I am not doing hardware pass through, so VT-d doesn't impact me. I already planned on using an SSD for each VM, so IO should be okay. Right now I am just sad I didn't buy RAM the last time I was looking, prices have skyrocketed it seems.
		
		
	 
Yes, RAM has gone up, and keeps creeping up, too.
As long as you don't get 120GB SSDs, or an SSD that can bog down under load, like say an Ultra Plus or Q (which are great regular client drives), you should be fine with either.
While not as fast as a RAID 0, 1 VM per SSD will make things easier. OTOH, you could probably get away with several VMs per SSD, no problem, with an SSD that handles that sort of thing well, like the M500 (slowest otherwise, but this is a near ideal use case), 600, Extreme II, or 840 Pro, and save some by getting large SSDs. The thing is, if you're getting smaller SSDs, you're giving up random performance on each (though any ~250GB or larger modern drive can sequentially saturate SATA 6Gbps), so take that sequential v. random difference into account.
On yet the other hand, a RAID 0 if ~250GB+ SSDs would give you both high sequential and random performance, and you probably want a backup system in place anyway (if you have GbE, just have the Vms shut down, and copy the whole VHDs over the network). The IOPS from the RAID would also make up for any performance deficiencies of any particular SSD, should it practically show up in a single-drive config.