How do I tell my Highschool sweet heart GF that she is gotten too fat for me to stick around.

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habib89

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i think you're shallow.. but whatever.. to each his own...

just dump her.. let her find someone that likes her, and you find someone that you like.. that's the long and the short of it
 
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cKGunslinger

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Wait, this is the same 'tard from earlier than claimed he was going to bang the older UPS girl, but needed our advice on how to proceed, despite the "fact" that he's independently weathly and she often "checks out his crotch" when he answers the door in his tighty-whiteys? :confused:

OMG! :laugh:
 
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cavemanmoron

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If your worried about 10-25 lb weight gain your an AS$$.


I feel sorry for you,if when you are 40 years old,and you have gained 20 lbs from what you weigh now.................


I weighed 210lbs at 21 years old,
I weigh about 260lbs now.

Yes I know I need to lose 25 lbs or so,but that pics of that girl do not look FAT. :|
 
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Optimus

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I can't believe this obvious 'bait N troll' thread has attracted this much of exactly the response he was after...

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torpid

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Originally posted by: Optimus
I can't believe this obvious 'bait N troll' thread has attracted this much of exactly the response he was after...

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I was thinking the same thing. I especially enjoyed his replies to people that "agree" with him. The guy was not seeking advice, that is for sure.
 
cKGunslinger

cKGunslinger

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Originally posted by: torpid
Originally posted by: Optimus
I can't believe this obvious 'bait N troll' thread has attracted this much of exactly the response he was after...

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I was thinking the same thing. I especially enjoyed his replies to people that "agree" with him. The guy was not seeking advice, that is for sure.
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Modus Operandi --> Text
 
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ericb

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Heh...if you're complaining about 10-20 pounds then you totally deserve what you will eventually end up with. I'd almost guarantee she'll lose the 10-20 pounds as soon as you're no longer in her life. I have to agree with most of the other posters...let her go so she can find a real man...she doesn't need boys in her life at her age.
 
secretanchitman

secretanchitman

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let the games begin....

but its up to you. if sex really matters to you, then leave her. but if its a mix in between personality and other things, then...........lol, stick with her.
 
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stevty2889

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You need to add another answer to the poll, and it should say something like this:

I am a shallow jackass and she deserves better.
 
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crooked22

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I think its shallow to coplain about 10-15 pounds, but I am not here to judge you. I, in fact, will help you out keeping this girl hot.

First of all, ask yourself this: If you met a woman you truly love (and only you can answer that), but that woman was 50+ lbs overweight, and rather plain, would you still do her? Keep in mind that you must love her first and like her second when you answer this.

If you do her, you are not shallow. If you do not, then you are.

Ask yourself whether you really liked this girl, or if you just want a weekend booty.

Now, that said, dont tell her she is fat. Everyone has different standards of what fat is, and yours seem to be a bit uptight.

Now, again that said, Everyone also has different needs. Some of us crave an attractive partners because we a) feel complimented by their looks, or b) we like to look at them. So there is a need to have a partner that is attractive/fit (again, all relative). Not everyone has them or even think about that, but is there... I dont mind a chubby girl so long she doesnt cross to the lard-ass territory (for me this is, a curvy girl with "meat on her bones"). Once in lard-ass territory, I have to hide her from friends and relatives.

This is what Id do if I was shallow or had a high need for "hot chicks".
"Honey I like doing IT with you. I liked you from the begining because you were cool, pretty, hip, etc. I was truly attracted to you. I find you attractive when you take care of your body. It makes me really horny to know that you like yourself enough to sweat the extras."

This only works while they are gaining weight. Once they are fat, if you say this, you are controlling, selfish, and you better bring her some ho-hos... Otherwise she will keep nagging. Any mention of Atkins, gastric by-pass, or lean cuisines and they will sit on you.
 
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Smackem

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Originally posted by: crooked22
I think its shallow to coplain about 10-15 pounds, but I am not here to judge you. I, in fact, will help you out keeping this girl hot.

First of all, ask yourself this: If you met a woman you truly love (and only you can answer that), but that woman was 50+ lbs overweight, and rather plain, would you still do her? Keep in mind that you must love her first and like her second when you answer this.

If you do her, you are not shallow. If you do not, then you are.

Ask yourself whether you really liked this girl, or if you just want a weekend booty.

Now, that said, dont tell her she is fat. Everyone has different standards of what fat is, and yours seem to be a bit uptight.

Now, again that said, Everyone also has different needs. Some of us crave an attractive partners because we a) feel complimented by their looks, or b) we like to look at them. So there is a need to have a partner that is attractive/fit (again, all relative). Not everyone has them or even think about that, but is there... I dont mind a chubby girl so long she doesnt cross to the lard-ass territory (for me this is, a curvy girl with "meat on her bones"). Once in lard-ass territory, I have to hide her from friends and relatives.

This is what Id do if I was shallow or had a high need for "hot chicks".
"Honey I like doing IT with you. I liked you from the begining because you were cool, pretty, hip, etc. I was truly attracted to you. I find you attractive when you take care of your body. It makes me really horny to know that you like yourself enough to sweat the extras."

This only works while they are gaining weight. Once they are fat, if you say this, you are controlling, selfish, and you better bring her some ho-hos... Otherwise she will keep nagging. Any mention of Atkins, gastric by-pass, or lean cuisines and they will sit on you.
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The whole thing is crooked, I wouldn't fall in love with a girl unless I was physically attracted to her. Men fall in lust first, then love.
 
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Smackem

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And I think having me a take a picture of MYSELF holding a sign with someones screen name on it is silly. I was just gonna browse through my own pics. I was hoping you guys would want to see the chicks, not me. But, I can show ya the caliber of girlie we a are talkin about here.
 
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amoeba

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Aug 7, 2003
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Originally posted by: Smackem
And I think having me a take a picture of MYSELF holding a sign with someones screen name on it is silly. I was just gonna browse through my own pics. I was hoping you guys would want to see the chicks, not me. But, I can show ya the caliper of girlie we a are talkin about here.
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you should learn how to spell caliber first.
 
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NikPreviousAcct

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"Baby, I'm sorry but I'm a shallow ass dumbfvck. I haven't really ever cared about you. I'm dating you because you're hot, not because I'm deep at all. I'm really superficial. I'm not smart enough to know that looks will fade and that I should be dating someone for who they are, not how they look right now, so I'm dumping you. Good luck finding a man that isn't a butthead, though. I'm sure you will!"
 
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imported_Pablo

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Originally posted by: Smackem
And I think having me a take a picture of MYSELF holding a sign with someones screen name on it is silly. I was just gonna browse through my own pics. I was hoping you guys would want to see the chicks, not me. But, I can show ya the caliper of girlie we a are talkin about here.
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Pics of you. Holding, "This is me, Pablo" on a sign.

 
Muse

Muse

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After more than 200 posts I'm sure somebody has said it, but the most obvious thing I can think of is that you ogle thin sexy looking chicks when you are out together. There's no way she can not get the message from that and you wouldn't have to say a thing unless she calls you on it. You can do it in such a way as to not bring recriminating comments, etc. on yourself. That all depends on how sensitive your sweat heart is, what her personality is like. You should know the answer to that.

Of course, you can do other things like hint that you are concerned with your own physical attractiveness and that you are doing things to improve it - eating well and not too much, working out, burning calories... all without mentioning her problem at all. You don't have to do it all at once. It doesn't have to be a Seinfeld episode - do it gradually and see what happens. Maybe she'll get the idea - it pays to be physically attractive. It may take a month or more before she starts to get into it if the ideas are new to her.
 
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