Originally posted by: pdqcarrera
The penis and vagina were designed (or evolved) for each other and the anus designed for waste exhaust. Do you dispute this?
LMAO! Sometimes you just have to spell it out for people.
Originally posted by: pdqcarrera
The penis and vagina were designed (or evolved) for each other and the anus designed for waste exhaust. Do you dispute this?
Originally posted by: espressoman
Originally posted by: TravisT
That is irrelevent. My point is is that no one forced our opinions on you. Obviously, the majority in the 11 States who banned gay marriage felt it was immoral. I stand behind my vote regardless of if you feel i'm wrong or not.
How is it irrelevent? You don't seem to be forcing the opinion of denying interracial marriages... but you don't because we got over that hill... why can't you get over this one? I'm trying to point out that what the majority thinks, isn't always morally correct. If you are making laws to ban gay marriage, you might as well make laws to ban interracial marriage, ban smoking, ban the sale of alcohol, ban free thinking, ban television, ban MTV, ban Howard Stern, ban teaching evolution in schools, ban the sale of firearms, etc.. etc.. etc...
Originally posted by: dnuggett
I in no way said it infringes on my rights. I said it infringes on my belief system and forces me to recognize something that I do not believe in, as legally valid. So to that extent, I will disagree with anyone who says that that gays should be allowed to marry. They should be allowed the same legal rights that a man and a woman are allowed when they marry. That, in a nutshell what the 14th Amendment says they should receive. It is no way says that we must call it marriage.
Your idea of marriage and your belief that it is protected under the 14th amendment is the very, very weak arguemnt here.
Originally posted by: gutharius
Originally posted by: ntdz
Originally posted by: polm
Originally posted by: ntdz
they don't hurt me. how does some inner city kid not having health insurance hurt you? It's the same thing.
what kind of analogy is that ?
I'm not voting to ban healthcare for inner city youth.
Simple. You are for national healthcare, yet it probably won't even affect you. Why are you for it if it won't affect you?
I am for it because I know there are people out their who are suffering because they cannot afford quality healthcare and I as a Human being with a sense of compassion for my fellow man feel it is my duty and obligation to lift everyone up not just the few select who can afford to be lifted up.
But this thread is not about health care, it is about "How does gay marriage hurt you?" and your statment, "Why are you for it if it won't affect you?" proves this threads point. Two gay men or two gay women getting married does not hurt you.
Ultimatly this proves the whole resistance towards gay marriage to be nothing more than a issue that has been turned from an equality issue to a issue of hate that is preached across the nation. I am concerned those who say it does not hurt them yet still support banning gay marriage may be blind to the ultimate fact that they support an issue purely because of HATE, FEAR, and PERSONAL BIGOTRY.
Originally posted by: pdqcarrera
Originally posted by: gutharius
Originally posted by: ntdz
Originally posted by: polm
Originally posted by: ntdz
they don't hurt me. how does some inner city kid not having health insurance hurt you? It's the same thing.
what kind of analogy is that ?
I'm not voting to ban healthcare for inner city youth.
Simple. You are for national healthcare, yet it probably won't even affect you. Why are you for it if it won't affect you?
I am for it because I know there are people out their who are suffering because they cannot afford quality healthcare and I as a Human being with a sense of compassion for my fellow man feel it is my duty and obligation to lift everyone up not just the few select who can afford to be lifted up.
But this thread is not about health care, it is about "How does gay marriage hurt you?" and your statment, "Why are you for it if it won't affect you?" proves this threads point. Two gay men or two gay women getting married does not hurt you.
Ultimatly this proves the whole resistance towards gay marriage to be nothing more than a issue that has been turned from an equality issue to a issue of hate that is preached across the nation. I am concerned those who say it does not hurt them yet still support banning gay marriage may be blind to the ultimate fact that they support an issue purely because of HATE, FEAR, and PERSONAL BIGOTRY.
You don't fix healthcare problems by adjusting the moral compass a society has set in place regarding acceptance, or not, of homosexuality. Too different subjects entirely.
