My dad has something of a gambling problem that has left him in total ruin. He's 9 months late on his mortgage, 3 months late on his car payment, has alienated his friends and family by borrowing too much (and not turning his life around), and today his $1 checking account took a $24,000 debit from old amex payments he had been avoiding. This descent has taken about a year, so it's not just about how bad today was, but basically he is prepared to kill himself, but he has my car and I have his, and he won't do it until we swap cars.
For that reason I am postponing the swap as long as possible, until I can force him to take a full-time, entry level job and negotiate with his creditors and/or file bankruptcy for the rest. My questions are related to how repo guys find cars that are in another city. The repo guy goes by his house periodically and finds nothing. How long before they realize the car is in another town? I'm totally off the grid as far as my name and address go, so how much time do you think I have with the car? He only owes a few grand on it so I'm sure at some point the bank will weigh the necessary resources to find a car against its value to them. Will the bank report the car stolen? Will this ever escalate into a criminal matter? My ability to get him back on his feet really is determined by how much time he has in the house before it is foreclosed, and how much time I have this car before they pry me out of it.
I have no technical details on this process so any insights from you guys would be a huge help.
I am also a little curious why a bank would authorize such a large debit given the condition of the account.
For that reason I am postponing the swap as long as possible, until I can force him to take a full-time, entry level job and negotiate with his creditors and/or file bankruptcy for the rest. My questions are related to how repo guys find cars that are in another city. The repo guy goes by his house periodically and finds nothing. How long before they realize the car is in another town? I'm totally off the grid as far as my name and address go, so how much time do you think I have with the car? He only owes a few grand on it so I'm sure at some point the bank will weigh the necessary resources to find a car against its value to them. Will the bank report the car stolen? Will this ever escalate into a criminal matter? My ability to get him back on his feet really is determined by how much time he has in the house before it is foreclosed, and how much time I have this car before they pry me out of it.
I have no technical details on this process so any insights from you guys would be a huge help.
I am also a little curious why a bank would authorize such a large debit given the condition of the account.
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