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Originally posted by: geek4life
are you sure you guys don't care or is it bc you don't want ATOT think you're a racist?

They may care. They may not. It's up to you to make them look past what ever prejudices they have.

But, congrats on hooking up with a white girl.

Asian men and black women have the hardest time hooking up with people...unless they are abnormally hot.

Asian women...white man's domain
Brunette's...white man's domain
Latina's...black man's domain
Blonde women...black man's domain

I guess Asian boys and black women could get together and produce little Tigers.
 
My son dated girls of different ethnicity/race while he was in HS and I never had a problem with it. The only thing I care about is that she is not a useless, whiney, self-absorbed, helpless wench... but my son cant stand that type of girl either, so it has never been an issue. 🙂
 
Hey, I'm still alive and breathing after spending a night at the home of my white girl friend's parents. I had to sleep in a seperate room, of course.
 
If my daughter walks in with a non-white person . . . I have concerns. Not b/c of what type of person they are . . . it's b/c of how they will be viewed by the community. It's the truth. Deal with it!
 
It wouldn't bother me as long as they are personally acceptable. Race stereotypes wouldn't even be relevent if they were true - if a certain stereotype meant that 80% of white people had blue hair, and you hated blue haired people, and you met a white person without blue hair, than the fact that others may have the trait doesn't matter, it doesn't take away from the person you met. Aside from that, if I do allow myself to follow stereotypes, I would love my hypothetical kids to have an asian significant other - I think asian women are beautiful and asian men are smart and productive - still a stereotype, and probably not PC, but better than a negitive one I guess.
 
Originally posted by: geek4life
Tonight I'll get to meet my white gf's parents for the first time. I'm nervous. I hope her fahter doesn't greet me with a 12-gauge.


p.s. i'm asian

I have been in this situation before. The US is a very racist country. So it is a good chance her family will not approve of you and will let you know in one way or another how they feel about you.

To get an idea on what you are getting into, ask your gf what her family thinks about afro-americans and latinos.
 
I'm asian and have a small peepee too. What I'd do is whip it out in front of dad in law and ASSURE him, that she can't be hurt unless I start using my fists.
 
Originally posted by: Eli
Wouldn't bother me in the slightest, as long as they're a good person.

Same here. My extended family wouldn't be as forgiving though, unfortunately.
 
Originally posted by: deathkoba
I'm asian and have a small peepee too. What I'd do is whip it out in front of dad in law and ASSURE him, that she can't be hurt unless I start using my fists.

BWHAHAHA
 
if i ever have children they will be mixed so the odds of them ever dating someone of the same mix are slim to none. why anyone would have an issue with an interracial relationship is still beyond me. 😕

on a humurous note i just looked up the definition of 'melado' and found it quite entertaining:

"A mixture of sugar and molasses"
 
Originally posted by: Nutdotnet
Depends...when my daughter is ready to date and brings guys home the race isn't going to play as much as a factor as attitude...

A "thug" ain't gonna cut it
A "skater-stoner" ain't gonna cut it
A "pretty-boy holier than thou" ain't gonna cut it


I could care less what race the kid is...he's just gotta fit my image of "worthy".

😀

Well said, as long as they weren't trash of any race, it wouldn't matter to me.
 
I'm a mix, I've dated asian girls and white girls. My kids will be mixed, it's got little to do with what race rather who they are.

Unfortunately some ethnicities perpetuate stereotypes more than others.
 
All depends on the person. If I had a white daughter who brought home a dude with gold teeth that wore his pants around his ankles there would be a shotgun involved.

A decent guy and it is fine regardless of race/ethnicity.
 
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