How does Tungsten hold up as a wedding ring?

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kranky

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Originally posted by: phisrow
I believe that Tungsten is very durable indeed. It does oxidise in air; but, like aluminum, it forms an invisible oxide coat and thus stabilizes naturally, so this isn't a practical problem. No allergy problems that I've ever heard of.

One thing to note, though. It is a pretty remote possibility; but not impossible, that you might, at some point in your life, need to have your ring removed in an emergency type situation, e.g. slam hand in car door, ring bends around crushed finger, you scream horribly, etc. They will have no trouble cutting a band made of gold, silver, platinum or the like; but Tungsten is very, very hard to cut. The odds are slim; but it would suck if it were to happen.

That happened to my wife a few years ago. Ring got caught in a heavy sliding metal door and they had to cut it off.
 

Googer

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Originally posted by: aphex
Originally posted by: Fenixgoon
(edit: my brother's ring is tungsten carbide)

my brother has one - it's practically indestructible. in fact, he's going to do the calculations for it, and if he deems it safe, fire a bullet at his own wedding ring!:Q

as far as tungsten carbide goes, it can withstand 500,000 PSI before breaking :D


Well according to what ive been reading, it looks like it can be shattered at some point if need be. It cannot however be cut.

Yep, Just like concrete. It wil shatter but is tough to cut.
 

Kelvrick

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Originally posted by: kranky
Originally posted by: phisrow
I believe that Tungsten is very durable indeed. It does oxidise in air; but, like aluminum, it forms an invisible oxide coat and thus stabilizes naturally, so this isn't a practical problem. No allergy problems that I've ever heard of.

One thing to note, though. It is a pretty remote possibility; but not impossible, that you might, at some point in your life, need to have your ring removed in an emergency type situation, e.g. slam hand in car door, ring bends around crushed finger, you scream horribly, etc. They will have no trouble cutting a band made of gold, silver, platinum or the like; but Tungsten is very, very hard to cut. The odds are slim; but it would suck if it were to happen.

That happened to my wife a few years ago. Ring got caught in a heavy sliding metal door and they had to cut it off.

Hmm... Mind giving us more details? How thick of a ring, how they cut it, how much trouble they had cutting it?
 

kranky

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Originally posted by: Kelvrick
Originally posted by: kranky
Originally posted by: phisrow
I believe that Tungsten is very durable indeed. It does oxidise in air; but, like aluminum, it forms an invisible oxide coat and thus stabilizes naturally, so this isn't a practical problem. No allergy problems that I've ever heard of.

One thing to note, though. It is a pretty remote possibility; but not impossible, that you might, at some point in your life, need to have your ring removed in an emergency type situation, e.g. slam hand in car door, ring bends around crushed finger, you scream horribly, etc. They will have no trouble cutting a band made of gold, silver, platinum or the like; but Tungsten is very, very hard to cut. The odds are slim; but it would suck if it were to happen.

That happened to my wife a few years ago. Ring got caught in a heavy sliding metal door and they had to cut it off.

Hmm... Mind giving us more details? How thick of a ring, how they cut it, how much trouble they had cutting it?

It was similar to this one. She doesn't remember what kind of tool was used, but they did it at the hospital. She said they didn't have much trouble doing it.
 

Fritzo

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Originally posted by: jpeyton
Wow, after reading a lot of your comments, I can't believe how shallow this forum is.

I would never knock on a person's choice for their wedding bands; it's a symbol of a life commitment, not a symbol of your pocketbook (which is what an engagement ring is).

Wedding bands are plain, timeless, and classic. They aren't supposed to be flashy. I couldn't tell the difference between a white gold, platinum, stainless, or tungsten band just by looking at one, nor would I care.

Tungsten seems unique, and it has properties that make it desirable (extreme hardness, lasting polish). I might look into getting one myself when I get married. I'm sure the S.O. will still want a platinum band to match her engagement ring, and that's fine.

Just make one out of tin foil and be done with it then.
 

Mrvile

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Originally posted by: jpeyton
Wow, after reading a lot of your comments, I can't believe how shallow this forum is.

I would never knock on a person's choice for their wedding bands; it's a symbol of a life commitment, not a symbol of your pocketbook (which is what an engagement ring is).

Wedding bands are plain, timeless, and classic. They aren't supposed to be flashy. I couldn't tell the difference between a white gold, platinum, stainless, or tungsten band just by looking at one, nor would I care.

Tungsten seems unique, and it has properties that make it desirable (extreme hardness, lasting polish). I might look into getting one myself when I get married. I'm sure the S.O. will still want a platinum band to match her engagement ring, and that's fine.

Exactly what I was trying to say with my first post...but you put it more intricately.
 
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all I've ever used tungsten for were for carolina rigging. (a fishing method used most often for deep water bass fishing)
 

Squisher

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I didn't know they made tungsten rings.

