I think there are solutions insided and outside the government. I would hope that we reach a breaking point in how we collectivley view parenting and societal pressure would encourage better parenting. I think I see this to some extent among people I know. A lot of new parents see how other children have been acting and say 'Oh no! Not my kid!' but obviously my sample size for that is much to small.
Too much emphasis on each child is a unique snowflake and can do no wrong. This touchy feely friend rather than parent approach was not concieved within the government
Why do we always have to reach "rock bottom" before action is taken? Are we not an advanced enough society to foresee some problems and proactively address them? Isn't it already bad enough? Why should we "wait and see" when there are clear interventions that have a good chance at improving outcomes.
We have standards to drive a car because there is a minimum level of competency required for community health.
We have standards for hunting because one person cannot possibly have the insight needed to regulate animal populations.
Is raising a human being not as important as these issues? Why is there virtually no regulation on it? Nearly anyone can become a parent regardless of their competence. We give up certain freedoms with the acceptance of our social contract. We have the right to own a gun, but we have to follow certain rules such as registering it, and we certainly gave up the right to shoot someone at will. We have the right to freedom of speech, but if one exercises this right in an incredibly disruptive manner, such standing up in the middle of your workplace and yelling, there are repercussions.
We give up certain elements of freedom in order to have a civilized society. What at all is civilized about having a child when you have a drug addiction? When you have no means to support yourself financially? When you're underage?
I believe your idea that societal pressure will influence parents enough to have better outcomes is
incredibly optimistic. This ostensible presentation of
negative feedback I truly think does not have the self-regulating capacity to be an outright solution. I think elements of this concept play an important role in the creation of capable parents, but I also think it should be included as part of a multidimensional concentrated effort to standardize what it means to be a competent parent. I think we can all agree that we desire more parents to be competent, it's just the means to the end that have differing opinions. This multidimensional approach implements redundancies--people respond differently to the same modalities, therefore I think it is important to not rely on one approach.