If the institution of marriage is redefined to the point where it changes the original intent then this effects all those who honor and value that original intent of marriage. You don't have to agree at all in the moral ideal, but if you are a minority viewpoint don't expect for YOUR moral ideals to control that of the overwhelming majority.
Originally posted by: conjur
Whether they are gay or not doesn't matter. The 14th Amendment guarantees Equal Protection.Originally posted by: Genesys
Originally posted by: conjur
That argument just doesn't make any sense. Atheists can get married. Sterile couples can get married. Mentally retarded people can get married. So why not consenting adults who happen to be gay?
because weather you like it or not, marriage means 1 man + 1 woman. no ifs ands or buts.
i imagine that the aethiests, retards, sterile people, etc.. arent gay.
Originally posted by: jjzelinski
So your argument is based in part on evolutions role in physiological functionality? Ok, the penis exists for procreation withthe vagine. Sounds good to me. But what about all of our other phyiologcal characteristics that have simply not evolved at the pace of our civilization?
Hair is designed to retain warmth, in our society we now tend to depend on clothing of our construction for warmth. Does that makes clothing immoral since it defies our present state of physiological evolution? The same can be said of finger nails, etc. What I'm getting at is that you're justifying your position of denying equal rights to a segment of our popultion on the basis of evolutionary necessity; we weren't designed for anal sex. Well we were designed to ride in air planes for 18 hours either, does that make it immoral?
I'm fine with you electing not to engage in homosexuality, I'm of the same persuasion, but exactly why is it YOUR business what any other adult does with themselves provided you or anyone isn't HURT by that activity? Shouldn't that be left to the relationship between them and god? Are you God? If so, i repent and I will say anything you want so you don't banish me to !heyal! but otherwise know your role and back off.
Originally posted by: jjzelinski
Originally posted by: pdqcarrera
Originally posted by: gutharius
Originally posted by: ntdz
Originally posted by: polm
Originally posted by: ntdz
they don't hurt me. how does some inner city kid not having health insurance hurt you? It's the same thing.
what kind of analogy is that ?
I'm not voting to ban healthcare for inner city youth.
Simple. You are for national healthcare, yet it probably won't even affect you. Why are you for it if it won't affect you?
I am for it because I know there are people out their who are suffering because they cannot afford quality healthcare and I as a Human being with a sense of compassion for my fellow man feel it is my duty and obligation to lift everyone up not just the few select who can afford to be lifted up.
But this thread is not about health care, it is about "How does gay marriage hurt you?" and your statment, "Why are you for it if it won't affect you?" proves this threads point. Two gay men or two gay women getting married does not hurt you.
Ultimatly this proves the whole resistance towards gay marriage to be nothing more than a issue that has been turned from an equality issue to a issue of hate that is preached across the nation. I am concerned those who say it does not hurt them yet still support banning gay marriage may be blind to the ultimate fact that they support an issue purely because of HATE, FEAR, and PERSONAL BIGOTRY.
You don't fix healthcare problems by adjusting the moral compass a society has set in place regarding acceptance, or not, of homosexuality. Too different subjects entirely.
If the institution of marriage is redefined to the point where it changes the original intent then this effects all those who honor and value that original intent of marriage. You don't have to agree at all in the moral ideal, but if you are a minority viewpoint don't expect for YOUR moral ideals to control that of the overwhelming majority.
You baffle me, I just don't see how you can draw your conclusions and stand by them as if they were logical!
Fix healthcare?! If that's one of your justifications I needn't comment on that at all. That's the most baseless, tangential, and idiotic thing I've heard all day.
As far as the "institution" of mariage goes, not all marriages are religious in nature and therefore religion should have no bearing on mariage outside of the Church. Fact. Fin. Period. End of discussion.
Originally posted by: pdqcarrera
I do indeed believe you are baffled because you cannot even follow the simplest thread...
