I always pick the winners

[Encryptic]

Originally posted by: nakedfrog
This thread is useless without pics.

This thread is so useless that even pics wouldn't salvage it. 😛

 

[Regs]

So she said she "needs space" before you even started dating her? That's a breakup line...This sounds like one to avoid, for sure.

No no no. She didn't state this exclusively to me. We were out with a group of other people in the same class at a bar. One of my friends starts gabbing about his past relationship and then she goes and states this to everyone there while I just kept my mouth shut. This is before she asked me out, mind you.

 

[TheLonelyPhoenix]

Originally posted by: Regs

Originally posted by: TheLonelyPhoenix
You are dealing with a head-case. She is unaware of how selfish she's being and you are a side-thought to her.

Make it clear to her that you are cutting her back down to "causal acquaintance" status if she doesn't intend to take you seriously, as what she is doing is both confusing and draining to you. It wouldn't hurt to ask exactly who you are to her either and whether she's taken the possibility of a relationship seriously.

Then she'll either make an effort to be around you more (hopeful outcome), she'll just say hi to you in class and not bother you outside of that (less optomistic outcome), or she'll continue on the same pattern she has (probable outcome). If she takes the third choice, you have to stick to your guns and move on from her.

Couldn't hurt to get another girl interested in you either. If she sees you with someone else, you'll be surprised how quickly she becomes more receptive to you.

I have taken this into consideration. I know there is a good looking girl in the same class that has "feelings" for me in the same class. But this girl is so sturbburn she'll likely just get pissed at me. It looks like im the only "hopeless romantic" in this situation.

Of course she'll be stubborn and pissed you're going after another girl! That's the point, dumbass. 😛

It only makes her want you more.

 

[AgaBoogaBoo]

She called you when she was "drunk," that was your shot

Life goes on

 

[shuan24]

whoa you gave up booty because of an 1 1/2 hour drive? Man, not only is this thread useless, but you are too!

 

[Regs]

Of course she'll be stubborn and pissed you're going after another girl! That's the point, dumbass. 😛

It only makes her want you more.

Cheers.

Might as well. I would be in a better posistion than I am now.

 

[Regs]

Originally posted by: shuan24
whoa you gave up booty because of an 1 1/2 hour drive? Man, not only is this thread useless, but you are too!

God damnit~! lol

 

[TheLonelyPhoenix]

Originally posted by: Regs

Of course she'll be stubborn and pissed you're going after another girl! That's the point, dumbass. 😛

It only makes her want you more.

Cheers.

Might as well. I would be in a better posistion than I am now.

That's the spirit. :beer:

Now go forth and copulate.

 

[Regs]

Originally posted by: calvinbiss
stop calling her. Just treat her as booty call from now on, if she calls you, great, go hit it. If you are drunk and horny, call her, maybe you can hit it. she doesn't seem very dateable right now.

I think this is the bottom line of this thread. Thank you sir.

 

[Regs]

And if I knew how to transfer pics from my cam phone to my pc (without getting a charged for an e mail transfer), I would post a pic of her. At this point I really don't care about her privacy.

 

[puffff]

doesnt sound all that bad to me. you're not her number one priority, and thats understandable. she's gotta work and make money, so it seems. she doesnt pick up her phone, well, when are you calling? while she's working?

just sounds like a busy girl, cut her some slack, you're not the most important thing in her life right now, let her settle down.

 

[jjones]

Originally posted by: calvinbiss
stop calling her. Just treat her as booty call from now on, if she calls you, great, go hit it. If you are drunk and horny, call her, maybe you can hit it. she doesn't seem very dateable right now.

Sounds about right.

 

[Regs]

Originally posted by: puffff
doesnt sound all that bad to me. you're not her number one priority, and thats understandable. she's gotta work and make money, so it seems. she doesnt pick up her phone, well, when are you calling? while she's working?

just sounds like a busy girl, cut her some slack, you're not the most important thing in her life right now, let her settle down.

This sounds like the most reasonable explanation to me. She's had it rough with her parents. Her parents were always on the move when she was in grade school. So I think she's just trying to find stability. I'm glad someone else agrees with one of my hypothesis.

 

[Muadib]

Originally posted by: Regs

Originally posted by: puffff
doesnt sound all that bad to me. you're not her number one priority, and thats understandable. she's gotta work and make money, so it seems. she doesnt pick up her phone, well, when are you calling? while she's working?

just sounds like a busy girl, cut her some slack, you're not the most important thing in her life right now, let her settle down.

This sounds like the most reasonable explanation to me. She's had it rough with her parents. Her parents were always on the move when she was in grade school. So I think she's just trying to find stability. I'm glad someone else agrees with one of my hypothesis.

