I have internet again and were not homeless right now. 1 mess up and we will be though.
 

KillyKillall

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Dude..just think about this quote from newton:

"I didn't fail 10,000 times...I proved 10,000 ways that it doesn't work. "

It's a good one.
 

thirtythree

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Originally posted by: KillyKillall
Dude..just think about this quote from newton:

"I didn't fail 10,000 times...I proved 10,000 ways that it doesn't work. "

It's a good one.
Stop with the inspirational quotes, huh? :(
 

walla

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Originally posted by: thirtythree
Originally posted by: Jumpem
Originally posted by: walla
I would resent having to showcase my impoverishment for the entertainment and financial gain of others.

If someone tried to force me to do that, I wouldn't be happy.

THen again, I resent most all television programming and advertisement in general.


Idiot, they get new houses worht half a million plus out of it.


As for the OP, make your wife go to it. Also, make her get a job.
No kidding. Publicity fades, house stays. Don't tell me you'd turn down the offer.

I would not take the offer, but I'm not in a position where I need it.

My point was some people don't want to be on TV. Some people don't like the idea of being given money. Maybe its only 1% of people but they do exist.