happy medium
Lifer
DS3 motherboard I had 3 of them. So, just up the vcore to 1.4, 400 fsb and try that. (2.8) If that doesn't work, try upping the fsb termination a little.
Post back results. With your cooling, if you applied the tim correctly and the hsf, your temps won't be over 60c, and you won't fry anything.
Mark should he use a memory divider?