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Mathlete

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Originally posted by: Duddy
OK, we talked on the phone for about 2 hours and settled it.

When I called her, she told the truth and broke down crying. She said she wishes she could turn back time and change it.

She also told me that she entered the bikini competition and won $50 and that she qualifies for the finals which gives $500.


This girl is the one. This is the one I want to be with the rest of my life. She is soo loving and is soo sweet. She would do anything for me and I would do anything for her.

I just don't want her to become the decay of society along with all the other rednecks in that bar and half the people who replied to this thread. (You know who you are)




[This is for the posters lacking moral fiber]
It's easy to say that I'm being an ass. But your hypocrisy shows no bounds.

If you put yourself in my situation, you would feel as every other man in the world would.

First of all, way to edit out the OP. You don't sound like an insecure prick anymore. Congrats.

Second of all, I am in your situation and I guess I feel different then "every other man in the world". My gf goes out with the ladies at least once a month and I have had friends come up to me and say"Dude, I saw your gf dancing with some other guy last night". Who gives a flying .... It's freaking dancing!!! What is this, Footloose? Should we get the Reverend in here to ban dancing. I have no problems with it because when she goes out dancing and gets all hot and bothered it's me she comes home to and I get the benefits. I guess that's the difference between people that are confident with themselves and trust their gf and you. ;)
 

johnjohn320

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K, so he updated the OP and I have no idea what's going on now...what was the pic? who did what now?
 

erikistired

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Originally posted by: RichardE
Originally posted by: fisher
Originally posted by: lizardboy
Here's another shot of her:
http://www.theemotions.com/photos.asp?page=4&pageID=0&photoID=31812

you can clearly see in this pic she wants to hook up with the guy she's wagging her tongue at. OP she has been getting freaky in the club, you = pwnt.

GF have mark on her knees the next day?

i bet they strangely resemble the tile pattern in the club's bathroom.
 

RichardE

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Originally posted by: fisher
Originally posted by: RichardE
Originally posted by: fisher
Originally posted by: lizardboy
Here's another shot of her:
http://www.theemotions.com/photos.asp?page=4&pageID=0&photoID=31812

you can clearly see in this pic she wants to hook up with the guy she's wagging her tongue at. OP she has been getting freaky in the club, you = pwnt.

GF have mark on her knees the next day?

i bet they strangely resemble the tile pattern in the club's bathroom.

My thoughts exactly

Don't ask where she learned to do that "thing" next time you two go at it op..
 

aphex

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eek, she does kinda have bababooey teeth.
 

Nutdotnet

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On behalf of everyone who "lacks moral fiber".

Go fvck yourself.

Since you must be a sheltered little b*tch growing up, let me give you some insight:

Morals are subjective. EVERYONE's morals are different. My morals, your morals, the dude jerking off in the theater's morals, they're all different.

To me, it sounds like you need to grow up. You have every right to think bikini competitions are sickening, but, your girlfriend also has every right to participate in one. You're not her father, she's an adult correct? Then let her be a fvcking adult and make her own damn decisions. What, are you so insecure in yourself that you think your woman is gonna get in a bikini, see some dude watching her, and automatically she's gonna start ridding reverse-cowboy style in the middle of the room?

Seriously, it's people like you who are the "bane of our society". Controlling, immature, and insecure idiots thinking they can tell another adult what to do and expect that person to act exactly like they want them too...

Grow the fvck up asshole.

Edit- oh, and if my gf asked my thoughts of being in a bikini competition, I'd get her to the first-in-line to sign up...
 

chambersc

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i don't follow... from the update, did you dump her?

Originally posted by: Nutdotnet
On behalf of everyone who "lacks moral fiber".

Go fvck yourself.

Since you must be a sheltered little b*tch growing up, let me give you some insight:

Morals are subjective. EVERYONE's morals are different. My morals, your morals, the dude jerking off in the theater's morals, they're all different.

To me, it sounds like you need to grow up. You have every right to think bikini competitions are sickening, but, your girlfriend also has every right to participate in one. You're not her father, she's an adult correct? Then let her be a fvcking adult and make her own damn decisions. What, are you so insecure in yourself that you think your woman is gonna get in a bikini, see some dude watching her, and automatically she's gonna start ridding reverse-cowboy style in the middle of the room?

Seriously, it's people like you who are the "bane of our society". Controlling, immature, and insecure idiots thinking they can tell another adult what to do and expect that person to act exactly like they want them too...

Grow the fvck up asshole.

Edit- oh, and if my gf asked my thoughts of being in a bikini competition, I'd get her to the first-in-line to sign up...

Seconded..she's not "your woman." you should respect her.
 

DaiShan

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Not that it's needed but I figured that I'd weigh in and re-iterate some of the more pertinent posts in this thread.

OP: Girls like to go out and dance. They will dance with their female friends, by themselves, or with a guy. Guys are the opposite. We don't like to dance unless it means some hot piece of tail is going to grind our crotch into powder. So given what we know, it seems to me what happened is as follows: As you were out of town your girlfriend decided that there was no reason for her to sit at home alone and pine for your return, so she went to the club with some of her friends. While at the club another guy walked up and started dancing behind her. You were stalking her online and came across a picture of said event and freaked out because you are insecure and feel inferior to the dude in the picture, then decide that your girl needs a stern lecture.

Let's play a game, it's called read the above paragraph and find where the knife-wielding stalker insanity begins... Seriously man, you need to chill out, you sound like you're 17 or something. If you can't trust your girl to not have sex with some random guy in a club, you dump her. You also need to realize that girls are going to go out and have fun, this doesn't mean that she is going out to have sex with some random guy in a bar bathroom, it just means that she's escaped from the shackles under your bed and wants some human interaction with normal people.
 

Theb

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I get really jealous too. One time I punched a tampon right in the face.

Originally posted by: MangoTBG
Lol, here's a "better picture" of said girlfriend
From the second picture it's reasonable to assume someone asked "who wants to get gang banged?" and your girlfriend and her friend raised their hands and yelled "we do!" Call her and ask her who's been gang banging her and if she says anything besides "everyone" then you know she's lying and you should break up with her but then follow here everywhere she goes.
 

iliopsoas

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Originally posted by: Duddy
OK, we talked on the phone for about 2 hours and settled it.

When I called her, she told the truth and broke down crying. She said she wishes she could turn back time and change it.

She also told me that she entered the bikini competition and won $50 and that she qualifies for the finals which gives $500.


This girl is the one. This is the one I want to be with the rest of my life. She is soo loving and is soo sweet. She would do anything for me and I would do anything for her.

I just don't want her to become the decay of society along with all the other rednecks in that bar and half the people who replied to this thread. (You know who you are)




[This is for the posters lacking moral fiber]
It's easy to say that I'm being an ass. But your hypocrisy shows no bounds.

If you put yourself in my situation, you would feel as every other man in the world would.



OMG You are such a tool.
 

GoingUp

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for those of us who came in late to the thread, did the GF blow some guy in the bathroom, or does the OP just have his panties in a twist because his GF was within 30 feet of another guy?
 

chambersc

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Originally posted by: Gobadgrs
for those of us who came in late to the thread, did the GF blow some guy in the bathroom, or does the OP just have his panties in a twist because his GF was within 30 feet of another guy?


that's about it. his original OP was something along the lines of

"i was driving to TX and looked up a band that was playing at a bar near where i live. i found a pic of my GF dancing with some guy. i'm going to call her up and talk about it. if she's truthful then we're good but if she lies....."

even though she was truthful, he KNOWS she is the one, and NOTHING NOTHING NOTHING happenend --- he still dumped her. he's a class act.