How do I tell my best friend that I'm dating his sister behind his back? *UPDATE* All is well :-)

[BlamoHammer]

Originally posted by: NFS4
He's very protective of her, yet he knows that we are close...I just don't think that he knew that we were THIS close. I think that he may have a suspicion about it, but I'm not sure and he hasn't said anything to me.

I feel bad b/c his parents know and my parents know (his parents love me to death and my parents love her as well), yet he has no clue. I'd rather just sit down and tell him in person before he hears it through the grapevine, but I won't be able to meet with him until the weekend. And calling him to tell him about it just seems so impersonal.

Or should I just not say anything and let him find out on his own?...nah that sounds like a bad idea!! He'd probably murder me!!

What's the best approach?

Ask him what you should name his nephew

 

[cain]

Originally posted by: silverpig
Ever done your sister? Cause I have.

hahahahahhahahahahahahahahahahaha, man you just made my day.

 

[Que-TiP]

its a little too late...

<you> do you know what your sister has for lunch today?
<him> no
<you> deeeeez nuts!!

 

[lowtech1]

Originally posted by: NFS4
He's very protective of her, yet he knows that we are close...I just don't think that he knew that we were THIS close. I think that he may have a suspicion about it, but I'm not sure and he hasn't said anything to me.

I feel bad b/c his parents know and my parents know (his parents love me to death and my parents love her as well), yet he has no clue. I'd rather just sit down and tell him in person before he hears it through the grapevine, but I won't be able to meet with him until the weekend. And calling him to tell him about it just seems so impersonal.

Or should I just not say anything and let him find out on his own?...nah that sounds like a bad idea!! He'd probably murder me!!

What's the best approach?

What make you think that he doesn't know?
What do you take your best friend for?
After all you are his best friend & the girl is his sis.

 

[amcdonald]

any resolution yet?

 

[Spac3d]

Originally posted by: Que-TiP
its a little too late...

<you> do you know what your sister has for lunch today?
<him> no
<you> deeeeez nuts!!

That is a great answer

 

[ElFenix]

Originally posted by: amcdonald
any resolution yet?

ummm... dude left a message, other dude came back and said, "yeah, i figured something was going on. enjoy"

 

[dman]

Originally posted by: amcdonald
any resolution yet?

It's posted earlier in the thread.

Phew, he just called me back. He said congratulations and that he'd make this ONE exception for me.

He said that he had sorta been noticing it for the past few months anyway. he said that he knows that I will take good care of her and she of me.

What a load off and what a friend!!!

Our Ace Reporter should 'update' the title and first post. Although it may prevent others from reading further in and enjoying some of the responses here....

 

[NFS4]

Well, I'm still alive so I guess everything is OK

 

[bleeb]

Originally posted by: Spac3d

Originally posted by: Que-TiP
its a little too late...

<you> do you know what your sister has for lunch today?
<him> no
<you> deeeeez nuts!!

That is a great answer

LMAO!! Hahahhaha

 

[alocurto]

Originally posted by: NFS4
He's very protective of her, yet he knows that we are close...I just don't think that he knew that we were THIS close. I think that he may have a suspicion about it, but I'm not sure and he hasn't said anything to me.

I feel bad b/c his parents know and my parents know (his parents love me to death and my parents love her as well), yet he has no clue. I'd rather just sit down and tell him in person before he hears it through the grapevine, but I won't be able to meet with him until the weekend. And calling him to tell him about it just seems so impersonal.

Or should I just not say anything and let him find out on his own?...nah that sounds like a bad idea!! He'd probably murder me!!

What's the best approach?

Scarface anyone?

 

[brunswickite]

update first post

 

[BruinEd03]

Originally posted by: NFS4
Well, I'm still alive so I guess everything is OK

so did u actually tell him? or did u not tell him and that's why you're ok?

-Ed

 

[pennylane]

Good job. Have a :beer:.