how important is intelligence in a relationship

iwantanewcomputer

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or would it be a hit it until something smarter comes along?

Personally, although i would like to boink a number of dumb hot girls i know, i would not like to spend time with them besides the occasional party chat.

on the other hand there are more average looking, smart girls that i want to date and feel like the physical relationship would be more fun because we could connect better.

how do you guys feel
 

swtethan

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you could do dumb girls all you want, but if they get preggo.... dumb kids 4 u!
 

swatX

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Originally posted by: swtethan
you could do dumb girls all you want, but if they get preggo.... dumb kids 4 u!

ROFL!! but if u look at the bright you can make a ****** excuse for the all gadgets you buy
 

iwantanewcomputer

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Originally posted by: swatX
Originally posted by: swtethan
you could do dumb girls all you want, but if they get preggo.... dumb kids 4 u!

ROFL!! but if u look at the bright you can make a ****** excuse for the all gadgets you buy

huh? somebody who is sober please tell me this makes no sense
 

deejayshakur

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Originally posted by: iwantanewcomputer
Originally posted by: swatX
Originally posted by: swtethan
you could do dumb girls all you want, but if they get preggo.... dumb kids 4 u!

ROFL!! but if u look at the bright you can make a ****** excuse for the all gadgets you buy

huh? somebody who is sober please tell me this makes no sense

it makes no sense if you're drunk.
 

xSkyDrAx

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Originally posted by: swatX
Originally posted by: swtethan
you could do dumb girls all you want, but if they get preggo.... dumb kids 4 u!

ROFL!! but if u look at the bright you can make a ****** excuse for the all gadgets you buy

And here we see how important intelligence in a relationship is.

Please people, think of the children!
 

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I cant see how you could possibly fall in love with someone you consider dumb.
 

biostud

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no, actually it was one of the major reasons I left my last GF, I started at university and found out smart and nice girls existed. Then I realized I could not have a future with her.
 

VTHodge

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I broke up with a girl in high school because I thought she was too dumb. It turns out that she was actually smart and just pretended to be dumb to be more popular. Funny how that works out. I heard that she works for NIST now.
 

Zap

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What do you consider a "relationship?" If it's just to doink, any woman's okay depending on how drunk you are. :p Otherwise she'd better be able to keep up her end of the conversation unless her mougph waf full. :laugh:


Originally posted by: swtethan
you could do dumb girls all you want, but if they get preggo.... dumb kids 4 u!

Negatory. Regression towards the mean. Dumb parents have kids smarter than them. Smart parents have kids dumber than them.
 

Coquito

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Originally posted by: VTHodge
I broke up with a girl in high school because I thought she was too dumb. It turns out that she was actually smart and just pretended to be dumb to be more popular. Funny how that works out. I heard that she works for NIST now.


Then she's dumb. There's a difference between memorizing a bunch of textbooks & actually being able to think for yourself.
 

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I think sharing a sense of humor is more important than intelligence.
 

JLGatsby

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No intelligence = No chance with Gatsby.

I would rather have an average looking intelligent girl than super attractive dumb girl.

Dumb girls only want to get wasted and act childish. That's not someone who you can do interesting or meaningful things with.
 

0roo0roo

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only if she has to support you.

otherwise loyalty/kindness/morals/ethics are more important. u talk a lot about intelligence because its pc.. but if she's so smart why's she with a slob like u;)
 

imported_nautique

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Dumb girls are fun to party with because they will do anything. But dating hell no!!!! I ended up breaking up with a girl because she was always asking me questions for what things meant and for help on homework! :p
 

gigapet

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depends. A girl can be dumb but still have a personality and many many other redeeming characteristics. One comes to mind I know she is the nicest and sweetest girl you could ever imagine, she will go out of her way to do things for you like bring you baked goods and clean off your desk at work. She has plenty of stuff to talk about and has a nice up beat pleasant personality. She doesnt drink or do anything like that. When it comes down to it though she just isnt a very "smart" girl.
I've seen it although rare.


usually they are dumb nand have no personality or anything other than theyre body that is redeeming.
 

SearchMaster

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My deceased father-in-law had a genius IQ. He was married 3 times - the first wife is highly intelligent, the second wife (my wife's mother) is also very intelligent (a medical doctor), and his last wife is dumb as a stump. He stayed married to her for 20+ years, but the other marriages each lasted <10.
 

JLGatsby

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Originally posted by: nautique
Dumb girls are fun to party with because they will do anything. But dating hell no!!!! I ended up breaking up with a girl because she was always asking me questions for what things meant and for help on homework! :p

I would define "intelligence" as far more than homework ability. Social and emotional intelligence would be most important.

If she does not know the name of the third highest mountain in Europe, you are forgiven. But if a girl is not mature enough to settle a dispute without verbal war or is inconsiderate, disconnected, and just wants someone to "party with," and doesn't know the meaning/path of/to a meaningful relationship (which I honestly believe most people don't), Gatsby would show her the door.
 

moshquerade

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Originally posted by: iwantanewcomputer
or would it be a hit it until something smarter comes along?

Personally, although i would like to boink a number of dumb hot girls i know, i would not like to spend time with them besides the occasional party chat.

on the other hand there are more average looking, smart girls that i want to date and feel like the physical relationship would be more fun because we could connect better.

how do you guys feel
i would choose average looking and smart
over hot and dumb

any.day.