How do I tell my best friend that I'm dating his sister behind his back? *UPDATE* All is well :-)

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TommyVercetti

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You and your gf should disappear for a while. Soon his brother will be worried, and upon finding out where she is living, he will show up there. Open the door with a big smile on your face, looking all happy. His brother sees his sister with you, and BAM right there without thinking you are toast. Oh and then your sister can tell him how you too were in love and were planning on getting married.
 

tnitsuj

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Originally posted by: TommyVercetti
You and your gf should disappear for a while. Soon his brother will be worried, and upon finding out where she is living, he will show up there. Open the door with a big smile on your face, looking all happy. His brother sees his sister with you, and BAM right there without thinking you are toast. Oh and then your sister can tell him how you too were in love and were planning on getting married.

Like Scarface.
 

fs5

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Originally posted by: NFS4
Originally posted by: fivespeed5
Originally posted by: silverpig
Ever done your sister? Cause I have.

:)

nice :)

I don't have a sister so I guess "sister" in this context is you playing "charm the wonder snake"

I think he meant that's what you should say to your friend. Seriously, try that as your opening line and see what happens. hehe
 

stormbv

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This is pretty tough. I had to tell my best friend that his serious girlfriend/future fiancee was doing someone else. At least this is an occassion for happiness.
 

Wingznut

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Originally posted by: NFS4
Originally posted by: fivespeed5
Originally posted by: silverpig
Ever done your sister? Cause I have.

:)

nice :)

I don't have a sister so I guess "sister" in this context is you playing "charm the wonder snake"
What he means is:

Ever done your sister?
Cause I have (done YOUR sister).

 

Nitemare

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Originally posted by: NFS4
Originally posted by: fivespeed5
Originally posted by: silverpig
Ever done your sister? Cause I have.

:)

nice :)

I don't have a sister so I guess "sister" in this context is you playing "charm the wonder snake"

No, he mean't say that to your friend...a play on the old
"Got any naked pictures of your wife?"
"Hell, no"
"Want some?"
 

RossMAN

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Originally posted by: ragazzo
surprise him at the alter by asking him to be your best man ;)

LOL Call him up and ask what's up then he says nothing, what's up with you?

Then you ask "so what are you doing in the spring of 2004?"

He says "WTF? Nothing I guess"

You say "good because I need a best man"

LOL
 

TheNinja

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I think it would really depend on the seriousness of your relationship with his sister and how far sexually you have done with her. If you are using her as a booty call, then look out big time (and he'd be right to beat your ass). But if you are serious about this girl and really care about her (or even love her), then he will be mad but he should realize that there are probably worse people than his best friend that his sister could be with or end up with.
 

optoman

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She's old enough and hopefully wise enough to know what she is doing. Just take her brother out with her and the both of you should tell him. It'll be wierd but its not like you are going to marry her, atleast not yet.
 

NFS4

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Originally posted by: Staley8
I think it would really depend on the seriousness of your relationship with his sister and how far sexually you have done with her. If you are using her as a booty call, then look out big time (and he'd be right to beat your ass). But if you are serious about this girl and really care about her (or even love her), then he will be mad but he should realize that there are probably worse people than his best friend that his sister could be with or end up with.

Oh god nah. I'm not sleeping with his sister. Not even close. I ain't that kinda guy! :) We just enjoy each other's company and do a lot of things together out on our own and we are BOTH serious about this.

I feel that he may be initially angry, but I don't think he'd hold a grudge for too long.
 

amcdonald

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Just tell him, if he's a good friend he'd probably be happy for you & her. If he gets pissed that more than likely means that he thinks you aren't good enough for her, so screw him. I have friends who have tried to hook me up with their younger sisters because they know i'm a good person.
 

miri

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LOL, I thought you all were in high school or something

Everyone is way old enough to be making their own decisions

I don't see why he would have a problem with his best friend dating his sister

Wouldn't a protective person be more happy that their sister is going out with someone they know instead of some random person?
 

BooGiMaN

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You guys are going about this the wrong way...what needs to happen is he needs to save his freinds life just like in the movies (setup an elaborate sequence of events in which u ultimatley end up rescuing him and saving his life even though ur the cause of it) then at the end when he is thanking you ..say oh no prob..i had to save you..cuz i sorta like ur sis and we are going out...

he will look at you, get really really mad, then smile and laugh.. pat you on the back and you two will walk away into the sunset while in the back groud there are exploding buildings and burning cars, with the bad guys all dead *roll credits*
 

flavio

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I dated this girl for two years, and then the nagging started: "I wanna know your name, . ."