How the heck do I get over a first 'love' (obsession)

[Mookow]

<< Ah, welcome to the world of women. I can't give you much advice, just prepare for hell 🙂 >>



I think this one science fiction book I read put it best. One of the aliens was talking to another, and said "Breeders. Cant live with them, cant roast them on a spit."

 

[Juniper]

Sounds like she was playing with you. Let it go.

 

[Scouzer]

<< Some honest advice for you from a woman:

1) She knows you like her
2) She is messing with you, initiating things and flirting :disgust:
3) That is rancid :disgust::disgust:
4) You need to stand up! Get a little angry about her egotistical power trip (but just to yourself) and realize she is not worth it and her positive attributes were mainly a product of your imagination :|
5) Standing up also entails avoiding her (politely) and making a point of not being available and eager for her ego-bosst (her ego) phone calls and flirtations 🙂
6) This will restore your self esteem and make you hard to walk all over 😀
7) This will make you attractive to other women, and you will have the initiative to move on 😀 😀 >>



Thanks to all, especially Jfur's concise version of everything 🙂

Today I avoided much talk to her, but made it clear I wasn't angry or she'd get mad herself (w/e...). She tried her normal 'blonde stuff' (Continually playing with earrings and stuff I normally comment on...)to try to get me to talk, a fake coughing fit...etc... but I didn't comment sitting right behind her. I'd occasionally say something to make it clear I'm not ignoring her or hostile, but would make a point of not talking much to her. I don't feel nearly so bad as I did last night (When I first learned the guy she likes is going to ask her out)... I think I'm making some progress... 🙂

 

[rutchtkim]

Hang in there, first crushes always suck. 😉

 

[Shaftatplanetquake]

pull out your penis. if she does something to it, excellent, you are in business.

If she is totally not interested then she will run away screaming and will not talk to you anymore.

either way, problem solved.

to recap: Introduce her to the new breed of snake, the trouser snake.

 

[Scouzer]

Good news! Without talking to her, its been a breeze. I found another girl who likes me and it looks like I'm moving on to her! Yay! Thanks again for the help! All of you!

 

[eakers]

the best peice of advice given to me here about a broken heart and i have to pass it on: learn linux.