how to get over someone..... :(

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whoisx3ro

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Well......after a good month of talking and TRYING to work things out, me & this chick are 100% through.........I said some stuff out of anger, and frustration that should NEVER EVER be said towards anyone....

But I wasn't thinking at the time.....I know better than to talk to people when I'm mad, because I tend to explode rather violently and NOT think about what I'm saying....So I f*cked up bad....And I understand that, but that doesn't change the way I feel about this chick....

We were so good together, and she still really likes me....But the stuff I said will never be forgiven, and it's just over.....OVER......That kills me inside, makes me cry....Nothing I can do though, sorry doesn't cut it here....

My bad, my f*ck up....I understand that as well........I know it's time for me to move on.....But how? You can't just throw feelings out the window! I tried, but it doesn't work quite right.. :(

How do I move on? I know I should be looking in my own heart, but it's hard :(

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toph99

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you just put it behind you, quite simple really. i guess i'm one of the lucky ones who gets over things fast
 
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Azraele

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It's going to hurt for a while. Because you care for her, nothing will change that.

The only thing that will ease the acheis time. Until then, you can either reflect within your heart or try to busy yourself so you don't dwell on it.



What you may consider doing is telling her "yes, I realize that it's over, but I do want to say i'm sorry."
Perhaps goodbye flowers sent to her door with a message?
 
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Insomnium

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You need to do stuff constantly to get your mind off her. Keep yourself busy doing stuff and you'll be concentrating on what you're doing instead of thinking of her. That'll be the best way to get your mind off her, although it probably won't work 100%.

Sorry about your situation dude, but you'll get better soon.

Man, it would rock if you could perform Bon Jovi's I'll Be There for You for her. I think that song describes your situation pretty well.
 
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Milhouse99

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how to get over someone.... :(

First, don't post your girl problems here...we get way too many and you should be talking to ppl...real ppl, like your close friends (you do have some close friends do you not?)

Second, just don't see her. Sooner or later, time will help you get over your feelings. Just ignore anything that has anything to do w/ her and you will eventually feel better.

 
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Lemondrop

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Get a stack of hustlers and a extra large tube of KY :)
If you like her , and she likes you .... send some flowers with a note to call you and that your sorry and if you can't be together you still like to be her friend . My wife and me were like that , we had a big fight and broke up when we were just dating . Months later she showed up at a mutual friends house while I was there . I felt them wicked butterflies and knew ..... we started dating again and sooner or later we got married . If she wants anything at ALL to do with you , she will call . If not ... move along . My dad told me once "Women are like trains , miss one and another will be along in a few minutes" .
 
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tweakmm

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I think that someone said 'time heals all wounds, no matter how deep' .I've felt like i've lost someone (i basicly mind fvcked myself over this girl, made myself think that I was deeply in love with her, I was 14 BTW and the was my first girlfriend(sorta) and I really cared for her, and I confused that with alot of emotions) and writing about her will help as will time.
You can always go the self justification route and think of all the stuff that you hate about her and think that breaking up was a good thing(this is only for dire situations, it tends to make you hard inside)
 
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tweakmm

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<< You told her she was fat, huh? >>


how compasionate at this guys time of dispair....
heh:)
 
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whoisx3ro

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heh......thanks for the laugh bobby....something that's definitely needed.....

thanks for your help guys.....i know time will heal...........it was my first girl.....so i guess that's the main reason it's so hard to let go....ya know? i already got another girl that likes me deeply ;) im a sly dog....haha..j/k.....i dunno guys

i'm just not good w/ chicks.....i also hate that things had to end on such a bad note...but oh well....life goes on.....yep yep....

any pointers on how to get chicks?

thx fellas

x3ro
 
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tweakmm

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<< heh......thanks for the laugh bobby....something that's definitely needed.....

thanks for your help guys.....i know time will heal...........it was my first girl.....so i guess that's the main reason it's so hard to let go....ya know? i already got another girl that likes me deeply ;) im a sly dog....haha..j/k.....i dunno guys

i'm just not good w/ chicks.....i also hate that things had to end on such a bad note...but oh well....life goes on.....yep yep....

any pointers on how to get chicks?

thx fellas

x3ro >>



don't call them fat....
 
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<< How do I move on? I know I should be looking in my own heart, but it's hard :(

:( :( :( >>



Vigorous masteurbation!
 
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epsilon

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pulse is right. Confidence, but I'm talking REAL confidence is all you need . Most people just fake it and it is not the same. Few people I've met had real confidence. Those who did had it because that had a pretty stable and healthy emotional makeup in general.

You can't be truly confident if you have a bunch of other emotional spiders in your closet. So look at the overall picture, once you mellow out emotionally the confidence should come. It'll just come last, that all.

As far as getting over someone. Dont get another girl. Thats not fair to her. Just remember
(and this may sound too simplistic, but its the all you need), you cannot change the past, but you CAN make better decisions in the future.

You're probably young, I'd say you have lots of time left to make good decisions and read the rewards.
 
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epsilon

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If you're just dating her to get over the previous relationship that is unfair. If you really like a girl then by all means, date the living daylights out of her ;)



 
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yoda291

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I was always taught it was kinda like riding a horse. If you fall off, get up, brush yourself off, and mount a new one.

Time will heal it up, alcohol, I find, will speed things up considerably.
 
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stingbandel

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just get some activities to work on then your time will be on these activites so you don't have time to remember her anymore.
 
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epsilon

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I can think of no better reason to drink then to forget a girl, well maybe one better reason to drink is to forget you have a drinking problem. ;)

Listen, you could take tons of female hormones, loose sexual disure for girls and maybe that would ease the pain, but you know what ? Sometimes its important to hurt. Pain is the ultimate motivator. Feel the pain deeply and maybe you will be motivated to not make the same mistake again.

Or, diminish the pain as much as possible and make the same mistake again because you didn't connect the act with the consequences well enough.

Your call.
 
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urameatball

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hook up with the first 7.5+ rating chick and have crazy raunchy sex for the next 2 weeks.
that'll calm your nerves no problem :)
 
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