I am in tears and profound sadness and darkness whenever i see the pictures she just sent me :( Ladies please help me.

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neovan

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Originally posted by: nanyangview
you do know that it will be long distance eh?

let me think about it.

this offer is only good till 5pm pst. when i leave work because i don't go on AT during the weekend.
 

nanyangview

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at least you can give me some advice..please..

last night i stayed up till 5 am refreshing this thread every 5 minute in pain from the severe frostbite :(
 

SackOfAllTrades

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Originally posted by: nanyangview
at least you can give me some advice..please..

last night i stayed up till 5 am refreshing this thread every 5 minute in pain from the severe frostbite :(

Ok my best advice:

1. masturbate
2. punch someone in the dark
3. beer
 

LuNoTiCK

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Originally posted by: nanyangview
wouldn't that be dangerous to post pic since who know which rapist lurks on this huge board?


First off see a shrink. Your long overdue.


Secondly, how is that dangerous. It's not like theres a million people who can see her when she walks outside.
 

roncarter

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dood grow some balls! hahahahaaah nah jk. i know its hard but tell her how u feel or feel bad for the rest of when she gets a bf!
 

MystikMango

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Dude, you've been ICQing and in contact with this person for 3 years, and have not closed the deal yet?

Sorry to say, but your chances are nil now. You have crossed over into the "Friend Zone"... she probably sees you only as a caring friend, a shoulder to cry on, and person to share HS memories with. She probably refers to you as "a close friend" or even "like a brother".

You have one shot, and one shot only. Call her and invite her out. If nothing happens on your date, it's time to move on to greener pastures. You've wasted enough braincells on her already IMO.
 

nanyangview

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Dude, you've been ICQing and in contact with this person for 3 years, and have not closed the deal yet?

Sorry to say, but your chances are nil now. You have crossed over into the "Friend Zone"... she probably sees you only as a caring friend, a shoulder to cry on, and person to share HS memories with. She probably refers to you as "a close friend" or even "like a brother".

You have one shot, and one shot only. Call her and invite her out. If nothing happens on your date, it's time to move on to greener pastures. You've wasted enough braincells on her already IMO.

OMFG...i am finished
 

Koing

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If you can just go see her/ spend time with her or take out her somewhere. Go play golf or do anything. Not a movie as you can't talk together.

Get to know her better in REAL LIFE and not on the net.

After 2 months say then just tell her your feelings.

Tell her you like her and that you think your great together. Then ask her what does she feel? Does have feelings for you beyond that of a friend? Then you shall know your answer.

That is what I did to my current gf. I only knew her a bit before. I asked her out to places and we spent time together for 3 months. I 'grew some balls' and talked to her. We are together 18months on still.

Koing
 

Gravity

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Originally posted by: KarenMarie
remain calm. Women hate men who seem desperate.

Just tell her that you have been thinking about her for a long time and you would be honored if the two of you could get together.

:)

No doubt! Stop being so desperate!
 

littlegohan

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I assume you are Chinese? Anyways you are making the Chinese people look bad. Instead of whinning and crap
, can u grow some balls and just ask her out? WTF..
 

nanyangview

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I ASKED HER BEFORE..SHE HAS NO BF AAAAHHHHHHH
yes i am chinese...chinese girls are HARD TO GET, why don't you try yourself aaaahhhh

someone please bring me out of this misery..and why does everyone WANT PICTURES????
 

SackOfAllTrades

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Originally posted by: nanyangview
I ASKED HER BEFORE..SHE HAS NO BF AAAAHHHHHHH
yes i am chinese...chinese girls are HARD TO GET, why don't you try yourself aaaahhhh

someone please bring me out of this misery..and why does everyone WANT PICTURES????

having no BF doesn't necessarily mean...you know...