Wasn't it you that just wrote: "I am for it because I know there are people out their who are suffering because they cannot afford quality healthcare"...?? Or was that your left hand typing while your right hand was busy elsewhere? Scratching your head no doubt! It is YOU that made healthcare a JUSTIFICATION of your position, NOT ME! GEEEEESH.
Just because marriage has been diluted from its religious roots doesn't mean I should automatically be willing to throw the whole institution into the trashcan. I'm in the overwhelming majority. You're in the underwhelming minority. Fact. Fin. Period. End of discussion.
Originally posted by: jjzelinski
Ok there inspector gadget, peruse the posts a little more closely next time before you start beating your head against a birck wall again. I was not the one to write what you attributed to me.
But despite my intended conclusion of my participation in this thread, I just want to point out one more thing. Technically, you're already waaaaay to late. Marriage has been ratified outside of the church in this country for many, many years now. So why not continue banning the infedels from your holllowed grounds and leave them to their own devices in every single court house in America or Las Vegas if you prefer.
Originally posted by: Alistar7
I don't think a gay man and his lover should be given equal rights like a married couple, even if they have been together for 40+ years. When one of them is in the hospital dying and only "family" is allowed to visit, his "spouse" should not be able to see him before he dies, how dare they ask for such special rights......
Originally posted by: Alistar7
I don't think a gay man and his lover should be given equal rights like a married couple, even if they have been together for 40+ years. When one of them is in the hospital dying and only "family" is allowed to visit, his "spouse" should not be able to see him before he dies, how dare they ask for such special rights......
Originally posted by: Genesys
Originally posted by: conjur
Whether they are gay or not doesn't matter. The 14th Amendment guarantees Equal Protection.Originally posted by: Genesys
Originally posted by: conjur
That argument just doesn't make any sense. Atheists can get married. Sterile couples can get married. Mentally retarded people can get married. So why not consenting adults who happen to be gay?
because weather you like it or not, marriage means 1 man + 1 woman. no ifs ands or buts.
i imagine that the aethiests, retards, sterile people, etc.. arent gay.
no, the 14th Amendment says that the rights and priveleges of US citizens shall not be abridged, gays arent entitled to the privilege of marriage, so, yes it does matter that they are gay.
Originally posted by: jjzelinski
Hair is designed to retain warmth, in our society we now tend to depend on clothing of our construction for warmth. Does that makes clothing immoral since it defies our present state of physiological evolution? The same can be said of finger nails, etc. What I'm getting at is that you're justifying your position of denying equal rights to a segment of our popultion on the basis of evolutionary necessity; we weren't designed for anal sex. Well we were designed to ride in air planes for 18 hours either, does that make it immoral?
Originally posted by: Alistar7
I don't think a gay man and his lover should be given equal rights like a married couple, even if they have been together for 40+ years. When one of them is in the hospital dying and only "family" is allowed to visit, his "spouse" should not be able to see him before he dies, how dare they ask for such special rights......
I can't file my taxes individually. It's granted to individuals and not to married people. I have to file married filing seperately. It costs me $$ every year. That's discrimination!!!!!Originally posted by: dnuggett
And you can....???Originally posted by: assemblage
Privledges aren't rights. I'd like to file my income tax individual instead of married jointly.
Marriage is a not a right it is a privilege.
Originally posted by: assemblage
I can't file my taxes individually. It's granted to individuals and not to married people. I have to file married filing seperately. It costs me $$ every year. That's discrimination!!!!!Originally posted by: dnuggett
And you can....???Originally posted by: assemblage
Privledges aren't rights. I'd like to file my income tax individual instead of married jointly.
Marriage is a not a right it is a privilege.
Homosexual marriage is not a civil rights issue. Race has no bearing on marriage, while gender has fundamental bearing upon what marriage is. It's not discrimination issue. Requiring marriage to be between a man and a women applies for everyone. This is a recognition issue of a small minority who demands that everyone view homsexuality as normal and acceptable behavior.
Originally posted by: assemblage
Homosexual marriage is not a civil rights issue. Race has no bearing on marriage, while gender has fundamental bearing upon what marriage is.
