How do I tell my Highschool sweet heart GF that she is gotten too fat for me to stick around.

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EyeMNathan

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What this kid doesn't understand is that if he is only in a relationship for sex, then he shouldnt be in a "relationship". If you want sex with good lookin ladies, then just have sex with good lookin ladies, christ you don't need to make some girl think you love her and then break her heart to get good sex.
 

OffTopic1

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Okay, I had dated this girl for maybe 3-4 years off and on. She is smart, funny, would do anything for me, etc etc.
What wrong with you?
She sound like a great person that love and care for you. Lay off the porn and get a ring onto her finger befor some lucky bastard beat you to it.
 

Vic

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Just tell her bluntly that you're a shallow asshole, a waste of human flesh who should do the world a favor and off himself, and that you don't deserve her.
 

MoPHo

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Originally posted by: Oscar1613
Originally posted by: MoPHo
tell her you are worried about her health. only do this is if she, is infact, fat. if she just went from a size 2 to a size 4, you're just really shallow and should dump her now so she can find someone who actually deserves her.

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Ah, thank you :)
 

MikeMike

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Originally posted by: NFS4
Wow, this can't end good. How much does she weigh?

Also, there are more subtle weighs of telling a girl she is looking "plumper than usual." If my GF tells me she looks fat or think she looks fat in something, I just tell her:

"Bla Bla Bla, you always complain about not looking right in something, yet you're the first one that doesn't want to do any exercise. You can't just expect the pounds to just magically come off if you eat the same way you do now and not do SOME exercise."

Or.............

I'll just playfully poke her in the stomach or pinch her stomach and do the "Pilsbury Doughboy sound" while joking around.

That being said, she lost 10 lbs in the past month. Don't know how she did it, but whatever ;) Not that she was fat to begin with, but she wasn't happy with her self image.

eh, you keep goin at it with her and makin her sweat, weight will slowly come off. the more you do her, the more calories she burns, the more she loses weight ;)
 

neutralizer

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Originally posted by: Vic
Just tell her bluntly that you're a shallow asshole, a waste of human flesh who should do the world a favor and off himself, and that you don't deserve her.

:thumbsup: well said.
 

Banana

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Originally posted by: Ulfwald
You really are a shallow piece of crap.

Shallow Hal?

To the OP: Dump her!! You'll be doing a big favor. To her.
 

NFS4

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Originally posted by: EyeMNathan
What this kid doesn't understand is that if he is only in a relationship for sex, then he shouldnt be in a "relationship". If you want sex with good lookin ladies, then just have sex with good lookin ladies, christ you don't need to make some girl think you love her and then break her heart to get good sex.


Not only that, but how can gaining 15 pounds make the sex BAD??? 50, OK, I could almost see that. But 15? Come on.
 

rh71

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you just wanna "nail hot chicks". Why do you even care about this 1 girl ? :roll:
 

magomago

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Originally posted by: daveymark
the metrosexual and the escort have both reported in, so this thread is over

:D


I'd say that you are worried about her health, because its the truth.
 

Nebor

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If you're not attracted to her anymore, that's that. Dump her. It doesn't matter if you're shallow, or she's fat. That's irrelevant. You don't want her anymore, so get rid of her.

Ignore all the people in here who would rather "settle."
 

Vic

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I'm curious about just how much weight the OP has gained during the same period of time...
 

mwtgg

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Originally posted by: Vic
Just tell her bluntly that you're a shallow asshole, a waste of human flesh who should do the world a favor and off himself, and that you don't deserve her.

You said it better than I.

Run out in front of a bus, Smackem.
 

Smackem

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Originally posted by: Nebor
If you're not attracted to her anymore, that's that. Dump her. It doesn't matter if you're shallow, or she's fat. That's irrelevant. You don't want her anymore, so get rid of her.

Ignore all the people in here who would rather "settle."

I knew it all along, I just had to have someone tell me. I can't beilive someone on ATOT told me though. :)
 

Praetorian7

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Originally posted by: Oscar1613
Originally posted by: MoPHo
tell her you are worried about her health. only do this is if she, is infact, fat. if she just went from a size 2 to a size 4, you're just really shallow and should dump her now so she can find someone who actually deserves her.

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No sh|t....you give all men a bad name with this. Just about everyone gains some weight as they get older.


Originally posted by: mwtgg
Kill yourself.

Agreed




 

DainBramaged

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Originally posted by: MoPHo
tell her you are worried about her health. only do this is if she, is infact, fat. if she just went from a size 2 to a size 4, you're just really shallow and she should dump you now.

Fixed.

 

Vic

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Originally posted by: Smackem
Originally posted by: Nebor
If you're not attracted to her anymore, that's that. Dump her. It doesn't matter if you're shallow, or she's fat. That's irrelevant. You don't want her anymore, so get rid of her.

Ignore all the people in here who would rather "settle."
I knew it all along, I just had to have someone tell me. I can't beilive someone on ATOT told me though. :)
That's because he's gay. Seriously.
 

imported_ArtVandalay

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Posts like this are going to incite me to invent a mechanism by which you can slap others over the internet. I'll make millions. Thank you, OP!
 

LtPage1

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my god, youre an asshole. leave her now, and then kill yourself. stop inflicting your amoral egomaniacal self on women, and just kill yourself.
 

mwtgg

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Originally posted by: Smackem
Originally posted by: Nebor
If you're not attracted to her anymore, that's that. Dump her. It doesn't matter if you're shallow, or she's fat. That's irrelevant. You don't want her anymore, so get rid of her.

Ignore all the people in here who would rather "settle."

I knew it all along, I just had to have someone tell me. I can't beilive someone on ATOT told me though. :)

There's nothing wrong with dumping someone, but that doesn't mean you still aren't a total douchebag.