ahhhhh! i started over entirely, i uninstalled icq, rebooted, reinstalled it, changed the keys in the registry (deleted the urls and set the transactions to No), i deleted the three files in the Partner folder, I deleted the three dlls. this is where i am now: icq 2000b (latest build), no sms banner, grey box that says icq atebrowser is still on the bottom of messages.
there is a folder in the icq dir called AteBrowser, there are also more icqate*.dll in the icq dir other than the three i deleted. could either of these things make a difference? im getting kind of fustrated here.