How do you deal with temptation/flirtatious girls?

Toggle sidebar Toggle sidebar
S

slackerinabox

Lifer
Mar 15, 2003
12,668
103
106
I've been going out with my gf for nearly 7 years now and a weird thing has happened lately.. Other girls are attracted to me now while they never were in the past....I'm still the fat ugly dude I've always been but now that I've become far more ambitious in my quest to be a film director, well, let's just say that women are far flirtier around me... I guess they find my passion attractive and I think some of the actresses and other people I work with think that I'm a bit of a rebel filmmaker.. here's a quote from one of their blogs (i stumbled upon it)

Life lesson, kiddies: Finance jobs suck ass. Don't take one thinking that you'll make enough money to pursue your artistic ambitions on the side. It never ends up like that. Those jobs suck your soul away. Don't just take my word for it - ask Sam, who directed some student shorts I was in. Ask Sam's friends who were in the corporate world. Ask any NYC actor. Anyway, I'm babbling, and about the worst things...).
Click to expand...

I think people are viewing me as oddly someone to look up to so I'm getting in these odd situations when I'm having meetings with my crew/actors.. Odd brief looks, odd flirtatious remarks, etc.. sh1t i'm not used to.. How does one deal with that? I adore my gf but this is all new to me and kinda exciting.. Really, I'm the biggest geek and now feel like a rockstar but I don't want to take advantage of it - it's freakin' hard!

 
D

dighn

Lifer
Aug 12, 2001
22,820
4
81
Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212
I've been going out with my gf for nearly 7 years now and a weird thing has happened lately.. I seem to be attractive to the opposite sex..
Click to expand...

your gf is the same sex? :Q
 
S

slackerinabox

Lifer
Mar 15, 2003
12,668
103
106
Originally posted by: dighn
Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212
I've been going out with my gf for nearly 7 years now and a weird thing has happened lately.. I seem to be attractive to the opposite sex..
Click to expand...

your gf is the same sex? :Q
Click to expand...

haha.. i would normally be annoyed but that's pretty funny man ;) :beer:
 
F

fs5

Lifer
Jun 10, 2000
11,774
1
0
opposite sex? your story doesn't make sense. if you're attracted to the opposite sex than advances from girl wouldn't be your first problem, your GF is. (ie you need a BF).
 
S

slackerinabox

Lifer
Mar 15, 2003
12,668
103
106
Originally posted by: tweakmm
Giving in to the temptation is not the answer you are looking for no?:beer:
Click to expand...

Not really man... If only she was hip to open relationships! Actually, I wouldn't be hip to her sleeping around either.. I wouldn't cheat on her.. it's just that I'm not used to this and it's driving me up the wall..
 
F

fs5

Lifer
Jun 10, 2000
11,774
1
0
well now that you cleared that one up, if you love your gf than stick with her.
Else leave her, put yourself first. I did.
 
X

xSauronx

Lifer
Jul 14, 2000
19,582
4
81
Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212
How does one deal with that?
Click to expand...

be an asshole: give em the look, respond with the look, mutter at them...

thats just me...and how i deal with everyone...so nevermind
 
S

slackerinabox

Lifer
Mar 15, 2003
12,668
103
106
Originally posted by: xSauronx
Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212
How does one deal with that?
Click to expand...

be an asshole: give em the look, respond with the look, mutter at them...

thats just me...and how i deal with everyone...so nevermind
Click to expand...

Oh, I've been a major asshole.. Not mean but VERY aggressive when working with my crew... I think that's what's so attractive! I'm secretly being a jerk 'cause I'm a big pushover and don't want to be messed with in the long run but ... What's my point? Yeah, I could be more antisocial.. but the problem is that I kinda like the attention, I just don't want it to go anywhere.. Does that make any sense?
 
S

slackerinabox

Lifer
Mar 15, 2003
12,668
103
106
Originally posted by: DuffmanOhYeah
Originally posted by: Gobadgrs
Quit worryin about it fatso! Be glad you even have a girlfriend ;)
Click to expand...

Extremely rude and offensive















and damn funny. :D:beer:
Click to expand...

I found it funny too... I'm the first to call my self a fatso- it's all good... I'd give you both beers but I think you've had enough..
 
X

xSauronx

Lifer
Jul 14, 2000
19,582
4
81
Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212
Originally posted by: xSauronx
Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212
How does one deal with that?
Click to expand...

be an asshole: give em the look, respond with the look, mutter at them...

thats just me...and how i deal with everyone...so nevermind
Click to expand...

Oh, I've been a major asshole.. Not mean but VERY aggressive when working with my crew... I think that's what's so attractive! I'm secretly being a jerk 'cause I'm a big pushover and don't want to be messed with in the long run but ... What's my point? Yeah, I could be more antisocial.. but the problem is that I kinda like the attention, I just don't want it to go anywhere.. Does that make any sense?
Click to expand...

probably, except i just stop at being an asshole so you lost me after that part
 
vi edit

vi edit

Elite Member
Super Moderator
Oct 28, 1999
62,484
8,345
126
Just ask them to do nude scenes in your movies.

You get to see the boobies without commitment on your part and without risk of *completely* cheating on your current relationship.

Problem solved!
 
S

slackerinabox

Lifer
Mar 15, 2003
12,668
103
106
Originally posted by: vi_edit
Just ask them to do nude scenes in your movies.

You get to see the boobies without commitment on your part and without risk of *completely* cheating on your current relationship.

Problem solved!
Click to expand...

one already volunteered to do one! And I turned her down!
 
Kadarin

Kadarin

Lifer
Nov 23, 2001
44,296
16
81
Originally posted by: Geekbabe
Ask yourself what you would like your g/friend's response to temptation to be and then do the same yourself.
Click to expand...

I'm going to have to agree. I've been a victim of a girl's double-standards before, and am wholeheartedly against them.
 
S

slackerinabox

Lifer
Mar 15, 2003
12,668
103
106
Originally posted by: Geekbabe
Ask yourself what you would like your g/friend's response to temptation to be and then do the same yourself.
Click to expand...

I agree on an ethical level and I would never cheat on her.. BUt.. but.. I'm not used to the attention and it's very hard dealing with it..
 
C

cerebusPu

Diamond Member
May 27, 2000
4,008
0
0
damn...send her my way. i need actresses to do nude scenes in my home made pornos...i mean indie films.
 
A

Atrail

Diamond Member
Apr 20, 2001
4,326
0
0
If your heart and soul are with your current gf you shouldn't have a problem.

If you let your eyes and mind run wild, you could have a problem.

So with some self-control and honest thinking, with your right head, you should be Ok...
 
rh71

rh71

No Lifer
Aug 28, 2001
52,844
1,049
126
Act like a hotshot... you'll get even more interest. ;) The pursuit is the best part... you better not act on it though... 7 years is a long time.
 
You must log in or register to reply here.

TRENDING THREADS

COMPANY
RESOURCES
FOLLOW
Top Bottom