Yeah, don't give up like most of these yahoos are telling you.

She lost her phone, so calling her is useless. Try to get a face to face, then act like your pissed that she keeps blowing you off. She will feel quilty, and try to make it up to you. Keep in mind that she's going though some stuff with her folks. If that scares you, then run now.

 

[halik]

Originally posted by: MrChad

One night I call her, and it just so happens she's drunk of her ass and invites me over. This is a 7:30 at night on a Sunday and by the time I would get there it would 10pm. So I decide to take a rain check for Monday after work, she agreed.

You missed the booty call. 😛

This girl isn't worth your time man.

exactly my thoughts

 

[MustangSVT]

eh.. -_-;

 

[Regs]

Originally posted by: Muadib

Originally posted by: Regs

Originally posted by: puffff
doesnt sound all that bad to me. you're not her number one priority, and thats understandable. she's gotta work and make money, so it seems. she doesnt pick up her phone, well, when are you calling? while she's working?

just sounds like a busy girl, cut her some slack, you're not the most important thing in her life right now, let her settle down.

This sounds like the most reasonable explanation to me. She's had it rough with her parents. Her parents were always on the move when she was in grade school. So I think she's just trying to find stability. I'm glad someone else agrees with one of my hypothesis.

Yeah, don't give up like most of these yahoos are telling you.

She lost her phone, so calling her is useless. Try to get a face to face, then act like your pissed that she keeps blowing you off. She will feel quilty, and try to make it up to you. Keep in mind that she's going though some stuff with her folks. If that scares you, then run now.

Other than that, the only other thing that I'm afraid of is that she is seeing someone else on the side.

 

[marcello]

Now I've been calling her all through the week and she doesn't even bother to pick up the phone. Neither has she been on AIM and I know she wouldn't block me.

That's a mistake, call her once, leave a message, and leave it at that. Other than that, just go with what that other guy said, she's busy, she'll figure it out, and then you'll figure it out.

 

[kreb]

If you're that afraid, it's time to get a little action yourself on the side 😛

 

[Muadib]

Originally posted by: Regs

Originally posted by: Maudie

Originally posted by: Regs

Originally posted by: puff ff
doesn't sound all that bad to me. you're not her number one priority, and thats understandable. she's gotta work and make money, so it seems. she doesn't pick up her phone, well, when are you calling? while she's working?

just sounds like a busy girl, cut her some slack, you're not the most important thing in her life right now, let her settle down.

This sounds like the most reasonable explanation to me. She's had it rough with her parents. Her parents were always on the move when she was in grade school. So I think she's just trying to find stability. I'm glad someone else agrees with one of my hypothesis.

Yeah, don't give up like most of these yahoos are telling you.

She lost her phone, so calling her is useless. Try to get a face to face, then act like your pissed that she keeps blowing you off. She will feel quilt, and try to make it up to you. Keep in mind that she's going though some stuff with her folks. If that scares you, then run now.

Other than that, the only other thing that I'm afraid of is that she is seeing someone else on the side.

So, what if she is? Rare is the unattached single woman. If she's hot, for git about it!!!

 

[Regs]

Originally posted by: marcello
Now I've been calling her all through the week and she doesn't even bother to pick up the phone. Neither has she been on AIM and I know she wouldn't block me.

That's a mistake, call her once, leave a message, and leave it at that. Other than that, just go with what that other guy said, she's busy, she'll figure it out, and then you'll figure it out.

Yes, I know. I likely just annoyed the hell out of her. I took a risk in doing that. I did that because at first after all that flirting she didn't even think I liked her before I just camed out and flat out said it to her. She's very dense. So I just wanted to let her know I was still interested in her if she got any bad vibes.

 

[TheNinja]

I would probably pork her....in fact I probably already have while an 80s power ballard wailed HARD in the background. Peace Homie!

 

[Ranger X]

The problem is you're too dependable. Stop calling her because that makes you look deserpate. It's about time you start becoming undependable by flaking out on her and only hang out with her at night -- and yes, treat her like a booty call.

 

[Regs]

So, what if she is? Rare is the unattached single woman. If she's hot, for git about it!!!

lol, believe me I'm trying. I just sent a message to her saying I understand that shes busy and needs her space but to let her know I'm there for her. I'll just leave it at that until she gets the chance to call or when we are in class together this Thursday.

I think I understand now. As you can tell never had much experience in dating. Lose 80lbs, then walk into such an active atomosphere as college, and have the girls suddenly ask you out of the blue leaves me confused.

 

[Regs]

Originally posted by: TheNinja
I would probably pork her....in fact I probably already have while an 80s power ballard wailed HARD in the background. Peace Homie!

lmao. Ty.