Originally posted by: aidanjm
Originally posted by: joshsquall
Originally posted by: aidanjm
Originally posted by: joshsquall
I see no correlation between not liking fingers up your ass and homophobia. Am I hysterical because I like meat and vegans don't?
who said anything about homophobia?
being willing to HIT your girlfriend over something liek this... well, that is an inappropriate emotional response. when you see that kind of exaggerated, inappropriate emotional over-response, you know there are some major fears or issues lurking below the surface.
Yes, homophobia. That's what you're insinuating by specifically mentioning "straight guys."
straight men seem to associate being penetrated with feelings of vulnerability. it makes them feel less of a man in some way. hence the guy's ludicrous emotional over-reaction to being 'fingered' by his girlfriend. you can call this "homophobia" if you want to, although I wouldn't call it homophobia.
Originally posted by: joshsquall
The reason for the emotional response could be fact that the girlfriend knows you don't like it but continues to do it because she's a bitch?
that's not the impression I got from the snippet of conversation that was relayed to me. you're talking about someone who stated his number one rule in sex is "hands off my assh-le"... that is kind of a bizarre "number one" rule if you ask me. Also, for sex to be good you have to be willing to accommodate to some extent to your partner, however this guy appeared completely unwilling to experiment or try something new - he is almost certainly a dud in bed.