How to get in the pants of a Good Friend...

[illusion88]

I hope ive come to the right place.

See ive known this girl for about three years now. We are real close friends. Over the past few weeks we have been getting closer. We are haning out alot more, and going over to eachothers houses. We have just been seeing eachother alot more latly.I have always wanted to start a relationship with her but never did. And im thinking nows my window but im not sure. Now i have a feeling that im burried deep in the friend zone, not to mention we have had this friendship for over around three years. So do i stike now or forever hold my peace?

 

[NikPreviousAcct]

Grow up.

nik

 

[illusion88]

Originally posted by: ffmcobalt

Grow up.

nik

good advice

 

[AreaCode707]

Originally posted by: ffmcobalt

Grow up.

nik

*applauds nik*

 

[djheater]

Originally posted by: ffmcobalt

Grow up.

nik

pot meet kettle....






j/k... really nik... it's a joke.... PUT THE KNIFE DOWN.....

 

[NikPreviousAcct]

Originally posted by: illusion88

Originally posted by: ffmcobalt

Grow up.

nik

good advice

So take it. Just be her friend. If you're in the "friend zone" now, there's no hope. If you want sex, don't use your friends - especially the ones you care about. If you want a real relationship with her, sex won't be one of the primary reasons.

nik

 

[illusion88]

All right
ill hide myself in shame. Ill just go over here to this corner with my tail between my legs and whimper for a while...

 

[minendo]

Originally posted by: illusion88
All right
ill hide myself in shame. Ill just go over here to this corner with my tail between my legs and whimper for a while...

And thats the closest you'll ever get to a bj. :Q

 

[ElFenix]

friend zone!

 

[rpc64]

WTF kind of answer is that?

 

[illusion88]

Originally posted by: minendo

Originally posted by: illusion88
All right
ill hide myself in shame. Ill just go over here to this corner with my tail between my legs and whimper for a while...

And thats the closest you'll ever get to a bj. :Q

Thats uncalled for man

 

[oLLie]

Originally posted by: illusion88

Originally posted by: minendo

Originally posted by: illusion88
All right
ill hide myself in shame. Ill just go over here to this corner with my tail between my legs and whimper for a while...

And thats the closest you'll ever get to a bj. :Q

Thats uncalled for man

No it isn't, I'm pretty sure we just got the call for it a few minutes ago, I was talking to someone when I got the call for it and I clicked over and then told minendo to go ahead with it.

 

[minendo]

Originally posted by: illusion88
Thats uncalled for man

Just like the fact that your ultimate goal is to "get in the pants of a Good Friend."

 

[XMan]

I guess being a man and telling her you like her is out of the question?

 

[dfi]

I'm going to disagree with everyone here and say go for it. Just because you are in the friend zone doesn't mean you'll be stuck in there forever. Hell, half the reason most guys are even in the friend zone is in the vain hope that they'll get in a situation like yours. Now that you're there, don't give up. Well, I don't really know the situation, but given what I know that's the advice I'm giving. Granted, the title of the post wasn't that great... but if you are interested in a relationship then why not?

dfi

 

[AreaCode707]

Originally posted by: minendo

Originally posted by: illusion88
Thats uncalled for man

Just like the fact that your ultimate goal is to "get in the pants of a Good Friend."

I think that's everyone's problem. If you were asking, is it a good time to try to develop more of a relationship with her, I'd say go for it, just talk to her, etc. That sex is your goal... eh, grow up.

 

[PlatinumGold]

i have to say that your title is grossly juvenile and really doesn't reflect a true friendship.

"get in the pants of", sheeesh.

mb next time you'll ask if physical intimacy is possible w/ good friends w/o losing the friendship, then mb you get some respect.

 

[hpkeeper]

What the hell is with this board? I leave for a couple weeks and everyone becomes obnoxious... geeze. Chill out... what if the guy just wanted advice on girls... I can't tell you how many times I've come to board asking for advice about a girl, wether she was good friends with me or not. Quit knockin' the guy for tryin' and help him out.

As for my advice, I'm with X-man, Grow some balls and just tell her that you like her. At least you'll know, chances are if she's hanging out with you more often, she may be getting the same vibe... so get the nervousness out of your system and just tell her.

 

[CurtCold]

"Captian!..."

"Yes Spock?"

"Data shows that we are now entering the "Friend Zone""

"Crap"

If she's a true friend you won't just be worried about "getting in her pants" thats lame man. Take care of her if you really care about her.

 

[zippy]

Originally posted by: X-Man
I guess being a man and telling her you like her is out of the question?

 

[miniMUNCH]

Love is about taking risks and opening yourself up to someone else...as frightening as it may seem.

Remember this line from The Replacements (my wife just made me watch it again): "Winners always want the ball when the game is on the line."

When its a relationship on the line, and one that you care about, be bold, be honest, but also be sensitive to the fact that this whole thing may come out of 'left field' from her perspective.

Cheers! Off to the Pub!!

 

[CrazyDe1]

If there's been tension and you guys have been flirting forever...go for it...I know I've been friends w/ a girl for 3 years and we're even more good friends cuase we both want each other and were too scared to go for it.
I'll tell her what she told me...we've got the emotional part which is whats important...the physical parts easy...so if shes slightly into it go for it

 

[thawolfman]

Originally posted by: minendo

Originally posted by: illusion88
Thats uncalled for man

Just like the fact that your ultimate goal is to "get in the pants of a Good Friend."

Owned!

 

[shiner]

How illusion88 can get in the pants of his good friend.

By shinerburke

Step 1: Don't come on here and post about it.

Step 2: Give up because you are far too much of a lame ass to ever get in anyone's pants.

Step 3: Resume killing kittens while looking at back issues of People Magazine with Chelsea Clinton on the cover.

 

[HappyPuppy]

Just stick your hand down her pants, grab a handful of crotch and see what she does. Life really isn't all that difficult.