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- Oct 21, 2000
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Originally posted by: SilentZero
28 / Full time student and work doing research in bio-informatics (no pay). Only income is from the VA (military disability), and what my wife and I have saved over the years).
What I don't understand is how all these 20 thru 24 year old's on here "supposedly" earn over 60k a year? lol I call Shens on some of you!
With two B.S. degrees and a M.S. in computer science I qualify for jobs around the 65+k mark...so how do all you without degrees and with just an undergrad get hired for that and more? I handicapped myself by serving on active duty (Army) for a good amount of years first, but hell I hope to make good money like all of you someday. For all you big earners Congrats! Sadly...my wife makes and will probably always make more than me. But as long as I get to keep spending money its all good.![]()
Your situation is confusing. You are what I call the art spouse, except you are a man, which makes you only the second person I have ever seen in this position. What do I mean by art spouse? You ever meet those couples where the wife (and don't even get started, it almost always is the wife) is an aspiring opera singer, actor, or runs her own poodle charity? What do they all have in common? 99% of them don't ever make it and they make zero to negative money. So how is this possible? Well, they are always married to rich guys or guys that are willing to suck it up.
That's you. Except you are not doing art or painting or anything. You have VERY practical and useful and profitable degrees. Three to be exact. But let's dig deeper. Perhaps you are not artsy, perhaps you are the other type of person which is the lifetime student.
Three degrees, even with dual majors and an accelerated masters program probably took you 5-6 years. So while your peers were out getting experience on the job market, you were in school. And things were good.
Then after that, you went straight to the military. Again, your friends are now 25-26, 4 years at their jobs. Then after you got out, you went into research with no pay.
Your story is very common. You are not driven by money. You don't even want to make money. Why would you when your wife allows you to live your lifestyle?
