Originally posted by: torpid
I don't know what type of boss you have, but I would be very hesitant to do any of the above suggestions that involve complaining to the boss or passive aggressive training sheets. Those things can come back to bite you because it shows that you are unable to deal with difficult situations or people.
From a boss's perspective, I would think that you are at least somewhat to blame because this other employee does not trust you or respond to you.
Are you serious? Of course you can be direct to your boss. It shows initiative. As long as you don't make a habit of complaining about situations and you present the matter in a professional matter, no problem.
Again, he doesn't have to present it in a way to make it sound like he or the lady has a problem, but you can present it in a way to show you are looking for better way to further production in the company. For instance, you could address the issue of not having standard protocol to training, and that he would be willing to head up setting up protocol and methods for training so that no problems may arise in the future.
As for a training sheet, if done correctly, it is a great way to make sure you can't be blamed for a coworkers inappropriate behavior. What do you suggest then, grin and bear it. In most cases, yes. But if it affects how the boss views your performance, you must show initiative otherwise you are viewed in just as much a poor light as the other worker. Why just smolder and sweat over the fact that you are viewed in a bad light when you can fix it? If the boss thinks it is partly the person's responsibility, why in the heck would he just sit there and allow the boss to continually think poorly of him? :roll:
I did things this way with my coworker, and he and I don't have any problems. Actually, he confided to me that I was one of the only people in the department he can get along with (although I still think he is an asshat). All he knows is that if he gives me an attitude, I will excuse myself and just go back to doing my own work. Since he knows that, he doesn't step over the line. I am respectful to him, and I expect to be treated with the same amount of respect. But of course since he is a punk to most of the other people, he is going to leave soon.