I am in tears and profound sadness and darkness whenever i see the pictures she just sent me :( Ladies please help me.

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littlegohan

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dude
I have dated chinese girls
I dont think is harder than dating a white girl, a brown girl or a hispanic girl

stop whinning and ask her out

asking whether if she has a bf doesnt mean crap ok? and stop whinning cus I think most in the forum are sick of it.

By are you are the chinese girl both fobs?
 

TuxDave

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Originally posted by: nanyangview
the problem is..if i keep dragging, she might be taken

Just go ask her to go with you to do something... ANYTHING. Sitting around and crying isn't gonna accomplish anything. I feel like I've already wasted too many brain cells in this thread.

Edit: I am Chinese, I have dated Chinese girls. I don't quite understand what makes dating Chinese girls any more difficult than others unless I somehow skipped an important step.
 

nanyangview

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she is NOT fob but canadian born chinese...
she and her family are very traditional so it is not like some wild crazy chinese girl.

littlegohan, are you chinese too?
 

Feldenak

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Originally posted by: nanyangview
I ASKED HER BEFORE..SHE HAS NO BF AAAAHHHHHHH
yes i am chinese...chinese girls are HARD TO GET, why don't you try yourself aaaahhhh

someone please bring me out of this misery..and why does everyone WANT PICTURES????

Women are women. It's not that girls of Chinese descent are any more difficult than other girls. The crux of this whole dilemma of yours is that you have no spine and lack the gumption to help your situation in any way.
 

flexy

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Originally posted by: nanyangview
at least you can give me some advice..please..

last night i stayed up till 5 am refreshing this thread every 5 minute in pain from the severe frostbite :(

NNY,

if you had the guts to do anything constructive (eg. talk to her as recommended and tell her about your emotions) then you wouldn't do stupid sh*t like 'meditating' outside for 2hrs at -30C. (Nothing againat meditating...but this IS retarded....) Hurry and get this (or another girl) before it's too late...and stop asking here on the forum...asking here will bring you nowhere.... she is just a girl man.....so get over it and get your ass up and tell her how you llike/miss her etc.....
 

nanyangview

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:( sadness...i just came back from another 2 hours of meditation outside beside the lake, trying to clear my mind of thought and sadness :( i need to buy some frostbite medication tomorrow :( but the spirit have to live on.
 

edro

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Originally posted by: nanyangview
:( sadness...i just came back from another 2 hours of meditation outside beside the lake, trying to clear my mind of thought and sadness :( i need to buy some frostbite medication tomorrow :( but the spirit have to live on.

Have you tried a bottle of Aspirin and a few shots of Vodka?
 

emmpee

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Originally posted by: nanyangview
:( sadness...i just came back from another 2 hours of meditation outside beside the lake, trying to clear my mind of thought and sadness :( i need to buy some frostbite medication tomorrow :( but the spirit have to live on.

You need to see a therapist. I am not kidding.
 

nanyangview

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yeah i definitely need painkillers...
my entire hand, face, lips and ears are cracked up and swollen red ... i probly gonna use some hot towel or something...


the spirit has to live on..
 

Feldenak

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Originally posted by: nanyangview
yeah i definitely need painkillers...
my entire hand, face, lips and ears are cracked up and swollen red ... i probly gonna use some hot towel or something...


the spirit has to live on..

Wow, you are a special kind of idiot.

I reiterate...I'm exceedingly glad you are incompetent with women because you definitely do not need to breed.
 

Dudd

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I think for you, whores are the only answer. And even then, make sure to bring lots of money, I don't think they'll be willing to cut you any deals.
 

nanyangview

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i am just following the theory that,

there can be no success without payoff.
there can be no victory without suffering
 

SackOfAllTrades

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Originally posted by: nanyangview
i am just following the theory that,

there can be no success without payoff.
there can be no victory without suffering

that's not bad, but you come onto to these forums sounding like you've already given up and just crying about it now
 

littlegohan

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Yes I am CBC. So you are a fob and that girl is CBC? Then it will be hard. By the way, from personal experiences,
CBC girls are not very tradional.

Instead of meditating, why dont you just ask her out. It donest have to be a blatant date, just something subtle. LIke you can ask her to rollerblade or go biking with you.

As I am writing this, I also remember today how I didnt introduce myself to this cute girl in my class:disgust:
Dont hesitate, just do it.

p.s you seem to have very little confident. do you think that you are not very attarctive or that shes too good for you? post a pic of yourself and her and we can help.
 

TheHeartless

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I'm not even going to bother to read this long thread.....If you're "sad" beacuse you miss her, friken just ask her to hang out or do something, simple as that...stop being a baby...

-Lindz
 

JohnnyAnnalog

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Originally posted by: nanyangview
she is NOT fob but canadian born chinese...
she and her family are very traditional so it is not like some wild crazy chinese girl.

littlegohan, are you chinese too?
Seriously you should cut the umbilical cord & grow up.

I am Asian & was born in Asia, and am currently dating a Chinese girl. I don?t find it is any harder to date Asian girl (she/her family is very traditionalist & have slightly different value than other girls that I have dated), than dating redhead Scottish, blond Dutch/Polish, brunet French/Canadian/Irish or black Caribbean girls.

Every girl have a port & they all have the need to have plugins.
 

MystikMango

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I'm am Flip-Am and have dated all nationalities of girls, and it shouldn't matter where this chick of yours is born, or what her parents are like.

You will find no success without attemp first Grasshopper (Nanyangview, you have nothing to loose by asking her out except not knowing).

But I will say there are different levels associated with the term "dating". Many people however, make the mistake that to "date" a girl you have to spend money, take them to dinner, buy them gifts, take them to the movies, bowling, etc, etc. This is just plain wrong. If this is the "dating" you have in mind, then you are tunringyourself into a Sugar Daddy.
 

TuxDave

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Originally posted by: nanyangview
:( sadness...i just came back from another 2 hours of meditation outside beside the lake, trying to clear my mind of thought and sadness :( i need to buy some frostbite medication tomorrow :( but the spirit have to live on.

:confused: I dunno about you, but maybe you've been watching one too many Samurai films. Go watch that movie Amalie or Amelie or whatever it was called.

You have a girl with an overreactive imagination who's totally afraid of asking some guy out. If she could just bring up a little bit of courage, come out of her imaginary world, and just talk to the damn guy, she could make what exists only in her imagination come true.