How do you make time to play games?

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Aeis

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You know, this is a funny one for me, and it actually made me register here just to answer the question and maybe become a more active member of the community.

It's really hard to make time to play games when you get on with your life. I'm married, work full time, and am a full time student - at best, I have 1 1/2 hours on a day I both work and deal with schoolwork, maybe 3 on my days off when I'm catching up.

I recently sold my PS4 to fund a few parts for my new PC partially because of this. Gaming on a console always feels like such a commitment - this whole TV is now dedicated just to playing a game. Your controller takes both hands, everything is live action unless paused, and this is all you're doing at the time.

I've always been an MMO fan, and while I don't raid or anything anymore, PS4 got me into FFXIV, which I'll be rebuying on PC. It's a great example of something you can have up in the background, talk to some people, get into a short PvP / dungeon for half an hour if you want, and not feel like it's your entire focus.

RTS games were always fun to me too, in that it was a 'new game' each time. An hour and a half time limited match in Age of Empires is like a game of chess in a way, and you can take as long of a break as you like without feeling like you have a game to 'finish.'

In short, I guess my answer is that you need to find games that have depth in different ways than saying "Hey, I've got 60+ hours of content!" and instead find things that aren't one long storyline but are fun for multiple goes. I still play Baldur's Gate now and then on an old laptop just for the fun of it - I cheat constantly of course, but that's fun to me. I don't play games to work at them, I play them for fun, and godmode is a blast.

Other than that, it's something to do to relax. Some people sit in front of the TV or browse blogs on their phones from the moment they get home from work until they go to bed, but will laugh at someone for playing a game in their spare time. To each their own, we all need a way to cool down, and gaming just happens to be mine.
 

Amit3945

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Good post and just in time too.
I was thinking along the same lines as well.

Upgraded my PC a month ago...not top of the line but good enough (i5, 8GB & R9 270X)
I have no further interest to keep upgrading my PC as my game backlog is so huge I might not finish them in this life.

Add to this the fact that I LOVE games made in the early 2000's.
Replaying them is a big BIG turn on for me.
Somewhere after 2008 my interest in the latest games just nose dived...apart from 1 or 2 sparks (BulletStorm / Wolf:TNO)
Now with the above setup what I have is a super powered beast for the golden oldies, which I am able to enjoy at insane settings and appreciate them all the more.

As I am installing then again I am getting overwhelmed with the number of good games that I haven't played in years.
(Screenshot of my collection)

I think I am getting 'addicted' to PC gaming more with age...The worlds that the games present (essentially exploration worlds for me.) are so phenomenal...that just running through them at breakneck speed completing 1 game and moving to the next just doesn't cut it...you need to spend time in these worlds to fully appreciate them.

Maybe a few steps below may help some of us to still keep coming back to this wonderful hobby :

1) Literally list down what you do from the time you get up to the time you sleep.
When you list them down you have a clear picture in what and where are you spending your time.
That in itself will help you in focusing how you can speed up the little everyday 'chores'..thus increasing your efficiency...thus freeing time for gaming.
2) I don't have cable TV so I don't waste time in channel flicking...time gained which is better utilized in gaming.
If this is not possible (wife or kids may DEMAND this to be present in the house)..then just control yourself from reaching out for the remote for a few days. You will kick the TV habit in a short time
(Remember what is more important..useless channel flicking or quality time with your favorite game.)
3) Also spend at least 30 to 40 min's EVERYDAY in exercising (40 min's from a 24 hr day is PERFECTLY possible). This not only keeps you fit and delay aging but will also keep you alive for a few more gaming years.. :)

Note : Just got FC4 and the exploration that this game provides is giving me warm glow inside.
Maybe since I am from India, I am finding this a seriously good representation of northern India which borders Nepal and Tibet.

P.S : I hope I am not coming across as a hopeless gaming addict but this hobby is just so much fun that I just had to pitch in.
 
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BFG10K

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I don't watch TV (haven't done so in years), and I cut back on the internet where possible.
 

Borealis7

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i don't have kids yet so the plan is sexy time with the wife, afterwards she's so exhausted, she falls asleep and IT'S GAME TIME! :D
 

PlanetJosh

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Well my stats in Guild Wars show 13,870 hours played since 8.7 years ago. Doing the math that's an average of over 4 hours a day every day, or about 28 hrs a week, every single week since Feb 2006. I don't know what to say, I got hooked on the game. But I don't have a real job anyway atm, I'm basically retired with my family supporting me with a monthly allowance.

I still dabble(d) with others like Oblivion, Skyrim, AC series, Myst Uru, Crysis 3, Guild Wars 2 (500 hours), FC4 and so on.
 

poohbear

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What a great question Mai72! I often think about this myself. I personally think people don't "make" time. Whether adults have time to play games or not, is directly proportional to their financial situation. Either we are talking about someone who is filthy rich (and to me, that's someone making 70k/year or more) or we are talking about a bum who doesn't really have ambitions or aspirations.

When you're rich, with a normal 9 to 5 day, you play games all evening, because you know you're coming tomorrow to the same job and still getting paid the same money you always do. You got no homework from school pressing down on you, no worries about sending out resumes to get a better job, and hopefully a nice wife which you "bought" who cooks and cleans for you. That, or you got a maid, or you just order takeout all the time.

When you're a bum you just don't care... You got your shitty job, and you saved enough for a nice computer with all the bells and whistles by eating Ramen Noodles. You dread going to work every day, but at least you got a few free hours in the morning or in the evening and you waste those to play games because you just don't give a damn. Well, maybe you do give a damn, but you are not willing to do what it takes to get anywhere else - or you just don't want to. (Which is totally cool. It's not like everyone must be rich and successful. That stuff is overrated.)

Someone who is in the middle between the two above examples wants to play games, but simply doesn't, because no matter how hard he tries, he just doesn't have the time or the energy. There is either school work.. or unwashed dishes in the sink that need to be washed... or you need to spend several hours to send out resumes.. or you need to go to your 2nd job... and maybe you got screaming kids.. or a nagging wife, etc, etc.
People like that, they "make" time to play games, but usually regret it later... Some thoughts come to mind such as "I could have studied in those two hours"... "I could have sent out a few more resumes"... "I could have washed the dishes, instead of leaving a feast for the cockroaches until the next evening..." "I could have spent the time working out..."


Can you guess which one of the 3 types am I? ; )

Interesting read, dont know which type u are, but i DO know which type ure NOT.... ure not making 70k/yr otherwise u sure as hell wouldnt be calling that filthy rich!

Lol anyways, i make time late at night before bed. sometimes im simply too busy, and thats fine until an awesome game comes out once a year that i really want....like DA inquisition! Dont have the time for it but man i squeeze in a few hours each night cause its that good. Otherwise just dabble in my regular favorites for an hour a day. Mind u i dont own a tv, and dont have kids.:) just gym, gf, friends, & work.
 
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ControlD

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I'm in my 40's and my interest in gaming has declined rapidly. I remember in my 20's being so into a game I would actually call in sick to work just to stay home and game on my PC. Nowadays, I just don't have any interest in gaming at all.

I am sort of the opposite. Between having a job that required lots of travelling and children, I went for a long time without much gaming at all. Now that I am in my mid 40's and life has settled down, I have time to game in the evenings. I don't watch much TV, so while the wife and daughter are watching The Voice, etc. I am playing.
 

GHz_ghost

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I'm married but no kids and I work a normal 40-hour a week job.

Honestly, I just have basically no social life.
An ideal week goes like this:

Sunday-Get off work at 7AM. Maybe go to church. If not, go home and game til about 9AM. Wake up at 5PM. Work on projects (graphic design or 3D modelling). Go on a bike ride. Go home and game until 10PM. See wife for a few minutes when she gets home. Work at 11PM.

Monday-Get off work at 7AM. Go home and game til about 9AM. Wake up at 5PM. Work on projects (graphic design or 3D modelling). Go on a bike ride. Go home and game until 10PM. Wife gets home shortly after 10. We play Pokemon TCG or watch Netflix. Lay in bed with wife until she goes to sleep. Get up and game til about 5AM Tuesday morning. Go to bed.

Tuesday-Wake up around 3PM. Hang out with wife. Possibly sexy times or date or both. We play Pokemon TCG or watch Netflix. Skype with family who live on the east coast. Lay in bed with wife until she goes to sleep. Get up and game til about 5AM Wednesday morning. Go to bed.

Wednesday-Wake up around 3PM. Hang out with wife. Possibly sexy times or date or both. Go to weekly D&D session at 6PM. Leave at 10PM. Work at 11PM.

Thursday-Get off work at 7AM. Go home and game til about 9AM. Wake up at 5PM. Work on projects (graphic design or 3D modelling). Go on a bike ride. Go home and game until 10PM. See wife for a few minutes when she gets home. Work at 11PM.

Friday-Get off work at 7AM. Go home and game til about 9AM. Wake up at 5PM. Work on projects (graphic design or 3D modelling). Go on a bike ride. Go home and game until 10PM. See wife for a few minutes when she gets home. Work at 11PM.

Saturday-Get off work at 7AM. Go home and game til about 9AM. Wake up at 5PM. Work on projects (graphic design or 3D modelling). Go on a bike ride. Go home and game until 10PM. See wife for a few minutes when she gets home. Work at 11PM.

So yeah, usually I'm able to get plenty of gaming time in throughout the week. Usually 4-6 hours per day, but that's just at home. I take my 3DS to work and play on that a lot, and I game on my laptop or phone every once in a while too.
 

PrincessFrosty

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Simple, arrange your life for maximum free time.

No long term relationship (by choice), little to no responsibilities outside work. Find good paying work with no more than average office hours. Live close to work so there's no commute.

12 midnight to 8am is sleep, up at 8 and in work for 8:30, home by 17:30, then I have 17:30 until midnight to basically do whatever I like with. Stick to microwave meals, clean up after yourself so there's no real chores, or get a cleaner, get everything delivered rather than having to travel everywhere to buy things.

Life is super chill, loads of time for games, wouldn't change it for the world.
 

cbrunny

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There's a reason I'm up at 7:00 am on most weekends. I love a quiet morning, and lately I've been finding that my interest in gaming is tied directly to my energy level. On a Saturday or Sunday morning, I'm usually refreshed from not having to get up early to go to work, have unlimited coffee, and a nice quiet house (wife sleeps in on weekends). I play Saturday or Sunday mornings usually from about 7:30 or 8 until 11 or so.

That's about all I get though. Lots of life to live. Not a bad thing.
 

ControlD

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There's a reason I'm up at 7:00 am on most weekends. I love a quiet morning, and lately I've been finding that my interest in gaming is tied directly to my energy level. On a Saturday or Sunday morning, I'm usually refreshed from not having to get up early to go to work, have unlimited coffee, and a nice quiet house (wife sleeps in on weekends). I play Saturday or Sunday mornings usually from about 7:30 or 8 until 11 or so.

That's about all I get though. Lots of life to live. Not a bad thing.

I do the same thing. Get up early on the weekends (which is still sleeping in compared to the week) and get a couple of hours in before the family is awake. Gives me a chance to get some breakfast and wake up before my morning run as well. Plus there is no guilt about ignoring the family!
 

rivethead

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Now that I am in my mid 40's and life has settled down, I have time to game in the evenings. I don't watch much TV, so while the wife and daughter are watching The Voice, etc. I am playing.

Yeah, this is me too.

I'm home from work around 6:30. Couple hours with the family, dinner, dog, etc. And then, about 8:30, we all go our separate ways. 15 year old goes in his room and plays DOTA. My wife watches Pretty Little Liars and stuff like that on her tablet in bed. I go to my home office and play whatever I'm in the mood for on my PC. We're all asleep by 10:30. It's not a lot of time, but it's a routine and it works for us!
 

calyco

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I play prob every or every other day for 2-3 hours. Dont watch broadcast TV, only occasional TV series on Netflix when its complete. Plenty of time :)
 

xantub

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When I worked I played a couple hours a day during the week and more on weekends. Now I'm semi-retired (45) and can play a lot more. As long as there are Paradox strategy games I'll always need more time to play.
 

ControlD

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When I worked I played a couple hours a day during the week and more on weekends. Now I'm semi-retired (45) and can play a lot more. As long as there are Paradox strategy games I'll always need more time to play.

All of the sudden I became depressed for some reason ....
 

jlee

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Many of us don't play many games. We just buy a lot of games. Thanks Steam.

lmao, this....

I've just recently started playing again (hooked on Tomb Raider), but if I were to legitimately 100% every game I own, I might not have to buy another one for the rest of my life.
 

calyco

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lmao, this....

I've just recently started playing again (hooked on Tomb Raider), but if I were to legitimately 100% every game I own, I might not have to buy another one for the rest of my life.

I played TR multiple times already and still love it, something about the gameplay mechanics, upgrades and weapon sounds.. addictive. I just started another new game :)
 

Mai72

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All of the sudden I became depressed for some reason ....

Lol, me too.

I don't expect to be semi retired at 45. I could work summers and collect unemployment in the winters if I wanted to spend my time playing video games. TBH, that is at the bottom of my to do list. I'd rather travel and experience the world. I love to travel and meet new people.
 

cronos

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The trick I did is to play games that my son are also interested in, so we can play together, and therefore my game time can double count as family time as well. That's why I play a lot of co-op games these days. Now that he's 10 the possibility has basically opened up for tons of different games.
 
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clok1966

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My question is how do people here make time to play video games? My guess is most people on ATOT aren't teenagers with large amounts of free time. We have careers, families, and responsibilities.

Do you only play on the weekends?
Do you only play an hour or two a day?
Do you only play late at night?
Do you game only a few hours a week?
Do you use a timer to monitor your gaming?
Do you only play single player/sports games?
Do you only have 1-2 games on your hard drive?
Have you stopped playing video games altogether?

Personally, I like to play to my hearts content on Saturday night. I pencil in the time I want to play on my calendar. I will also use the alarm on the smartphone. When it goes off I stop playing. Finally, I only play single player games. Maybe a sports game but that's about it.

What's your strategy?

Easy, i have long since tired of the "normal" adult vices/hobbies I quit drinking, running around at night (age seems to be a factor in that). I work my days, keep up on my "chores" around my house every night (only take maybe an hour) and am not a TV addict like 99% of the adults i know. Long past live in kids, long past trying to keep up with the jones, long past doing stupid stuff to impress/fit in, lots of free time at night.
 

clok1966

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All of the sudden I became depressed for some reason ....

I wouldn't feel that way, I tired it, unlimited time is like Unlimited cake, its gets old real quick, you do need something to make you appreciate it. Go to any Farm store, its full of "retired" people looking for something to do (yes i live in a farming area of the world).