Scrapster: I know this is tough. Did you try talking to her? If so, and she's still all for it, you're just going to have to let her go on with it, for better or for worse. As hard as it sounds, it's her life and you can't live it for her, but you can be there for her when she needs you. The hardest thing to do is sit back and watch when you know someone is making a mistake. Be supportive. If her marriage does go wrong, she will feel comfortable coming to you to help her through it. For now though, even though it stinks, put up a good front and pretend to be happy for her.