Originally posted by: Jeff7
Oh boy oh boy, there are going to be witty mod quotes in store in this thread!
I hope I don't sound like I'm getting hysterical now!
*Waves goodbye to those parting on nested-quote-subsidized vacations.*
Seriously, knock it off. Vacations do come en-masse for nested quoting.
Originally posted by: joshsquall
Originally posted by: aidanjm
Originally posted by: joshsquall
Originally posted by: aidanjm
who said anything about homophobia?
being willing to HIT your girlfriend over something liek this... well, that is an inappropriate emotional response. when you see that kind of exaggerated, inappropriate emotional over-response, you know there are some major fears or issues lurking below the surface.
Yes, homophobia. That's what you're insinuating by specifically mentioning "straight guys."
straight men seem to associate being penetrated with feelings of vulnerability. it makes them feel less of a man in some way. hence the guy's ludicrous emotional over-reaction to being 'fingered' by his girlfriend. you can call this "homophobia" if you want to, although I wouldn't call it homophobia.
that's not the impression I got from the snippet of conversation that was relayed to me. you're talking about someone who stated his number one rule in sex is "hands off my assh-le"... that is kind of a bizarre "number one" rule if you ask me. Also, for sex to be good you have to be willing to accommodate to some extent to your partner, however this guy appeared completely unwilling to experiment or try something new - he is almost certainly a dud in bed.
First, how do you read the thoughts of straight men when you are gay? You don't know how we think.
Originally posted by: aidanjm
Originally posted by: joshsquall
Originally posted by: aidanjm
Originally posted by: joshsquall
Originally posted by: aidanjm
who said anything about homophobia?
being willing to HIT your girlfriend over something liek this... well, that is an inappropriate emotional response. when you see that kind of exaggerated, inappropriate emotional over-response, you know there are some major fears or issues lurking below the surface.
Yes, homophobia. That's what you're insinuating by specifically mentioning "straight guys."
straight men seem to associate being penetrated with feelings of vulnerability. it makes them feel less of a man in some way. hence the guy's ludicrous emotional over-reaction to being 'fingered' by his girlfriend. you can call this "homophobia" if you want to, although I wouldn't call it homophobia.
that's not the impression I got from the snippet of conversation that was relayed to me. you're talking about someone who stated his number one rule in sex is "hands off my assh-le"... that is kind of a bizarre "number one" rule if you ask me. Also, for sex to be good you have to be willing to accommodate to some extent to your partner, however this guy appeared completely unwilling to experiment or try something new - he is almost certainly a dud in bed.
First, how do you read the thoughts of straight men when you are gay? You don't know how we think.
I make inferences on how straight men think, based on their comments and behavior. It's not rocket science. When a guy threatens to HIT his girlfriend because in bed her fingers strayed, then I class that as a very odd, hysterical emotional over-reaction.
For women, who are used to being penetrated, it's about "just not liking it" or maybe even finding it kind of gross or disgusting. For a man who is so threatened by the idea of being penetrated by another person he threatens to HIT his girlfriend, it is about WAY more than just "not liking it."
Where do you get that it doesn't please the woman at all? If it didn't please her, why would she be wanting to do it in the first place? I can see you have a very narrow understanding of what it means to give pleasure to your sexual partner. I'd guess you are a dud in bed, too.
I certainly feel I am 'better' than men who are so threatened by the idea of being penetrated that they HIT (or threaten to hit) their girlfriend. That is crazy behavior and I cannot respect it. Really, it is just a matter of saying "no". Resorting to violence is a sign of a deep insecurity - it is also a sign of a lack of self-understanding (another thing I can't respect).
Originally posted by: compuwiz1
Originally posted by: aidanjm
Originally posted by: joshsquall
Originally posted by: aidanjm
Originally posted by: joshsquall
Originally posted by: aidanjm
who said anything about homophobia?
being willing to HIT your girlfriend over something liek this... well, that is an inappropriate emotional response. when you see that kind of exaggerated, inappropriate emotional over-response, you know there are some major fears or issues lurking below the surface.
Yes, homophobia. That's what you're insinuating by specifically mentioning "straight guys."
straight men seem to associate being penetrated with feelings of vulnerability. it makes them feel less of a man in some way. hence the guy's ludicrous emotional over-reaction to being 'fingered' by his girlfriend. you can call this "homophobia" if you want to, although I wouldn't call it homophobia.
that's not the impression I got from the snippet of conversation that was relayed to me. you're talking about someone who stated his number one rule in sex is "hands off my assh-le"... that is kind of a bizarre "number one" rule if you ask me. Also, for sex to be good you have to be willing to accommodate to some extent to your partner, however this guy appeared completely unwilling to experiment or try something new - he is almost certainly a dud in bed.
First, how do you read the thoughts of straight men when you are gay? You don't know how we think.
I make inferences on how straight men think, based on their comments and behavior. It's not rocket science. When a guy threatens to HIT his girlfriend because in bed her fingers strayed, then I class that as a very odd, hysterical emotional over-reaction.
For women, who are used to being penetrated, it's about "just not liking it" or maybe even finding it kind of gross or disgusting. For a man who is so threatened by the idea of being penetrated by another person he threatens to HIT his girlfriend, it is about WAY more than just "not liking it."
Where do you get that it doesn't please the woman at all? If it didn't please her, why would she be wanting to do it in the first place? I can see you have a very narrow understanding of what it means to give pleasure to your sexual partner. I'd guess you are a dud in bed, too.
I certainly feel I am 'better' than men who are so threatened by the idea of being penetrated that they HIT (or threaten to hit) their girlfriend. That is crazy behavior and I cannot respect it. Really, it is just a matter of saying "no". Resorting to violence is a sign of a deep insecurity - it is also a sign of a lack of self-understanding (another thing I can't respect).
I have punched a gay man very hard, to the point I drew blood, and got ejected from an establishment before. The reason was, I told him I was straight and to leave me the fvck alone, on three occasions. That and he kept trying to touch me inappropriately. Finally, enough was enough. Suddenly, I felt the only way this guy is gonna get it, is if I wake him up with a couple missing front teeth.
Sorry, butt, no bungholio business for me, male, or female. Exits only.
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