It's not discrimination issue. Requiring marriage to be between a man and a women applies for everyone.
Lol, I'm not gay 😉 Thanks for reading my posts, but no I'm not for same sex marriages/unions. I do not think homosexuality is a lifestyle that should be promoted. Same sex marriages/unions grants legitimacy to homosexuality and gives it status as a normal and acceptable behavior. I think homosexuals should be allowed to pursue their lifestyle without punishment, but I do not feel they have a right to demand marriage.Originally posted by: Rob9874
I wouldn't expect that coming from you. (based on what I've read recently)
Originally posted by: bay
Originally posted by: drpootums
well, the bible is against it, and that's good enough for me. It talkes about it a lot in Romans.
And marrage is a gift from God, and when something like this goes into marrage, then i dont think they should be able to.
I just hope the bans pass. They would've in WI (my state), but Fiengold is dumb and veto'd it.
and if the queers still wanna get married, then they can go to Canada.
wow. simply wow. I'm from WI and am embarressed that this feeble minded person lives here also. Btw, I voted for Feingold (that's F-E-I-N, you idiot) and proud of it, he's one of the few respectable politicians in DC and has more backbone then you could ever hope to have
Originally posted by: CrowBarr
Originally posted by: drpootums
Old testament??? Romans is in the new testament...and it says homosexuality is a sin. You should read Romans (and if u are having trouble finding it, remember, it's in the NEW testament).
I know i'm a sinner, but that's why Jesus died for me. I was forgiven, and in his eye's i am without sin. Homosexuals obviously arent christian, and so they do not ask for forgiveness from god, and thus they are going to Hell in a handbasket...
And old testament laws like that were distroyed when Jesus came back. Not all, but the things like that and making sacrifices to the temple were no longer needed because Jesus distroyed the need for those things.
And for the passages where Jesus said they were wrong:
abortion: the 5th comandment="thou shalt not murder" Abortion is murder because the baby is alive during the time of the abortion (the cardiovascular system and the nervious system have formed within the first trimester) and it can feel pain. Imagine what it would feel like to have the back of your head cut open and have your brains sucked out with a straw?
homosexuality: 1st Corinthians 6:9 "no homosexuals shall enter the kingdom of heaven"
Romans 1:26 "That is why God abandoned them to their shameful desires. Even the women turned against the natural way to have sex and instead indulged in sex with each other. And the men, instead of having normal sexual relationships with women, burned with lust for each other. Men did shameful things with other men and, as a result, suffered within themselves the penalty they so rechly deserved"
Who are you to be judging me? I am forgiven through my savior Jesus Christ, how can anyone be against me if God is with me? John 7:24 "Stop judging with mere appearences and make a righteous judgement"
I will give you the benefit of the doubt as to the fact that you are intelligent. Taking into account that you Quoted Corithians 6:9, let's run thru that briefly...
"Do you not know that the wicked will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived: Neither the sexually immoral nor idolaters nor adulterers nor male prostitutes nor homosexual offenders"
Not going into 6:10... which also mentions thieves, the greedy, drunkards, slanderers and swindlers.
If you're going to wax religious, at least go the whole 9. This includes alot of things that everyday people are guilty of (drink much or at all?). And that's not even to go into the fact that the Bible itself is a translation, and that beliefs are always based more on interperetation.
If you are of the belief that Jesus died to save mankind from sin, then it was for all mankind and all sin, not just you and yours.
EDIT: And as a side note, You asked "Who are you to be judging me?". Well...I ask "Who are YOU to be judging anyone else?"
Originally posted by: loki8481
I in no way said it infringes on my rights. I said it infringes on my belief system and forces me to recognize something that I do not believe in, as legally valid.
so would Muslim's have a case if they wanted to get a ban passed forbidding people to eat pork? that infringes on their belief system. and what about cows? that probably offends the Hindus.
where does it end? banning something because it conflicts with your personal religious beliefs opens up a huge slippery slope.
Originally posted by: 0roo0roo
you'd think followers of a religion that essentially worship a bastard child would be more tolerant😛