Originally posted by: gopunk
no. i would be great friends with her, because she sounds like a great person... but i wouldn't date her. there are horror stories about ex bfs having to pay child support for children that are not even their own because the court decided that since the children got attached to the bf he had to pay.
Originally posted by: Shockwave
Originally posted by: gopunk
no. i would be great friends with her, because she sounds like a great person... but i wouldn't date her. there are horror stories about ex bfs having to pay child support for children that are not even their own because the court decided that since the children got attached to the bf he had to pay.
Certainly a mature way to base our dating decisions.........
Originally posted by: Shockwave
Originally posted by: gopunk
no. i would be great friends with her, because she sounds like a great person... but i wouldn't date her. there are horror stories about ex bfs having to pay child support for children that are not even their own because the court decided that since the children got attached to the bf he had to pay.
Certainly a mature way to base our dating decisions.........
If you both have strong feelings, and she's not just a gold digger, why not? i mean, its a WHOLE different kind of relationship. It aint all parties and sex on the couch's n stuff. But then again, if your looking for a more mature type of relationship, it could be just the thing.
Originally posted by: Bluefront
I've done it many times. You just have to realize a few things. You will never be #1 with her. Those kids with someone else for a father, always will be ahead of you. Hard to deal with.... Also young women with children are always looking to get married for the sake of their kids, not for your sake. Keep that in mind before you get involved.
Originally posted by: kherman
To answer your question, I would never get into a LTR with a woman with children. Dating, sure, but not much more than that. I'd decide this going if things started getting more serious, I would break it off. ASk her what she's looking for. if it's not the LTR, go for it.
It's true though, if a woman has a kid, she took herself off the market to over 50% of the guys out there.
would I date her??? HELL! I married her!
Originally posted by: Geekbabe
Originally posted by: kherman
To answer your question, I would never get into a LTR with a woman with children. Dating, sure, but not much more than that. I'd decide this going if things started getting more serious, I would break it off. ASk her what she's looking for. if it's not the LTR, go for it.
It's true though, if a woman has a kid, she took herself off the market to over 50% of the guys out there.
Sounds to me that you're one of the 50% that single mothers are hoping to avoid, I do hope you're at least honest enough to tell the single mothers you date that they're just booty calls on the first date.
Originally posted by: MichaelD
Heh, got some news for 'ya; once you hit 30, EVERY woman you try to date has three kids, is divorced, has two cats a dog and a hamster AND has a psycho ex husband that gets out of jail tomorrow. *sigh* Believe me, I know.