irishScott
Lifer
- Oct 10, 2006
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Originally posted by: DaShen
It is more about confidence and how you carry yourself. If you are in decent shape that is <if you are slovenly, then you might need to work out>, but since you are fit persay, then girls notice a guy who is confident (or at least comfortable with who they are). It is the way you walk and talk with other people. If you can show confidence, a level of alpha male leadership, and charisma (joking around and having fun), you won't have any problems. IMO, I don't think many girls take notice of veins or muscles after the first few looks. I mean, they may get you a glance, but unless you are willing to approach them and show them you are masculine enough, you might as well stick to working out.
I am shy by nature, so that works against me, but I am confident and comfortable with who I am (plus I am quirky/odd in a good way), so I don't have problems with girls taking an interest or giving glances. Too bad my followthru isn't always up to par, but that is because I don't followthru unless I get to know a girl first. <sigh> Oh well...
Same here. It's not that I'm shy per se, but for some reason I need an INSANE amount of energy to be effectively social to strangers. So I generally isolate myself (save from my very close friends whom I can always get along with) until I'm ready to come out.
Working to fix that though.
My motto: If you're not satisfied with yourself, be satisfied with who your becoming.
