How long after a break-up would you start dating again?

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joeryu

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i sorta hinted at her that i was gonna spend the day with another chick...and she got pretty jealous... =\. thing is ive known this other chick for a while, and shes always been jealous of her, cause i did spend a lot of time with her too (she goes to my church, and she is my cousin's best friend). i wanna move on, but i dont think she wants me to. oh well...
 

eakers

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Originally posted by: ohtwell
You should wait until you think you are emotionally ready to start another relationship.

She has not right to be mad at you for wanting to move on. She should too.

Why do women have to be so difficult?
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: ) Amanda
love is a very powerful emotion and though mosta us can front like it doesnt bother us seeing someone we loved with somoene else, alotta times, esp. shortly after a break up it hurts to see them with somoen else even though you know that you dont want them back.
some girls deal with this on their own
some go crazy.
and sometimes teh best way to not go crazy is to stop talking for a while, even if you did end on good terms. its not a personal attack sorta thing just a healing thing.

blah.


 

eakers

Lifer
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ps: depends on how long the relationship is.
keep in mind sometimes a rebound is a good thing.
 

Kadarin

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Originally posted by: Muadib
Originally posted by: hammer09
yes rebound is good ;)

Not if you're the one caught in the middle it ain't.:(

True, that... If you're the one who got dumped, and your ex is the one doing the rebounding with someone else, that sucks more than just about anything.
 

Lonyo

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Explain to her that since you've broken up, you have the right to see another person if you feel ready for it, same as she could see someone else and you couldn't complain. But remember, you shouldn't listen too much to what other peopel say, as in the end it's up to you, and if you feel ready to move on, then you should, especially if it's someone you know and like rather than some chick you just met in a club or bar.
 

Koing

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asap

Your not together now and you can do what you want with other girls. If shes jealous then why is that so? Anyway you have no ties so you go have fun.