How To Tell If A Girl Is Not Interested

[bigsnyder]

Married life doesn't get any easier. Just a new set of rules with a different set of mixed signals

 

[MrPickins]

Originally posted by: weezergirl
Me and my female friends always laugh at how CLUELESS guys can be.

We are not interested if we do 1 or more of these things:

1. run away whenever you talk to us or if we see you and we walk quickly the other way
2. give one word answers to your questions and never ask anything about you
3. after asking us 3 or more times to do something and we ALWAYS tell you we are busy and never offering an alternate date that we are free
4. tell you we are not interested. yes, we really mean it.

ok, considering how this board is full of guys and knowing how you guys LOVE to point out how us girls are always wrong and confusing and don't make sense i'm ready for the bashing!

If you aren't going to bash, contribute your own advice to all of the clueless guys out there who JUST DON'T GET IT!

Me and my male friends always laugh at women who expect men to read their minds when they could come out and say what they mean bluntly.

 

[MustangSVT]

Originally posted by: weezergirl
Me and my female friends always laugh at how CLUELESS guys can be.

We are not interested if we do 1 or more of these things:

1. run away whenever you talk to us or if we see you and we walk quickly the other way
2. give one word answers to your questions and never ask anything about you
3. after asking us 3 or more times to do something and we ALWAYS tell you we are busy and never offering an alternate date that we are free
4. tell you we are not interested. yes, we really mean it.

ok, considering how this board is full of guys and knowing how you guys LOVE to point out how us girls are always wrong and confusing and don't make sense i'm ready for the bashing!

If you aren't going to bash, contribute your own advice to all of the clueless guys out there who JUST DON'T GET IT!

errr what is this.. jr. high?

 

[beguile]

it's quite simply for me. Just say hi and see how they react. If they seem receptive, then i move forward. otherwise i give them the silent treatment, which a lot of girls hate.

 

[HaxorNubcake]

Originally posted by: PeeluckyDuckee
Girls like to flirt with guys in general, regardless if she likes him or not. They just like the attention.

What I don't understand is why is it when a girl knows I like her goes ahead and STILL tells me her encounter with her crushes? It's not like she doesn't has a clue, she does. And perhaps it's her way of telling me to back down. Point taken but kind of cruel, no? Especially when the scenario repeats itself 10x over. And no, I've never actively pursued her or asked her out on a date, but I knew my actions was a dead giveaway and slowly backed away.

When she said she'd call me 5x but never once bother the next day, but not even bother to give an excuse or tell me not to wait I very well knew the answer to where things were headed.

Do us guys a favour and please don't use us as emotional tampons for your guy troubles or who you have crushes on, we really don't want to hear it. Honestly, I feel like sh!t every time its brought up. Save these kinds of discussions for your girlfriends.

Oh, and you're not automatically mature because you say you are. Maturity has nothing to do with age.

yup. you can toy with them just as much though

 

[Blazin Trav]

Those are basic but I hate it when a girl lies and tries to play hard to get when she's really ALL ABOUT IT. I love women don't get me wrong... but there is definitely a difference between women and girls. Girls are insecure and or cannot handle themselves or they don't know what they want necessarily. Women just handle things more maturely.

-T

 

[irishScott]

So if I ask a girl out, and she says no, I have 2 more chances to get a date? Woot!

Granted, I have a GF, so the point is kind of moot now.