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How many siblings do I have? Serious question.

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nanette1985

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When I was born I had 4 older brothers. A couple years later I acquired a baby sister.

Obvious answer - I have 5 siblings.

However, 6 months before I was born another of my brothers was killed by a car. There had once been 5 boys, but when i was born, there were only 4.

All the time when I was young, the usual answer to that question was that I had 5 siblings. This being small town Ohio, everybody knew the whole story, and I accepted that 5 was the right answer.

A million years have passed, I'm old, divorced and dating. This is one of the common questions that often comes up in the get-to-know-you part. It's not something I care to discuss at length, just want a quick answer, but I want to be accurate.

Oh, and one other thing: another of my brothers died about 10 years ago, cancer. So in that sense, I have 3 brothers and one sister still living.

If, heaven forbid, you are in a similar situation, how do you respond to this kind of thing? If you outlive all your siblings, do you then become an only child?
 
Yes, deceased siblings count. You have 6 siblings, 2 deceased. If you say it like that, they'll probably say "Oh, I'm sorry", and the conversation will continue. And you're being accurate.
 
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"Have" is a present tense verb. I "have" one brother and no mothers.

If anybody wants the family history, give it to them. If nothing else it's probably an interesting story.
 
Yea sometimes when recovering accounts that question comes up and I can never remember if I answered 2 or 4 at the time of setting it : (
 
This.

You had 5 brothers, 2 of them deceased.
You currently have 4 siblings, 3 older brothers, 1 younger sister.

In my opinion, relationships like that don't die with the person, depending on context of conversation. Even if my brother were to die, I would still say that I have one brother, deceased.
 
The way I look at it, you have 3 older brothers and 1 younger sister. If your dating gets to the point where you really want to let her in the family, you mention that you had two older brothers who died.

You never lied -- and honestly, if you mention dead brothers, that will turn a woman off. You can mention them later when it gets more serious.
 
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