edprush,
I understand exactly where you are coming from my brother.... about 4 years ago I was badly receding and my hair had thinned out to the point where I could easily see my scalp when looking at myself in the mirror.
I researched what I could do about it and found that Proscar (same ingredient as Propecia, but this was before Propecia) was working very well for a lot of people. The 5 mg Proscar tabs can be quartered into 1.25 mg chunks and taken daily. I started on this and also taking Minoxidil (Rogain). It took several months but I started to make progress. I have now recovered a good deal of the hair I had before I begain to recede. You would never be able to tell by looking at pictures that I used to have badly receded hair.
Although some people have had minor side effects from taking Propecia or Proscar I have not had any.
Email me with any more questions you have.
I know how hard this can be on your self esteem.