though i am thinking of getting a SUV or Van.
Yeah 200 - 250k should be expected from any vehicle. My 1999 Camry has 209,000 on it, also with no end in sight. A few minor issues have arisen... the blower fan only works on two speeds, and the driver window has worn out to the point of not going up all the way anymore on the first try. All fixable, but stuff im just living with right now. Car runs like a top otherwise.
Just put brand new tires on it, and have no doubt i will probably need at least another set before it dies or i sell it.
Unless you need to tow or off-road, get the minivan. Cheaper, more reliable, more fuel-efficient, lower rollover risk, easier to get into and out of (and easier to load up with stuff at Home Depot, for that matter), more cargo room, safer, and cheaper insurance.
yeah that is the main reasons i like the van. Though my daughter is on a gymnastics team and we drive a LOT in the winter.
getting 4WD or AWD is a great option on SUV's. That is nearly the ONLY reason i think a SUV over a van.