how do you give a good massage?

[bizmark]

Originally posted by: tcsenter
You can tell you're producing a DEEP massage when the reaction is "OMG [grunt] what are you doing? JESUS, that [groan]...that feels [ugh]...OH CRAP...that hurts!" Then you ask, "Do you want me to stop?" and their response is "JESUS NO!" The pain is not that you're hurting them, but that you're rubbing the tension and soreness out of their muscles. Its the "good" hurt.

That's a perfect description LOL There's a wonderful line between pleasure and pain that you tread when giving massages....

 

[amnesiac]

I tailor my massges to the person receiving them.. Some call for a smoother pattern necessitating creme/oil.. (I stay away from oils b/c many people tend to break out especially on their backs). I only give the full-pressure knot-removal massages to my friends with high pain tolerance.

 

[her209]

A massage in the belly button does the trick everytime

 

[rip22]

Footmassage works great!

 

[incallisto]

Originally posted by: Mwilding

It just scares me when I get that offer from a guy. Ick.

The only time I touch another man is when I am shaking his hand....

Amen.

 

[her209]

Originally posted by: incallisto

Originally posted by: Mwilding

It just scares me when I get that offer from a guy. Ick.

The only time I touch another man is when I am shaking his hand....

Amen.

What about when you deck the guy that just spilled beer into your girlfriend's boobies? :Q

 

[TheOmegaCode]

Like baffled2 said, alot of it is in the surroundings... A cool thing to do, is draw a nice hot bath for you're g/f (I'm assuming that is who it's for), put some candles around, bubbles, etc... If you two are already close, go in there and wash her... Help her out, dry her off, go to a place where you already have a nice sturdy table set up. Dim the lights, have your oils ready, maybee some soft music in the background. First I'd start off by getting the oil on with long deep strokes, then go over every inch of her body slowly...

Most of the massages I give, however, are at school. So, I just sit behind a girl, and start at her neck and work my way down... BTW, each girl likes their massage different, learn what they like. Don't be afraid to ask...

 

[911paramedic]

You pay a professional to do it for you.