How to make up for being an ass??? *Updated*

[cherrytwist]

Got into a huge blow-out with my fiancee tonight. Mostly it was my fault.

I blew up at her for something really stupid. Not only did I piss her off and ruin her good mood (she had been wrapping Christmas presents), but I apologized and then later antagonized her into another argument .

Then it went from bad to worse. We were shouting and saying things we really shouldn't have said. Both of us were at fault and we each got really upset and emotional.

We came to somewhat of a resolution before she went to bed (and I came to work) but I still feel like a jerk .

Sent her this bouquet (which I NEVER do) but now I'm kind of playing the waiting game.

UPDATE:

She came home at lunch just to thank me for the flowers. She said it had really made her day.

When a friend at work asked why I had bought them she replied "Because I yelled at him."

Glad that she accepts some of the blame, kinda lets me off the hook.

Thanks for the input guys (and gals).

 

[Phunktion]

Have someone tie your hands behind your back and allow her to do her worst.. really it shows how sorry you are and whether or not she's the violent type..

 

[Burnt]

send her that flash page with the teddy bear hug.

 

[perry]

I dunno the answer to your question, but when you figure it out... make-up sex! :Q

 

[hzl eyed grl]

Sorry to hear that, Cherry. Just be honest with her and apologize. If it doesn't work....you can send me the flowers. (You don't wanna know how many years it's been since I've gotten flowers. )

Good luck!

 

[Jfur]

<< send her that flash page with the teddy bear hug. >>

 

[cherrytwist]

<< send her that flash page with the teddy bear hug. >>



url???

 

[Burnt]

Bear

Edit: Heh, There's nothing like a crazy bear trying to jump out of your monitor. If she has a computer at work, send it to her while she's there.

 

[Looney]

OMG that teddy bear site is sooo cute. Too bad i can't seem to send somebody a hug though, getting some kind of javascript error

BTW, a good way to make up is to surprise her. Flowers would be good if you sent it to work or something (you NEED to send flowers to her in public... it's effect is like 50X if other people - especially friends/co-workers - see you doing it)... or take her out to dinner somewhere fancy or fun.

 

[PaNsyBoy8]

wooo hoo my bear came in handy =)

 

[cressida]

sorry ... then give time

 

[cherrytwist]

<< Edit: Heh, There's nothing like a crazy bear trying to jump out of your monitor. If she has a computer at work, send it to her while she's there. >>



She has a computer there, but unfortunately no internet access (she gets email tho).



<< BTW, a good way to make up is to surprise her. Flowers would be good if you sent it to work or something (you NEED to send flowers to her in public... it's effect is like 50X if other people - especially friends/co-workers - see you doing it)... >>



I sent her this bouquet to her work. Believe me, I know the 50x takes effect in public places . I'm usually just to cheap to use this method.

 

[Burnt]

Well, hopefully you can patch things up. Good Luck

 

[glen]

Just don't fight with her.
Make it more important in your life to be close to her than to prove when she is wrong and you are right even if that is the case.

 

[neovan]

Find some way to make her laugh...either it be telling a stupid joke or making an ass out of yourself (in a funny way)
Girls seem to like humor
Good Luck...I know how you feel

 

[IGBT]

Tie your self to the whipping post and let her give you 40 lashes...:disgust:

 

[Looney]

I sent her this bouquet to her work. Believe me, I know the 50x takes effect in public places . I'm usually just to cheap to use this method.

Ah, then you should get some nookie tonight

 

[cherrytwist]

<< Find some way to make her laugh...either it be telling a stupid joke or making an ass out of yourself (in a funny way) >>



I didn't mention that on the card from the florist I put: "Sorry for being such an ass last night."
I'm sure she'll enjoy showing that to her co-workers .

BTW THanks everybody for the comments/suggestions. The teddy bear thing is priceless.

 

[Looney]

Does the Send Hugs on the teddy bear site works for anybody else? Every time you send a hug, 10 cents goes to breast cancer research... but then again, they might sell the other persons email.

 

[heartsurgeon]

if you were really rude, this may require expensive jewelry to fix.

 

[Way Cool Jr.]

Here is a good way to make up and get her to laugh.

Go to K-Mart or Walmart or something and get the board game "Sorry". Wrap it up and get nice "I'm Sorry" card to go with it.

She'll love it.

(I have done this and it works great. Only thing is, you can only do it once.)

 

[TuffGirl]

<< Does the Send Hugs on the teddy bear site works for anybody else? Every time you send a hug, 10 cents goes to breast cancer research... but then again, they might sell the other persons email. >>


Why don't you just bypass the whole thing and just use outlook or whatever you use for email to send the URL?

 

[HomeBrewerDude]

tell her how awful you feel and why, chicks love that sort of thing.

 

[crystal]

Go home early and cook her dinner... (suprises her)

 

[lawaris]

jus' be a JACKASS