I wonder how they would set a stone in it since it doesn't bend easily?
 

msparish

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Originally posted by: aphex
Originally posted by: msparish
Back on topic...it almost holds up too well. It's eerie. I've actually tried to scratch mine...haven't been successful (never used a diamond though). So, it looks exactly the same as when I bought it. Only problem is that it is so hard that it cannot be resized. If I were to need it resized I actually have to get a new ring. However, my jeweler will exhange it for $50...much, much less than the original price.


Very cool! If you dont mind me asking, what brand is yours and around how much was it?

Im just wondering because the $200 one seems a little bit too cheap (don't remember the brand), and trew tungsten ones are around $500-$600.

Sorry it took me so long to get back to you. The ring is a JI...for the life of me, I can't remember what it stands for though. I imagine if I found all my documentation I could, but the wife would have to do that as I don't know where it is:p It was in the $500 neighborhood though...I believe it was about $575 retail, but we got about $50-100 knocked off of it.

When I was looking at bands, I couldn't decide between this one and a particular white gold one that really caught my eye. Once I decided on this one and paid for it, I almost felt disappointed and wanted to go back and get the gold one. I stuck with this one though, and I am very glad that I did.

It looks exactly the same as when I bought it...even though I tell my friends about how hard it is--they try to take knives, rocks, etc. to it (no diamonds though!). However, if you get one that is not polished smooth so that it has more of a rough/edgy look to it, it can appear to get scratched. However, that is from other metals rubbing off into the non-smooth surface. Luckily these can be rubbed/buffed out.

About the $50 replacement fee...some places offer less; however they won't let you get anything engraved onto the interior of the ring because once the ring is engraved, that's how it's going to stay. However, I can get mine engraved and still get it replaced...although I have yet to do that as I can't think of anything I want.

Anyway, if you don't mind spending that much on a ring, I highly recommend tungsten carbide. It will look like it is brand new 50 years from now.
 

technophile82

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ya, like others have said, its extremely hard. tungsten carbide has a hardness between 9 and 10. a diamond (hardness 10, highest possible) will scratch it. id like to see if a peice of corundum (ruby/sapphire) will scratch it though, that would be the hardest stuff it could resist.

typical steel on the other hand, is much softer, between 5 and 6. quartz (hardness 7) can scratch steel.
 

Jzero

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I prefer (and got) Titanium over Tungsten. Tungsten is too heavy, especially considering the size of my ring (it's about 1/4" wide). Otherwise, it's great. Cheaper than platinum, more durable than white gold, and the deep gray of the tungsten carbide looks great..

It will last pretty much forever.

It CAN be cut off if necessary, contrary to what some have said, it's just not as easy as softer metals and the hospital may need to get a cutter from a jeweler that deals with hard metals.
 

Patt

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Titanium ring here ... I love it, I never wore jewelry before my wedding band, and I can barely even notice it is on my finger.
 

rahvin

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Something to conider if you work with your hands. Tungsten is so hard that if the ring ever gets smashed on your finger you will lose the finger because they won't be able to cut the ring off you finger without taking the finger with it. Gold soft enough that most emergency rooms keep a pair of sheers around that can cut gold bands off.
 

Chaotic42

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Originally posted by: aphex
Been looking at Platinum wedding bands recently and came across a Tungsten ring today that i liked quite a bit not only for the looks, but the price was around $200 (as opposed to over $1000 for a comparable Platinum)

The ring looked VERY similar to this model - http://www.danielsjewelers.com/modules/.../customizer/step1.php?products_id=5005

Now, i know Tungsten isnt nearly as precious/sought after as Platinum, but how does it hold up over time?

Anything i should know about it? Does it discolor? Allergic Reactions? Scratch easily?

The thing that I don't like about that ring is that it has it's brand and material names printed on the inside like it's a freaking wrench. That would turn me off. Other than that, who doesn't love tungsten? Just think, if your girl ends up on the surface of the sun, her ring won't melt! Can't say that about gold.
 

Jzero

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Originally posted by: rahvin
Something to conider if you work with your hands. Tungsten is so hard that if the ring ever gets smashed on your finger you will lose the finger because they won't be able to cut the ring off you finger without taking the finger with it. Gold soft enough that most emergency rooms keep a pair of sheers around that can cut gold bands off.

As I stated above, both W and Ti rings can be cut off if necessary.

Most emergency rooms should have the necessary tools, and those that do not will be able to get them from a jeweler that deals with "hard metals."

Also, it's worth mentioning that most of the time you need a ring cut off because it has become misshapen, which is far less likely to happen with W and Ti.
 

Accipiter22

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In Descent back in 1994 I remember playing against a robot that had tungsten welding lasers for a weapon...I think it was the green dudees
 

Jzero

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Originally posted by: Chaotic42
Just think, if your girl ends up on the surface of the sun, her ring won't melt! Can't say that about gold.

I don't think Aphex is looking for a band for his fiancee...
 

Chaotic42

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Originally posted by: Jzero
Originally posted by: Chaotic42
Just think, if your girl ends up on the surface of the sun, her ring won't melt! Can't say that about gold.

I don't think Aphex is looking for a band for his fiancee...

Oh, oops. :eek: