Ok, do this:
1. put the notebook drive in the desktop
2. get a win98 boot disk with FDISK and FORMAT (dl one from bootdisk.com)
3. boot the desktop with the bootdisk.
4. FDISK and delete and recreate the primary partition on the notebook drive (MAKE SURE YOU FDISK THE RIGHT DRIVE!!) FDISK should automatically set it as Active. BE AWARE that you will lose any data on the notebook drive at this point, copy off anything you want to save. ** You MAY be able to skip this step if youre sure that the notebook is formatted FAT32 **
5. reboot with the boot disk again.
6. from the a: drive, format the notebook drive with "FORMAT x: /S" (AGAIN MAKE SURE x: IS THE NOTEBOOK DRIVE) Dont assume the notebook drive is e: or whatever.
7. -> now the notebook drive is bootable. <- copy the i386 dir from CD over to x:\i386 on the notebook drive
8. put the drive back into the notebook and boot. switch to \i386 and run setup.
9. done
sorry for caps but MAKE SURE you fdisk and format the notebook HD, not your desktops. Dont assume that drive letters will be the same or HDs will be listed in any particular order, use FDISK option 5 (display partitions) to confirm you have the right drive selected. If you fdisk or format the wrong drive you will be sorry indeed. double and triple check when you fdisk and format to make sure its the notebook drive.
**** --> To be safe your best bet when doing this is DISCONNECT your destop drive so the ONLY HD in it is the notebooks HD. That way you cant screw up your desktops HD. <-- ****
This way does work; Ive done it. The only snag you may hit is if the windows install is an upgrade version, not a full install. If its an upgrade it will stall when it looks for a previous version of windows and you cant feed it a CD of the previous window version. So make sure you use a FULL version of whatver you choose.